1928
2024
James Michael McGrevey, 95, of Manchester, NH, passed away peacefully on March 14, 2024.
Born in Manchester, NH on November 19, 1928, he was the oldest son of James M. and Ethel (Shute) McGrevey. He was raised in Manchester and later relocated to Derry, NH, before returning to the Queen City.
He graduated from Pinkerton Academy, Class of 1946. James attended St. Anselm College and afterwards St. Mary’s Seminary, Baltimore, MD.
He served with the United States Army.
He joined the City of Manchester Fire Department in 1952 and climbed to the rank of captain. In recognition of his dedication to the betterment of the city, James received the Key to the City of Manchester. He retired as the Chief’s Aide.
His hobbies included reading, cribbage, golfing, bowling, and spending time with his family. He held membership with the Intervale Country Club for many years. James was an avid bowler and played in the bowling league at Lakeside Lines, winning several trophies. He was member of the East Side Club, American Legion Henry J. Sweeney Post #2, as well as the Manchester Fireman’s Relief Association. James served on the Board of Directors at Members First Credit Union for more than ten years.
James was proud of his Irish heritage. His family was the center of his life. He was a loving and dedicated husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. Those who knew him will never forget his kind and gentlemanly ways. He will be profoundly missed by his family, friends, and anyone who had the pleasure of knowing this remarkable man.
Family members include his high school sweetheart and love of his life, his wife of seventy-two years, Betty Lou (Scroggins) McGrevey; two daughters, Judy Puchacz and her husband, Paul, of Manchester, and Eleanor Croteau and her husband, Al, of Litchfield; a son, Brian McGrevey of Manchester; his grandchildren, Carolyn Preve and her husband, Ken, of Epsom, Heidi Puchacz and her husband, Jon, of Henniker, Candace Liukkonen and her husband, Dustin, of Auburn, Jessica Croteau of Stoneham, MA, Lauren Croteau of Ossipee, Ashley McGrevey of Manchester, and Brianna McGrevey of Delray Beach, FL; his great-grandchildren, Nicholas, Connor, Julia, Cameron, Colin, Ava, and Ella; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by a brother, George McGrevey; a daughter, Elaine Byrnes; and a grandson, James Puchacz.
Services: Calling hours are Wednesday, March 20, 2024, from 6 to 8 PM at Connor-Healy Funeral Home and Cremation Center, 537 Union Street, Manchester, NH.
The funeral Mass and burial in Forest Hill Cemetery, Derry, will be held privately.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Manchester Fireman’s Relief Association, 100 Merrimack Street, Manchester, NH 03101 or to Community Hospice House, 210 Naticook Road, Merrimack, NH 03054.
For more information visit: www.connorhealy.com.
Myla
March 26, 2024
Captain James McGrevey served on the Manchester Fire Department with my father, Tom Padden, for many years. My Dad always spoke so highly of him, not only as a dedicated firefighter, but also as a good friend. That friendship extended beyond professional firefighting responsibilities to frequent Saturday evening dining excursions when my parents, Tom and Marjorie Padden, had the opportunity to enjoy the company of "Jim and Betty McGrevey" at one of Manchester´s finest restaurants. A post dinner nightcap was often enjoyed at our house. Through these visits, my brothers and I had the good fortune of meeting Mr. and Mrs. McGrevey and storing memories of two kind and special people.
We extend our condolences to all in the McGrevey family and raise our glasses to Captain James McGrevey and a life well lived.
Myla
Peter Perich
March 25, 2024
Our prayers and thoughts are with Jim. From the children of his good firefighter, East Side Club, and Sweeney Post friend, Peter Perich. I am sure they are back together again.
Charlene Murray
March 21, 2024
My sincere condolences to the family’s of Jim McGrevey. I remember my dad, Larry Casey (Engine 3/Lake Ave St) speaking fondly of him as they shared hard work and many laughs. Sorry for your loss.
Charlene (Casey) Murray
Nanette Paradis
March 21, 2024
Sorry for your loss Eleanor. Thinking of you. Nanette Vigneault Paradis
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Kathy DeFreitas
March 20, 2024
Sincere Sympathy to The McGrevey Family . May He rest in Peace. Richard n Kathy DeFreitas and Family
Collette Mckenna
March 20, 2024
Brian & Family,
No words can ease the pain you & your Family are going through right now.
Thoughts & Prayers during this difficult time
Collette McKenna
Janice Baker
March 19, 2024
Eleanor and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad´s passing.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Janice Baker
Richard McGahey Davenport Florida
March 18, 2024
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you
Captain McGrevey was the one person that help me the most getting hired by the Manchester Fire Department and I am eternally grateful.
Such a kind man with a good family they were good neighbors in our south end neighborhood.
My sincerest condolences to Mrs. McGrevey and the family.
Robert D Machain
March 18, 2024
Captain McGrevey, Thank you for your service RDM Windham NH

Michael and Ada McGrevey
March 17, 2024
Blessed to have had him as our Uncle Jim. Prayers to Aunt Betty and all the family. He lived a most honorable life.
VINNIE TOLAND
March 15, 2024
Sincere respects to all loved ones and acquaintances of Captain Jim McGrevey. His professional firefighting career was one well respected by his peers. Always the gentleman, reliable, loyal, a calming influence with "follow his example" style of quietly applied leadership. His fellow firemen always had every confidence that Captain McGrevey was doing the right thing. Great family man that served his country & community.... just the way it ought to be, as so conspicuously demonstrated, by that greatest generation of Americans he belonged to.
Surely, he was the quiet, but valorous role model. That too, just the way it ought to be. As we mourn his passing, Angels rejoice and celebrate his coming home into eternal life. Again.... just the way it ought to be. The Lord Jesus Christ did promise.
Joyceann Fitzgerald-Guill
March 15, 2024
Judy and family,
I am so sorry to learn of your dad's passing. He and my dad were great friends on the Manchester Fire Department. My dad had a lot of respect for your dad as a man, father and firefighter. I am sure the are both together now reminiscing.
In Sympathy,
Joyceann Fitzgerald-Guill
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