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Donna: I was so sorry to hear of Uncle Joe's passing. You were both such incredible assets in our Joburg RSA mission. You and your family are in my prayers.
Tara Chandler Little Bear
December 23, 2010 | Emmett, ID


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Sep 17, 1930 - Dec 18, 2010
Donna: I was so sorry to hear of Uncle Joe's passing. You were both such incredible assets in our Joburg RSA mission. You and your family are in my prayers.
Tara Chandler Little Bear
December 23, 2010 | Emmett, ID
Donna and Family,
From the time we moved into the Orchard Third ward on, we have valued you and Joe as great friends. He was the Elders quorum president when we moved in and I remember well my first meeting with him at our home. Since we had children of similar ages, we got to spend some great times together in church activities. Our sincere condolences to you all. Joe was a great man and a great leader. We will all miss him.
Charles and Mary Lou Burgoyne & family.
Charles Burgoyne
December 22, 2010 | Bountiful, UT
Dear Donna and Family,
Charles and I are so sorry and surprised to hear of the passing of our dear friend, Joe. We love you and want you to know you will be in our prayers. How grateful we are for the wonderful plan of happiness -- and that we can look forward to another reunion in a happier world.
Much love to each of you,
Charles and Mary Lou Burgoyne
Mary Lou Burgoyne
December 22, 2010 | Bountiful, UT
Dr.David Vandemerwe and family,
I was so sorry to hear of your father's demise. You were fortunate to have such a wonderful father. Some of us didn't have that advantage. Our family would like to express our condolences on your loss. We will remember you and your family in our prayers. Your Dad is in a wonderful place now.
Dennis, Crystal, David & Tony Burnham
Burnham family
December 22, 2010 | Bountiful, UT
Donna and Family,
Joe was a member of the Weyher family as well. We will all miss him. I remember Joe loving three things most of all: his family,his church and his country. I know you all are, but be especially proud of Joe, since few men were his equal in anything he ever tried to accomplish. I will miss him.
Rob Weyher
Robert Weyher
December 22, 2010 | Coalville, UT
Dear Vande Merwe family, I love you all and wanted you all to know of my love for you and for your wonderful father, Uncle Joe. He was like a second father to me and my siblings growing up and I will never forget his jovial and joking nature, especially when it came to hosting us in your home. To this day, I try to get young kids to take off their freckles with buttermilk. I love you all and wish I could have been there to tell you in person. God bless you all. With all my love, Bart R. Finklea
Bart Finklea
December 21, 2010 | Saint George, UT
I will always remember Uncle Joe. What a wonderful man who taught me to love Buttermilk. God Bless you til we meet again.
Mindi Lamoreaux (Finklea)
Mindi Lamoreaux (Finklea)
December 21, 2010 | Saratoga Springs, UT
Dear Vande Merwe Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your fine patriarch. I never saw Joe without a smile on his face... and proving that it was sincerely his demeanor were the smiles beaming from his wife and children as well. Much love to each of you at this tender time. Raye Isom (Lisa Brown)
December 21, 2010
Dear Family
Our deepest Sympathy.
I knew Joe many years ago, we happened to work together for a shor time and also went to the U of U .We connected right away, maybe because both of us where foreigners. Him from Holland and I from Sweden. He was a great person.
Sincerely
Lennart Lansfeldt
December 21, 2010
Surrounded by his loving family, our dearly loved husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend passed away on Dec.18, 2010. Dad was born September 17, 1930 in the lovely town of Dordrecht, Netherlands to Jan van de Merwe and Cornelia Lucia Wetter. He was born the third son of nine children. They all learned the value of hard work. The family and the country suffered through World War II. They were dedicated to the LDS Church and immigrated to Utah after the war. Dad and two of his brothers came across first. At age 16 he was listed on the ships manifest as occupation: carpenter. The family settled in Glendale and got to work. Dad was a tall handsome Dutch boy with a flat top haircut and a cute accent. He served his church in the Eastern States Mission. He went to work for Weyher Construction, starting at the bottom and working his way up to Vice-President. He was drafted before he was even a citizen and served in the US Army. He was very good at his job and built many of the freeway bridges that we drive over to this day. He commanded respect from the workers; they called him Uncle Joe. He was working on a bank building and noticed a cute secretary named Donna Moore. He courted her and made her his eternal companion on April 18, 1958 in the Salt Lake Temple. If work took him out of town he was miserable without his "bunkie." He built a home for his future family when he was 29. Dad was very generous and the home was always open to foster children, exchange students, visitors, guests and people he was helping. The children worked hard by maintaining the yard and other properties he acquired. He was grateful to be an American and loved to fly the flag. When traveling outside the country he would keep his passport next to his heart; he didn't want any trouble getting back in. He served in City Government. He encouraged and supported all his children in their education. They were richly rewarded for their work on his investment properties as they were sold to pay for their educations. All of his boys earned graduate degrees. To make sure they went back to school in the fall he would put them on such hard jobs at Weyher that they couldn't wait to get back to school. Even after Dad retired he kept working hard. Mom and Dad served as senior missionaries in South Africa, Mission President in Nigeria and Bishop. His faith, family and hard work were the themes of his life. He bought a large historic building in Kanosh because it needed someone to save it before it fell down; plus it gave them another excuse to work hard. He was strong and healthy until he was stricken with cancer at almost age 80. He was preceded in death by his parents, his brothers Pieter and Adrian, and his sister Lena (Dahl) Goble. He is survived by his wife of 52 years Donna Moore Vande Merwe, his children Adrian (Jamie) V., Joe (Kari) V., Audrey (Greg) Buttars, David (Kim) V., and Robert (Liz) V., brothers and sisters John (Gladys) V., Steve (Klazina) V., Corrie Asmus, Bill (Janice) V., Bea V. and 15 grandchildren. We will always miss his giant spirit. Funeral services will be held on Tuesday Dec. 21 at at 1 p.m. at the North Salt Lake Stake Center, 261 East Center St., North Salt Lake. Friends may call Monday the 20th from 6 to 8 p.m. at Russon Brothers Mortuary, 295 N. Main, Bountiful, or Tuesday from 11:30a.m. to 12:30 p.m at the church. Interment will be at the Bountiful City Cemetery. Donations may be made in his memory to the Perpetual Education Fund at www.LDSPhilanthropies.org.
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