Photo courtesy of Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin
Oct 24, 1943 - Feb 16, 2026
Pam was a wonderful friend, the best. She loved Jesus and everyone. A true sister in Christ and I will miss her till we meet again.
Lea Sessions
March 09, 2026 | Fenton, MO | Friend
Dear Shannon and family. Please accept our condolences about your sweet mom’s passing. Pam was the sweetest, loving and fun people I knew. I loved her taste in decorating and tried to learn from her. You will have an abundance of precious memories to carry in your heart. Big hugs,
John and Mary Beth
Mary Beth Mitchell
March 02, 2026 | O´Fallon, MO | Friend
Pam, you were my idol as a child and as an adult. You put forth 100% in everything that you did. You put up with a lot of Shannon and my shenanigans to say the least. I remember watching out the window of my classroom window at Holy Infant and seeing you pull up in your Jeep with one of your cocker spaniels. You taught me how to make a warm melt. I made them for my children as a comfort food. You and I shared the love for kindness, children our dogs and of course cosmetics. I will think of...
Beth Miller
February 28, 2026 | Lake St Louis, MO | Friend
We had some great times together and talked often of being with Jesus! She’s where her heart always was and I will see her again soon! Praise the Lord!!
Connie Harris
February 28, 2026 | Eureka, MO | Friend
Pam was a once in a lifetime friend. I will miss her and all the things we did together but I know she was called home to where she always wanted to be. When my time comes I plan to see her again.
John McDermott
February 27, 2026 | Weldon Spring, MO | Friend
I'll miss my forever friend. Praying the comfort that only God can give to those in her family. I'm looking forward to seeing her again in our heavenly home.
Hank Sims
February 26, 2026 | St. Peters, MO | Friend
Stacy, so sorry for your loss of your mother. Though we didn’t keep in contact after she moved away from Cherry Hill West, but we certainly had a wonderful time with her and your dad when they were there as Neighbors. Again sorry for your loss.
Tom and Marge Haley
February 23, 2026 | Friend
So sorry Scott. Praying for all. My sincere condolences.
Johnie and Helen Moss
February 23, 2026 | Wildwood | Friend
Pam and I were colleges at Macy’s. She was so funny and a beautiful person in side and out.
Cindy Davis
February 21, 2026 | Helena, AR | Friend
Pamela Mary Schmidt (Fieser) went home to be with her Lord and Savior on the afternoon of February 16th 2026. She spent her morning happy and healthy watching her great granddaughter Haylee play volleyball.
Beloved mother of Stacey Turner, Scott (Heather) Fieser and Shannon (Danny) Soaib; loving grandmother of Carley Turner, Ellena Turner, Mason Fieser, Wil Fieser, Levi Fieser, Madalyn (Adam) Perrier, Taetumn (Ethan) Harris; and Grantland Soaib; great-grandmother of Haylee Perrier/Soaib; former spouse of Louis (Patricia) Fieser and Jan Schmidt; step-mother of Chelsea (Brian) Parks and Katie (Andy) Boyer; cousin of Diane Hootman, Don Basler; her beloved dog Luke and many life long friends.
Pam was born on October 24th 1943 and lived a vibrant full life marked by unwavering faith and deep devotion to her family and friends. She was spunky to her core — never afraid to speak her mind. She was a poet and famous for her stories and jokes. “Mom, tell us the one about…..”
Above all, Pam loved Jesus! Her faith was the foundation of her life. She trusted the Lord and made sure others knew they were deeply loved — by her and by God. Her bible was well worn because she prayed faithfully. She quoted Scripture at just the right moments, and believed wholeheartedly in the power of prayer and promise of eternal life.
She modeled to all kindness, forgiveness, resilience, optimism, and the importance of keeping your sense of humor — even when life gets hard.
Pam deeply loved her family and friends. Her children and great/grandchildren were her greatest blessings. She was a devoted wife, loving mother, cherished great/grandmother and faithful friend. She poured her heart into creating a home. Every home she created was meticulously decorated and made you feel warm, comfortable and safe. She worked so hard her entire life running a household, supporting a self-employed business and over 30 years in retail sales. The truth is she never stopped moving and shaking.
Pam also had such a giving heart to those in need. She supported many charities such as Samaritan’s purse, St Jude’s and Animal welfare.
Though our hearts are heavy, we find comfort in knowing she is at peace. Her faith guided her life, and her love will continue to guide ours until we meet again. She forever lives in our hearts and her voice is clearly heard in our heads.
2 Corinthians 5:8
“To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.”
Proverbs 31:28
“Her children arise and call her blessed.” – Proverbs 31:28
Pam’s service celebrating her beautiful life will be held at the FAMILY CENTER at SCHRADER Funeral Home at 14960 Manchester Road Holloway, Ballwin on Saturday, February 28, 2026 at 2:00 p.m. Visitation will be held the same day: Saturday February 28th at 12:00 - 2:00. Family and friends may sign the family’s on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.
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