Peter-Riso-Obituary

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Peter J. Riso

Apr 9, 1949 - Jun 29, 2024

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I’m so so saddened to hear about Pete’s passing. He was in my brother Louie’s graduating class, but we both shared art class with him and Debbie in High School. He really was “one of the good guys”. Always kind, respectful, and looking on the bright side, it was probably the music in his heart that helped him to be that way. I didn’t see him or Debbie much after high school except for class reunions, but always thought of him fondly. My sincere sympathy to Debbie, her son and their families...

I'm sad that I'm just now reading about Pete's passing in this Obituary.

We became friends in the 1970s when Pete became the drummer for Cal Tjader's group after Dick Berk left. We kept in touch over the years and would often talk about Cal and his recordings.

As a photographer, I occasionally sent him some of my photos related to jazz. I would jokingly remind him when Poncho Sanchez' birthday came up so he could give him a call.

My...

I first me Pete when we both started first grade at St. Peter Martyr School. We were classmates through our senior year of high school. As early as possibly second grade I think, Pete would entertain us with drum coverage of one song or another when our teacher would allow. Once when he hadn’t brought a drum to school, he flipped a metal waste can upside down and played a bongo accompaniment to the song Marianne. When I was in graduate school in Santa Cruz, I attended a concert by the Cal...

Dearest Pete, you were our best friend for over 50 years and we dearly miss you and our weekly dinners and other adventurers together. We were so lucky to share so many special moments and trips with you, Debbie and your family over the decades, to include baptizing Arik and Vanessa together and sharing God Parent responsibilities for each other’s child. So much fun and wonderful memories together. Rest in peace my friend and we look forward in reuniting with you on the other side.

My dear friend, Pete. May your soul be at rest at home in Heaven. I will always be grateful for your friendship and guidance in work and in life. One of the most unique, thoughtful and caring people I have ever met. There are so many great and special memories that I will always hold close to my heart. Thank you for being so good to me and my family for so long. My love, thoughts and prayers will always be with you, Debbie, Giancarlo and family.

Peter, May you rest in peace. My deepest condolences to your family.

Pete was the sweetest man always there with a smile, a kiss on the cheek and a big hug. Although we did not get to see Pete and Debbie as much as we would have liked, we where always so happy to get together when we could. Thank you Pete for being such a light in our lives. You will be dearly missed.

Peter was like an older brother to me. I met him at 16, when I joined the band that Peter drummed with. Pete was one of my music mentors and, perhaps, because of my youth, he liked to tease me. He'd say something odd with a serious expression and then, when I'd look at him askance, he'd suddenly laugh and say he was just kidding me. This continued for decades and it made him even more dear to me. He was always kind. I looked up to him. Peter was a perfect gentleman to everyone and so...

Good memories at Horizon Beverage of Peter. Thoughts and Prayers.

Obituary

Peter's Obituary

Peter J. Riso, a lifelong resident of Pittsburg, CA, passed away peacefully at the age of 75. Born on April 9, 1949, to the late James and Rose (Rocco) Riso, Peter was the eldest of six children: Marietta, Phyllis, Natalie (Ralph), Gina, and James (Liza). His life was a symphony of love and talent.

Peter's early years were marked by a profound love for music, a passion that blossomed at the tender age of 5 when he first picked up the drumsticks. By 8, he was already making his mark, performing on The Lawrence Welk’s Top Tunes and Talent Show. This early achievement was just a glimpse into the many roles Peter would embrace throughout his life. Whether he was chatting with customers as a beverage salesman, inspiring students as a substitute teacher, or sharing his heart through music, Peter’s versatility was truly remarkable. His unwavering passion touched everyone he met, leaving a lasting impression on all who knew him.

Educated at St. Peter Martyr School and Pittsburg High School, Peter graduated in 1967 and went on to earn a Bachelor's degree in Art from San Jose State College in 1972. His academic journey was just one facet of a life rich in experiences and achievements.

Peter's gentle spirit and warm heart were the essence of who he was. His kindness and love touched so many lives of people who had the opportunity of knowing him. The outpouring of love and affection during his final days showed just how deeply he was cherished by his family and friends.

Peter is survived by his beloved wife of 53 years, Debbie (Scotto), and his cherished son, Giancarlo. Peter was preceded in death by his precious daughter, Vanessa, who passed away in 1994 at the age of 16. Along with his immediate family, he leaves behind loving in-laws, nieces, nephews, and a host of long-time friends. His legacy is one of love, and an unwavering devotion to those he held dear. Peter’s memory will forever be a source of comfort and inspiration to all who knew him.

As we reflect on Peter's life, we are reminded of the words, "A life lived in love will never be dull." His life was a vibrant tapestry, woven with threads of love, music, and an unyielding spirit. Peter's story is a testament to the transformative power of love, a beacon of light that will continue to shine in the hearts of those who knew him.

A funeral mass will be held on Wednesday, July 24, 2024, at 10:00am at Church of the Good Shepherd. A private committal service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, you may honor Peter’s memory by making a contribution to a charity of your choice.

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