1936
2025
Edward Henegar II died of cancer September 23, 2025, at the home of his son and daughter-in-law in Charlotte, N.C. His beloved wife, Julia Rorex Henegar, was by his side as she was throughout their 66 years of marriage. His last months were in the daily company of their Charlotte children, Edward G. Henegar and his wife Ann, and Dr. Martin Henegar and his wife Dr. Amina Ahmed, and daughter Rebecca Gould and her husband Warren of Durham, N.C.-- and often their grandchildren, in whom he delighted. They are Guille Henegar of Asheville; Luke Henegar of New York; Millan Henegar and Ben Gould and his wife Frances of Charlotte; Alex Gould and his wife Dr. Katy Hallman of Madison, Wisc., parents of his great-grandson; Sam Gould of Nashville; and Annabel Henegar and Julia Henegar of New York. His brother Henry Henegar and his wife Jane of Chattanooga also mourn him, along with many loving nieces and nephews and cousins from both Rorex and Henegar branches.
Named for his grandfather, he was born in Knoxville, Tenn., October 7, 1936. He graduated from McCallie School, the University of Tennessee, and Columbia Theological Seminary.
At McCallie he was president of the student Senate, the highest elective office. At UT he won the Greek language prize and founded the Young Life Club at Knoxville’s West High School. At Columbia he earned with honors two degrees that anchored his ministry as theologian, preacher, and pastor.
Ordained in the Presbyterian Church USA in 1961, he pastored home mission churches at Isom and Sandlick in rural Letcher County, Kentucky for four years.
At the invitation of Prof. Manford George Gutzke, he returned to Columbia Seminary for his second degree, a Master of Theology. Rejecting other offers, he and Judy and the three children returned to the Appalachian coal fields of Kentucky in 1966 to resume pastoring his first two churches, plus a third, at Blackey.
In 1968 he was called to pastor Blacknall Memorial Presbyterian Church in Durham, where he served with distinction for 32 years as a “strong teacher devoted to pastoral care.” A lifelong memorizer of Scripture with a deep love for the Word of God, he preached his retirement sermon from memory: the book of Ephesians, verbatim except for one word. Instead of Tychicus in chapter 6, verse 21, he said Allan, thus honoring Allan Poole, his co-pastor and successor.
In 2000, he and Judy moved to Monroe, N.C., and Ed pastored Marshville Presbyterian Church for 17 more years.
Throughout his ministry he mentored and encouraged myriad pastors individually and through presbytery connections. His pastoral legacy blessed countless individuals and families who were counseled and comforted in the milestones of their history, from birth to marriage to the grave.
His amateur radio call sign WA4YKD was well known to missionaries and friends around the world.
A master woodworker, he crafted heirloom furniture for his children and their families—as well as the narthex table at Blacknall and the eight oak doors of Marshville Presbyterian Church. Jars of honey from his numerous bee hives blessed and healed the recipients. He drove his tractor this summer for a final mowing of their fields.
He wired houses; repaired cars, appliances, and church boilers; and could identify stars and planets and birdsong. He loved every evidence of God’s marvelous creativity. He preached sermons, with no notes, in a deep bass voice that prompted more than one child to ask, “Is that God?” It was not, but it was someone who loved the Lord his God with all his heart, all his soul, all his strength, and all his mind—and who served the Lord his God in word and deed and with joy all the days of his life.
He preached at the Marshville church’s homecoming in May 2024 about the ultimate homecoming, heaven. He was, as always, looking forward.
His final pastoral acts were as grandfather, praying at the March 29 wedding of Frances and Benjamin Gould, and as great-grandfather, for the July 27 baptism of Katy and Alex Gould’s son Ellison.
Ed learned as a teenager to be grateful. When his big brother died at age 20, their father prayed with the family, “Thank you for giving us Guille for 20 years.” Six weeks later at the death of their 53-year-old father, 18-year-old Ed prayed with his mother and younger brother, “Thank you that out of your heart of love, you prepared us for this day. Thank you for giving us Daddy all these years.”
In his spirit and by his example, those who love him thank God for giving us Ed---Dad—Boppa--for nearly 89 fruitful years. We rejoice that he is now in the presence of Jesus, his Savior, the One he served all his days.
Memorial services will be held at the Marshville Presbyterian Church at 10:00 am on Thursday, October 9, 2025, with a visitation to follow. There will also be a memorial service at Blacknall Memorial Presbyterian Church in Durham at 2:00 pm on Friday, November 7, 2025.
In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to either church: Marshville Presbyterian Church, 510 N Elm St, Marshville, NC, 28103, or Blacknall Memorial Presbyterian Church, 1902 Perry St, Durham, NC, 27705 or at blacknall.org.
Morgan & Son Funeral Home is serving the family of Pastor Ed Henegar.
Evelyn Christensen
November 15, 2025
To Judy and the family,
I was so inspired to read Ed's obituary. Thank you for sharing so many special things about him. I knew Ed when he did mission work in eastern KY in the 1960s. I'm the daughter of Bill and Isabel Brown who also did mission work in Guerrant/Transylvania Presbytery in the Hazard/Vicco area at that time. I knew Ed primarily from church camp (Highland) where he was a favorite leader for us young people. I loved him as a minister and appreciated the ways he helped me grow spiritually, and, of course, also the ways he made camp fun. He clearly continued to be a bright light shining for the Lord and I feel blessed to have known him. My warm sympathies are with you.
Chuck Swenson
October 31, 2025
Judy,
Pastor Ed conducted Betty and my pre marital counseling. He married us at Duke Gardens on August 7th 1982. There were many memories that day. One of the more memorable was Becky fainting in the humidity & oppressive heat. We felt terrible. However, Duke Chapel was booked for over a year in advance. Ed's voice and presence relaxed us. Ed had to be as humble, thoughtful and joyful a man as I have ever met! And he raised his eyebrows at me when he discussed you! I think his love for you kind of showed me what true commitment should be in my life and any Chdristian's life.
I loved Ed! I truly loved him. I always took notes of his sermons. He had great insight and it took me a long time to realize how much he truly influenced our lives. I witnessed it with the number of Duke students that attended Blacknall to hear him speak and enjoy his warm stare.
I am truly sorry for your loss! Ed's loss is so traumatic, regardless of his age, because our love and loss is immeasurable.
Judy, may you find some measure of comfort in this thought. We all know what we believe, but at the death of a loved one, there is a profound sense of sadness and loss. The sheer depth of our sorrow is directly proportional to the love we shared with that person. The deeper the sorrow, the greater the love we have known. Though your grief is MOUNTAINOUS, surely you have been blessed by a love like Everest!
In Christ,
Chuck Swenson former assistant Basketball Coach at Duke, friend for life and disciple of Ed and Jesus Christ.
Marion Ratliff
October 10, 2025
Quite frankly, Ed Henegar was one of the finest
men I ever knew and a true Southern
gentleman! My cousin Gene Shepherd and I
had many meals and meaningful talks with
him over the years. He was one of the
ministers who officiated at my Mother's
funeral. That Henegar voice resonated
at any church or facility from which it
boomed. I can only imagine how many
lives he touched with a grace that would
be hard to match. I am proud to believe
he knew I admired him as a friend. My
sincere sympathy goes out to his family
and many friends. Marion Ratliff -
Matthews NC
Janna Harton
October 8, 2025
Thank you Henegar family for sharing Ed with so many of us, for encouraging him in his walk with God, and for your sacrifices allowing him to meet the needs of so many others. What an amazing blessing his life is and what a wonderful legacy and example he gave us all! I see that wonderfully warm, welcoming Ed Henegar smile and genuine heart as I think of him and I imagine he’s still smiling, now basking in the warm glow of the Light eternal, the source of his awesomeness. May the Comforter ease your loss, fill you with peace, and bless you with wonderful memories.
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Bethel Schwanke Strawser
October 7, 2025
Ron and I are yet one more couple whose wedding was officiated by Ed Henegar. By God's grace, we are still enjoying that marriage 49 years later. I was nourished by his pastoring all my years at Duke University.
Ellen Reed
October 6, 2025
I have always been grateful for the meaningful and warm ministry of Ed and Judy Henegar. My life in Durham was as a student at the Duke University School of Nursing, graduating in June 1971. Under Ed's leadership, Blacknall Presbyterian Church was truly supportive of college students and served as a church home for many of us involved in Campus Crusade for Christ and Young Life at that time. Ed's congregation included people like Richard and Margaret Scearce, a beautiful (and tolerant!) couple who invited unlimited college students into their home after church for food and fellowship. We are better people because of Ed Henegar! I send my sincere condolences to Judy and all the Henegar family.
Glen and Gloria Van Andel
October 4, 2025
What a wonderful gift Ed and Judy were to our family while we were at Blacknall in the 70s. We remember this time, sitting under Ed’s teaching, as some of our greatest spiritual growth as individuals and as a family. We also remember fondly the southern hospitality that Ed and Judy modeled so well, the unconditional love of Jesus. Grace and peace to you all. Glen and Gloria Van Andel
Mark Higgins
October 3, 2025
Upon moving to Durham in '92 to buy my funeral business, I was eager to meet the local clergy with whom I would be working. Fr. Tom Midyette, the rector of St. Philip's, told me my next stop without passing "go" was to meet Ed Henegar at Blacknall Church. Said Tom, "he is one of the most genuine pastors you will come to know. A real sweetheart." How right he was! Ed Henegar had the most exquisite pastoral skills one could imagine. What a privilege to serve alongside him in some of the most heartsick circumstances. He was solid as a rock and gentle as a lamb. God bless you with mercy and peace, dear Judy and all Ed's marvelous family, during this time of transition. We who loved Ed Henegar, join you in mourning and thanksgiving for this precious, saintly man. May Ed rest in peace and arise in glory.
Mary Christenbury
October 2, 2025
Ed was my pastor during my time at Duke University Medical Center. The fellowship at Blacknall was sweet and Ed officiated my wedding. He stayed in touch with my husband and me after he moved to the Charlotte area. When my husband, Jonathan, died six years ago he spoke at his funeral and he and Judy continued to minister to me. He was such a blessing and was still my pastor/friend during this difficult time. Mary
Nita and Rob Fishburn
October 2, 2025
We are so thankful to have known you Ed! And thankful that you are in that "great Cloud of Witnesses" seeing "face to face" the Lover of your soul. You and Judy have remained in our hearts all these past years since being part of Blacknall Presbyterian Church while we lived in Durham. We wept when we had to move on in 1981. It had been the sweetest fellowship in Christ!
We are so thankful to have been able to visit you both in the summer of 2024!
Peace to the family, and love,
Rob and Nita Fishburn
Russ Smith
October 1, 2025
Ed was far and away the most sincere, loving minister I have ever known. And he always shared so much wisdom from the pulpit. He meant so much to so many people over the years. I was a student at Duke over 50 years ago, and I used to go to Blacknall on Sunday mornings to hear what Ed had to share with us that day. His words were comforting, uplifting and always positive.
Russ
Robert Holcomb
September 26, 2025
One o& the best men I’ve ever met
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