Photo courtesy of Reed & Benoit Funeral Home Inc. - Watertown
Dec 27, 1964 - Nov 21, 2025
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.l will always re.e.ber the days we spent at your grandma's house l tha k you for being a friend and sharing.rip my friend
Linda Rupert woolsey
December 11, 2025 | Medicallake
So sorry for your loss and I can't believe it lots of love you have always been family
Rick Flake
November 30, 2025 | Watertown, NY | Family
I am so glad that we shared such a fun moment together before the lord called you home. Thank you for being such an important piece of my life
Crystal Hott
November 30, 2025 | Adams Center, NY | Family
These last two years we’ve shared so many memories together, lots of laughs, tons of tears, but my favorite will always be the love you showed all of us girl’s even in difficult times in your life. I’m grateful to have spent my 40th birthday with you one last time and you made me homemade sauce even though you weren’t feeling well. Don’t worry I paid attention and I’ll keep the tradition going. I hope your up there dancing your heart out, love you always!
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Ashley Freeman
November 28, 2025 | Watertown, NY | Daughter
Kyle so sorry to hear about Rhonda passing. God bless may she rest in peace.
Dora Bova
November 27, 2025 | Calcium, NY | Acquaintance
Man, Red I can’t believe you’re gone, you had a fiery Spirt, and a NY soul. I was blest to know you during your time as co-workers at the VA in Arkansas. I’m sorry to your family for this unexpected loss, i know how much you treasure them when you’d share stories and sometimes pictures and videos of your grandkids! I know you will be misseed!
April Covington
November 26, 2025 | Rogers, AR | Coworker
Rip friend we had some great times in arkansas I loved your spunk I will miss you.
Mary Childress
November 26, 2025 | La Porte, IN | Friend
So sad to hear about Rhonda. She was a joy to work with. Keeping your family in thought and prayer at this sad time.
Donna Edgmon
November 26, 2025 | Fayetteville, AR | Coworker
Rip Rhonda such a wonderful person thru and thru to the family bless you all a very kind and wonderful woman has left you to early Rhonda was such a fun person to be around
Buddy mcconnell
November 26, 2025 | Calcium, NY | Friend
WATERTOWN, NY – Rhonda L. “Wicked” DeVito, 60, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, November 21, 2025 at Samaritan Medical Center shortly following a medical procedure.
Calling hours will be held on Monday, December 1, 2025 from 4-6 pm at Reed & Benoit Funeral Home. A funeral service will immediately follow at 6 pm.
Rhonda was born in Watertown on December 27, 1964, the daughter of Sylvia Getter and James Glover. She attended Watertown High School.
A marriage to Michael Reid ended in divorce. She later married Kyle DeVito in Watertown. In 2008, she relocated to Arkansas where she worked as a CNA with the VA for 10 years.
She returned home to Watertown in October 2023, following the death of her beloved daughter Michaelia, to be surrounded by her family and friends. She soon began working as a Medical Assistant at Guthrie Army Health Clinic on Fort Drum.
Rhonda was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and friend who touched the lives of everyone around her. She found joy in crafting and has left behind endless craft supplies and homemade wreaths for her family. She loved a good rummage sale, enjoyed couponing, and took pride in cooking for the people she cherished most. She was spunky, fun-loving, and her sudden loss leaves an immense void in the lives of those who loved her.
Survivors include three daughters, Denesha (Stephen) Joles of Watertown, Ashley (Kyle) Freeman of Watertown, and Michaele (Ryan) Reid of Watertown; her husband, Kyle DeVito of Arkansas; her father, James Glover of Texas; a brother, James Glover of Texas; twelve grandchildren, Alyzea, Abigail, Allisyn, and Ashtyn Freeman, Kamden, Logan, and Hartleigh Joles, Ryleigh and Tanner Pearson, Jaiden and Jordann, and MaKenna Yarros.
In death, she reunites with her daughter, Michaelia, who passed unexpectedly on September 19, 2023 at the age of 35; her mother, Sylvia Glover; her grandmother, Gloria Getter; and her uncle, Stephen Getter.
Memorial donations in Rhonda’s memory can be made at https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-rhondas-family-with-funeral-costs, to assist her family in facing the overwhelming costs of funeral services, burial, and transporting her belongings.
Arrangements are with Reed & Benoit Funeral Home, Inc. and condolences may be left online at www.reedbenoit.com.
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