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Photo courtesy of Rivet Funeral Home & Crematorium Inc. - Merrimack

Richard "Bear" Gath

Feb 10, 1949 - Jul 16, 2025

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I first met Richard “Bear” Gath around 2005 through the Horse Shoe Fish and Game Club. From the beginning, Bear carried himself with a quiet strength—he was reserved, honest, and deeply sincere. He served as our club’s president for many years, always steady, always present.

One of my fondest memories is learning how to shoot skeet under his patient guidance. I was never very good—always getting stuck at the follow-through—but Bear never made me feel small for it. Instead he...

I had the privilege of shooting skeet with Bear at Horseshoe Fish and Game club over the past decade. He was always willing to share his expertise and guidance with new and experienced shooters alike. He will be greatly missed.

So many old memories my friend. We came to DEC Maynard together from PA and roomed at several places from Mar 1970. After my stint in the Army upon return to Westfield we spent so many hours listening to songs from you massive record collection. I think we wore the grooves out on Black Sabbath
Vol 4. Your passive personality was your biggest character trait. I never recall you getting upset and unloading unlike me. We each married and raised familes as our greatest accomplishments....

To Naomi & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am saddened by his passing. He was a very good friend to my father, Ed Ledoux. They went together to a World Shoot in Savannah Georgia in I believe 1986 or 1987. The picture of them together hangs at the Horseshoe Fish & Game Club. I enjoyed many a talk with Bear/Richard at the club. The picture you chose of him is as exactly how I will remember him. He served the Horseshoe Fish & Game Club as President for MANY years and it was...

Bear and I had many good times together at work in Westfield and fishing streams in the summer and ice fishing in the winter. A great guy!

To the Gath Family,

I was so deeply saddened to hear of Mr. Gath’s passing. Valerie, your tribute to him was truly beautiful—it brought back so many memories of time spent with you and your family.

As a child, I remember being a little intimidated by him—maybe it was his quiet presence and larger-than-life stature—but he was always so kind and welcoming, allowing us to enjoy ourselves fully in your home. I’ll always cherish those times: sleeping in the camper, the fun...

Bear, we had a lot of good times, hunting, fishing, chasing JAWS OFF PROVINCETOWN.... I ENJOYED IT ALL AS DID SCOTT. My prayers are with you, Bear and your family. I'll see you in the not to distant future in the Fish and Game club in the sky. Sandy Merritt

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Obituary

Richard's Obituary

Richard "Bear" Gath of Merrimack, NH passed away suddenly on July 16, 2025 at the age of 76.  

Richard was born the third of three boys to Virgil and Mildred (Myers) Gath on February 10, 1949. Throughout his life, he fondly reminisced about the friendships, adventures, and mischief of his childhood in Southwestern Pennsylvania. Growing up on Folly Farm in Belle Vernon, PA, he developed an early and enduring love for the outdoors—fishing, trapping, hunting, and exploring the woods with a curious spirit. His affection for nature extended to animals, especially hunting dogs, and he even kept a raccoon as a pet for a spell during his youth. 

Originally known to his friends and family as "Dick," Richard attended Electronic Institutes in Pittsburgh, PA, before being recruited by Digital Equipment Corporation (DEC). At just 21, he relocated to Massachusetts to begin a 30-year career with DEC/Quantum. Shortly after his move, his roommates affectionately dubbed him "Bear," a nickname inspired by his then legendary snoring. 

As an electronic technician, Richard contributed to new product development and took on multiple assignments in Colorado Springs, CO, where he played a hands-on role in moving a few of the products into production. After a series of division sales and lay-offs, Richard spent his final working years as the backroom coordinator for the North Nashua Marshalls, retiring in 2015. 

It was during his early days at DEC that Richard met his wife, Naomi (DeCillis), who insisted on using his given name instead of his nicknames. Their relationship blossomed over cribbage games in the breakroom and they married in Westfield, MA, in 1972. They often marveled at how swiftly the years flew by, eventually sharing just shy of 53 years together. Richard and Naomi welcomed their son, Michael, prior to settling in Merrimack, NH, in 1978. Their daughter, Valerie, joined the family soon after. 

Richard's appreciation for nature remained a constant throughout his life. In recent years, he found peace sitting in the sun, watching birds, and, brainwashed into becoming a Cat Person by his wife, spending time with his feline friends. When it came to seafood, he didn’t just eat it, he devoured it with gusto. He reluctantly parted ways with his beloved Pittsburgh teams after relocating to New England and embraced the local sports scene, building a particular passion for the Boston Red Sox. He had a deep fascination with Alaska, often losing himself in programs that showcased its untamed wilderness and the people drawn there. He developed a compulsion to watch Jaws and Jurassic Park whenever they aired. And through it all, his dry wit, sharpened by the signature Gath brand of sarcasm, was unmistakable and masterfully deployed.

Approaching his hobbies with singular focus and unwavering dedication—whether he was tuning into ham radio frequencies, honing his bowling skills, heading into the woods to hunt, competing in dog trials with his English Springer Spaniels, or, most passionately, perfecting his swing in skeet shooting—Richard always gave it all he had. He discovered competitive skeet in the mid-1980s and went on to have a prolific shooting career, registering an astounding 256,437 lifetime targets between 1986 and 2022. He traveled to countless competitions across the northeast, as well as to Quebec, Maryland, and Virginia—for many years with his daughter as his squadmate. He attended 28 World Skeet Championships, making 25 consecutive appearances. Richard achieved numerous perfect 100s in all four of the singles events, posting the elusive 100 in the .410 at the 1993 World Shoot. For years, he was recognized by his distinctive call and his playfully vibrant shorts—the fabric for each pair joyfully selected by his wife and daughter as a lighthearted test to see if there was any pattern he’d refuse to wear.

A tireless advocate for the sport, Richard served in leadership roles at the club level (Horseshoe Fish & Game Club), state level (NHSSA), and national level (as New Hampshire’s state director to the NSSA for 13 years). He refereed, mentored new shooters, and encouraged recreational participants to try registered skeet. Determined to make the sport more accessible, Richard organized small shoots at his local one-field club for two decades, frequently juggling the roles of shooter, referee, and shoot management.

He cherished the camaraderie of the skeet community, finding special joy in the easy banter and meaningful conversations shared between events. He remained a member of Horseshoe Fish & Game Club throughout his time in Merrimack and enjoyed weekly visits to the skeet field long after he retired from shooting in 2022.

Richard is survived by his wife, son, and daughter; his older brothers, Ernie and Phil; and his cat, Billy.

A Celebration of Life will be held at Horseshoe Fish & Game Club, 44 Greens Pond Road, Merrimack, NH on Saturday, October 25, 2025. For details or to RSVP, please visit this EventBrite: https://BearGathCelebrationofLife.eventbrite.com.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations in Richard's memory may be made to the youth shooting program or scholarship program of the National Skeet Shooting Association (https://nssa-nsca.org/) or to the American Diabetes Association (https://diabetes.org/)

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