Photo courtesy of Hawthorne Funeral Home - Mount Vernon
Jun 10, 1939 - Aug 13, 2025
I had the privilege of working with Ron for 30 years at Williams & Nulle. I will always remember his wonderful smile and his kindness to everyone. I especially remember the fun times we all had back then and the jokes that only Ron could tell. If you were lucky enough to be there, you will remember.
Mary Jo Wiseman
August 30, 2025 | Burlington, WA | Coworker
I will forever remember Ron´s nearly constant beaming smile, his delightful sense of humor, and his pure singing voice. It was a special treat when he sang a solo. Taking him flying was a hoot and a half. Sure missed all of that during his slow exit. Bet he´s got it all back and then some singing and flying with the angels. Peace and sweet memories Vanderstoep family. My heart is with you.
Becky Goodell- Burr
August 25, 2025 | Friend
We are so sorry for your loss. Thank you for allowing us to be a small part of his life. Remember: He has his wings and you have your memories. Staff at Birchview Memory Care
Peggy Rohlf
August 20, 2025 | Other
Ronald Duane Vander Stoep passed away on August 13, 2025. He was born in Oak Harbor, WA on June 10, 1939 to Fanny (Reintjis) and Andrew Vander Stoep. He graduated from Oak Harbor High School, Skagit Valley College and the University of Washington with a degree in accounting. From 1957-1960 Ron served in the U.S. Army.
While at SVC Ron met Rita Fladebo. They were married in 1963 and had 3 kids; Rob, Ryan and Becky. They made their home in Skagit Valley. Ron began working at Williams and Nulle and spent his career in accounting there. Ron contributed to his community by serving on many boards, but his primary focus was enjoying his family and his commitment to the Presbyterian Church.
Ron’s love of adventure took him to many places around the world with Rita and other friends. His adventurous spirit inspired a climb up Mt. Baker, kayak trips to the Bowron Lakes, fishing in Sitka, crabbing the Puget Sound, and a walk across Spain. He was also a life long athlete; from football in high school, racquet ball and golf through his adult life, and even running 4 marathons in his 60’s . Ron also loved a good game of cards. He played Hearts with the guys at lunch, gin at home with Rita, and many other games with kids, grandkids, and friends.
Ron was preceded in death by his son Ryan, twin grandchildren Allen and Beth Vander Stoep, brother and sister-in-law Ed and Bonnie, brother Bill, sister Loni Anderson, and life long buddy Ernie Eerkes.
He is survived by his wife Rita, kids Rob and Becky, grandchildren Andrew Vander Stoep, Laina Mercer (Scott Delbeck), Allyson (Duke) Schaplow, Anna Ray, Adria Ray, and Amelia Ray, brother and sister-in-law Ken and Annie Vander Stoep, in-laws Carl Anderson, Kay Roodzant, Norma (Fladebo) Moss, Larry and Dee Fladebo, and many cousins, nieces and nephews.
In lieu of flowers please consider giving to The Bradford House (Skagit Adult Day Program), Mount Vernon Presbyterian Church, or your favorite charity.
A service to honor Ron will be held at Mount Vernon Presbyterian Church on Saturday, September 20, 2025, at 3:00 pm, with a reception to follow.
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