Rose Marie Helling, born Rose Marie Scelso on September 2, 1936, in Laurel Springs, New Jersey, to Joseph and Carolina Scelso, passed away peacefully on December 14, 2025, at Palomar Hospital. Her final day was spent surrounded by many loving family members.
Rose Marie was the oldest of two children. She is survived by her brother, Joe Scelso of Arizona. At the age of nine, she moved with her family to California, settling in Lincoln Heights. When she was eighteen years old, she met Bob, a friend of her neighbor. She often joked that when they were introduced, all she noticed was his beautiful convertible—and she fell in love instantly.
Bob and Rose Marie were married on June 25, 1955. They purchased a home in Monterey Park, where they began raising their family. Both were deeply involved in their church community. Bob worked as a general contractor, while Rose Marie was a stay-at-home mother. Her home was always open, and many people came and went, often seeking her wisdom, comfort, and counsel.
In 1988, Rose Marie and Bob moved to Fallbrook, where they purchased several acres atop a hill affectionately known by friends and family as “The Hill.” After moving there, they quickly became active in their church, attending nearly every function. Rose Marie had a great love for the arts and enjoyed attending plays and concerts, often holding season tickets at various venues. She also enjoyed Zumba, going to the gym, and staying active. She was constantly on the go and embraced life with energy and enthusiasm.
Rose Marie is survived by her seven children and their spouses: Valerie (Bob), Rob (Linda), Chris (Della), Julie (Al), Regina (Pete), Naomi (John), and Damian (Natalie). She was also blessed with thirty-one grandchildren and thirty-one great-grandchildren.
Funeral services will be held on Friday, January 30, 2026, at 11:30 a.m. at St. Peter the Apostle Parish, located at 450 S. Stagecoach Lane, Fallbrook, California.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to your favorite charity.
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