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Ruth Ann Shellito

1946 - 2020

Ruth Ann Shellito obituary, 1946-2020, Fairview Heights, IL

BORN

1946

DIED

2020

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Lake View Funeral Home & Memorial Gardens

5000 North Illinois Street

Fairview Heights, Illinois

Ruth Shellito Obituary

Ruth Ann Shellito Ruth Anne Shellito, 73, of Collinsville, IL, passed away on March 17, 2020 at 8:00 A.M. at Barnes-Jewish Hospital in St. Louis, MO. Ruth was born November 23, 1946 in Terre Haute, IN to Paul O. and Mary V. (Barnes) Shaffer. They preceded her in death. She was also preceded in death by her son, Dennis K. Tobin; two brothers, Paul Oral Shaffer and Mark Shaffer; and a sister, Ellen Biggs; her mother-in-law, Agnes Shellito. She is survived by her loving step-mother and friend, Ida May Shaffer; two sons, Kenneth P. Tobin and David Anthony Shellito;three daughters, Coral Ellen Marhoum, Trisha Elizabeth Shellito-Lambird (Rodney) and Brenda Kay Shellito; grandchildren, Samantha Nichole Tobin, Kenneth Paul Tobin Jr., David Anthony Shellito Jr, Megan Marie Mowbray, Casey Marie Riley (Charlie), Kaley Anne Oatland (Justin) and Scott Snyder; great-grandchildren, Leo Tobin, Lina Tobin, Landon Mosby, Casen Outland, Jackson Outland, Bryson Outland, Allie Riley, Nora Riley, Scott Snyder Jr., McKenzie Snyder and Levi Snyder; brothers, James Smith (Connie), Mike Shaffer, Richard Shaffer (Amy) and Roy Shaffer; sister, Susan Guess (Craig); brother-in-law, Brad Biggs; and many loving nieces and nephews. Ruth was a member of the Veteran Auxiliary VFW #8677, where she would often tend bar; she supported and loved all veterans. She was always kind and generous, giving to those in need. She was an avid St. Louis Cardinals fan. Ruth once won the award and a special cruise for the Nationwide Excellent Service Award at Red Lobster. She will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved her. Memorial donations in Ruth's name can be made to Wounded Warriors. Additional condolences may be sent to the family at www.lakeviewfuneralhm.com. Services: Service are to be held at a later date at Lake View Memorial Gardens & Funeral Home in Fairview Heights, IL.

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Published by Belleville News-Democrat on Mar. 22, 2020.

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maria pollard

March 28, 2020

So sorry for you loss Tricia and Kenny. I have such wonderful, fond memories of your mother! She was always so willing to open up her home and treat me like her daughter.

Paula Lubeck Mullins

March 22, 2020

So sorry for your loss. I remember many times at Dandy Inn and the VFW with my dad and my brother
Prayers to your family
. RIP RUTH ANN

Joseph Seper

March 22, 2020

We will miss you very much, you were always kind and helpful to all of guys that came in every day, and we all loved you very much.

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