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Mary Nikitas Geannelis

1934 - 2019

Mary Nikitas Geannelis obituary, 1934-2019, Bennington, VT

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1934

DIED

2019

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Mary Geannelis Obituary

Mary Nikitas Geannelis (April 4, 1934 - April 14, 2019) passed away peacefully at her home on West Road, Bennington, Vermont with her loving family surrounding her.

Mary was born in Fitchburg, Massachusetts and lived with her mother, Diamanto Rigopoulos Nikitas and her father, Nikitas K. Nikitas along with her five brothers: Charlie (Angela), Regas (Aphy), Jimmy (Aphro), John (Helen) and Billy (Lydia). While living in Fitchburg the family was dedicated to the Greek community where they were members of the Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church. In 1951, Mary's family moved to East Greenbush, NY where Mary was crowned homecoming queen at Columbia High School, graduating in 1952. Shortly after, she met Richard "Dick" Geannelis. They married on May 13, 1956 and purchased their West Road home where they raised their family.

Mary's beauty and graciousness blessed anyone who was fortunate enough to be in her presence. Her smile, kind words and concern for everyone and her community were charming and sincere. Most notably, Mary and Dick owned and operated Geannelis' Restaurant on Main St. in Bennington from 1970-1985,until retirement began their next phase of life.Dick died unexpectedly in 1995 and in 1997 Mary resurrected the restaurant in honor of her late husband. The restaurant remained opened until 1999, when Mary finally closed its doors for good.

Mary dedicated her hard work and life to the Bennington community. She had a heartfelt commitment to all and she did her job unequivocally, never disappointing. Behind her beauty andhumblenature, Mary's accomplishments were many: Bennington Co-op Savings and Loan, Southwestern Vermont Medical Center, Bennington Museum, Better Bennington Corporation, Bennington Area Aids Project, Bennington Garden Club of America, Kelly-Cooper Fund, United Way Volunteers, Gray Ladies, Supervisor of Glastenbury, VT, United Counseling Service, Bennington Chamber of Commerce, Bennington Development Association, Old Castle Theatre, Park McCullough House, Altrusa Club, Brownie and Girl Scout Leadership, PTA, MAUHS Music Department, L'Ensemble Music Committee, Park McCullough House, Relay for Life and Capital Campaign for Bennington Project Independence.

Her awards included the D. Ed Moore Award given by the Chamber of Commerce and the Rotary International/Bennington Clubs, the Paul Harris Fellowship Award, and the Walloomsac Society Award by the Bennington Museum. In 1993, Mary was voted Woman of the Year by the Business and Professional Women's Organization of Bennington. In 1996, it was Mary's honor to carry the U.S. Olympic Torch during the Summer Olympics for Bennington.

Mary loved entertaining in her home. She welcomed everyone with open arms and a warm, genuine smile. From politicians, to her many local friends, Mary's doors were always open. She gave of herself, unselfishly donating her time, fundraising for committees she truly believed werefor the betterment of the community. She made change happen.Mary was so proud of Bennington, as she was always looking to the towns' bright future which she believed lay ahead, knowing that future would come to a community that worked together.The opening of BPI's Adult Day Care on Harwood Hill was a special day for Mary, as her last fundraising effort came to fruition. Mary, as always, was grateful to see the benefits and be part of such community building events. This was Mary, always giving of herself.

Mary had the pleasure of accompanying her daughter Pam and her family on a trip to Greece. It was then Mary was blessed to see her family's homeland: her father's village, Lagadia, in the mountains of the Peloponnese; and her mother's village, Gargallani, on the Ionian Coast.

Mary was appreciative of the kindness and support of her neighbors that kept a watchful eye on her. She leaves many friends who were devoted to her well being andhappiness, visiting her every day, bringing smiles, food, conversation and support.

Mary was a member of St. George Greek Orthodox Church, Pittsfield, MA, with Father John Maheras and Father Peter Costarakis; St. Basils Greek Orthodox Church in Troy, NY ; locally she participated at St. Peter's Episcopal Church in Bennington, VT where for many years Father Peter lead the local Greek community in worship; and recently she joined her friends at the Old First Church in Old Bennington, VT for services with the Reverend Kenneth Clarke.

Mary leaves behind many people who loved her. She is survived by her beloved children: Pamela Geannelis White and her husband Brad; Peter and his wife Monique; Nikki (husband deceased); and her grandchildren: Nicholas, Margo, Peter, Christopher, Michael, Alex, Evan, Hanley; her great grandson Bennett; and Nina.

The family would like to thank At Home Senior Care for their wonderful care of Mary round the clock for the last year and a half while Mary was able to enjoy the comforts of her home.

A Greek Orthodox Funeral Service will be held at St. Peter's Episcopal Church in Bennington on Saturday April 20, 2019 at 11:00am. Burial will take place following the service in the family lot at Park Lawn Cemetery.

Friends are invited to call at the Mahar and Son Funeral Home in Bennington on Friday evening, April 19, from 4:00pm-7:00pm.

Contributions in memory of Mary Nikitas Geannelis may be made to At Home Senior Care through the office of Mahar and Son Funeral Home, 628 Main Street, Bennington, VT 05201.

Guestbook condolences may be made at www.maharandsonfuneralhome.net

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Published by Bennington Banner on Apr. 17, 2019.

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Phyllis Bird

April 10, 2022

Mary was the kindest person I´ve ever known and I will always think of her with love.

Angel Kipp

April 30, 2019

Oh Mary...one of The sweetest ladies I have ever met. I worked for Mary 20 years ago at her restaurant Geannelis's. She put her heart and soul into everything she did. She Worked morning until nite. And would give her shirt off her back to anybody in need. She will be forever missed by many. Rest peacefully Mary

Michael Hall

April 29, 2019

Mary was a local icon in the community. My family and I spend many good times at her restaurant with her as our hostess. You always felt welcome. She was a first class lady.

Pam & Scott Rose

April 25, 2019

Our condolences to the family. Mary was such a sweet lady! She will be missed!

Elisa Lanzi

April 23, 2019

I send my sincere sympathy to Mary's children and family. In the 80s I worked with Mary on many projects at the Bennington Museum. She was larger than life in all the right ways! So much energy and real caring went into her work. She and I also shared a Mediterranean outlook on life -- love of family, culture and heritage.

Keith Senecal

April 23, 2019

Some years ago when I worked at the Shea Insurance Agency, Geannelis' Restaurant was directly across the street from the office. I remember especially on many a Friday evening I would have my mom meet me and we would have dinner at the restaurant. Mary Geannelis never failed to come over to our table and say hello and ask us how we were. A very nice and gracious lady is how I will fondly think of her. My condolences to Peter and his family.

April 21, 2019

Sincerest sympathies to the family. May the God of all comfort be with you during this time

Monica Lally Myers

April 19, 2019

Pam, Peter and Nikki,

My sympathy on the loss of your beautiful mother. Mary has always held a special place in my heart from the time I was a teenager and she would offer rides to me whenever she saw me walking up the hill to Old Bennington. We had many wonderful talks about life. She was one of the kindest women I ever met and I always felt fortunate if I was able to see her when I traveled through Bennington. She was a source of inspiration to all who knew her. I wish you all peace duringthis time of healing and transition.

Rosemarie Jackowski

April 19, 2019

Mary was one of the first friends I made when I moved to Vermont in 1985. She was loved by everyone who knew her. Her kindness and generosity will be remembered.

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Maureen Moore

April 18, 2019

Hoping that your memories buoy your spirits through your grief.

April 18, 2019

Peter, Pam, Nikki & Family,

We were very sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She had a very full life and contributed so much to our community. Lots of great memories of Sunday morning breakfasts after church at Geannelis' and your moms friendly and bubbly personality was always part of the experience. She was a great lady and will be missed by all. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Perry and Sindy Schaad

Pamela Coffield

April 18, 2019

Mary had a smile that would light up a room but with that same smile you felt as though you were her best friend! What a wonderful and charming woman who so happily shared her talents highlighting the best in all of us. Mary left the world a better place with all her efforts and projects. What an amazing legacy! It was a pleasure have been your friend,

DOROTHY BUXBAUM

April 18, 2019

I am so very sad to hear this news. What a wonderful person she was and how fortunate her family had her for so long.She will be missed by all who loved her and her goodness will live on in all who knew her. A great loss for Bennington as well. Another pillar of our community has passed away and it hurts our hearts. My prayers and a big hug to the family. xoxooxoxox DOROTHY BUXBAUM

Michele Webster

April 18, 2019

Peter and family - I am so sorry for your loss. Mary was a beautiful person, inside and out. She was always so kind to everyone she met. I loved her sweet and loving nature. She made everyone feel like they were her best friend.

April 18, 2019

Mary,
I have known you since I was a little girl and my mom would bring me to the fruit stand on Main Street. Then I worked for Richard for many years in Geannelis. When I became an adult and had a daughter of my own you treated her the loving and caring way that you always treated me. RIP sweet lady. You will be missed. Love you,
Charlene (Durocher) Morizio

ROSEMARY VALENTINE

April 18, 2019

Dear Nikki,Pam & Peter
Mary's passing is a loss for all who ever had the pleasure of knowing her. She was a gentle force that made Bennington a wonderful town. I always called her the Queen of Bennington. She gave her time & energy to everything she did. My dad was so proud of her when she became the first woman on the board of directors with the Bennington Savings & Loan. She went to do so many other wonderful things. She had a way of making anyone who ever had the pleasure of knowing her feel like family.She will look over us. She was truly one of a kind.She will be missed.I will miss her spirit, smile and unending love.She will never be forgotten.

RoseMary Latif Valentine & Jimmy Azzoline

Maria (Lally) Clark

April 18, 2019

Pam, Peter, and Nikki - You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of such a wonderful mother. My parents thought the world of her and I credit her for saving the MAUHS music program when it was threatened due to budget cuts back in the 1970s. As I mentioned to a friend yesterday, I know there is a Heaven because where else would Mary be?

From the Zoo Garden where a snake bit me, but I bit it back

Stephen King

April 18, 2019

Pam, Nikki Peter
Your mom was a wonderful woman. Generous, kind, witty and a strong advocate for the MAUHS Music Department's students. My mother thought the world of her and whenever I visited Bennington I would make an effort to call her.
You all must have wonderful memories of her. Leo Buscaglia said memories are like roses so when sad things happen we can gather them and remember.
When I returned from Europe I remember telling Mary about performing in the Sistine Chapel and in Notre Dame Cathedral. I sang on the spot where Joan of Arc was knighted and Napoleon took his crown from the Pope. She encouraged me along with Florence to go to Tanglewood to sing the following year.
When I sing at mass this week, I will say a special prayer for her and your family. May God grant you the joy of many roses to remember her by. She was always so proud of you all.
Sto Bene!

Bob & Kathie Covey

April 17, 2019

Geannelis Family,
A beautiful and kind lady! Her presence in Bennington will live on for many years through her works and deeds. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ann Piper

April 17, 2019

Very sorry to see Mary had passed away. She was a wonderful person and I enjoyed working for her and her family many years ago. Ann{Rounds}Piper

Carol wade-gordon

April 17, 2019

So sorry for your loss. Bill and Carol Gordon from old First Church.

Gail MacJarrett

April 17, 2019

So sorry to hear of Mary's passing. What a lovely lady she was. Always so friendly and treated everyone she knew like they were truly her friend. I worked at Geannelis' when I first got out of high school. it was THE place to hang out. Good food, good company and Mary's smiling face. This community will miss her dearly.
our thoughts and prayers go out to her family, who I know she loved and was very proud of.
Gail and Jerry MacJarrett

Nicholas and Popi Kokonis

April 17, 2019

The world is mourning the loss of a humane and elegant lady and Popi and I a dear friend. May the earth that will cover you, Mary, be light. We shall miss you.

Lisa Ripley

April 17, 2019

I'm sorry for your loss, Pam, Nikki and Peter, what an eloquent lady that always showed strength, care and charm. An iconic loss for Bennington. Peace is with you now.
Sincerely, Lisa

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Laura (Cota) & David Payne

April 17, 2019

Thinking of you, Peter, Nikki and Pam. So very sorry for your loss. We all still remember the food and atmosphere at Geannelis' Restaurant with love.

Curtis Nikitas

April 17, 2019

From my me and my family in Peabody and Las Vegas, we are very saddened by her passing. She was vibrant, fun and always a great hostess. Over the years we looked forward to our visits and the great memories of those times in our lives, with her and family, will never die. They are almost surreal. My dad, Rigas, is the last surviving sibling and if he could travel, he would be have been there. God bless you Auntie!

Christine Graham

April 17, 2019

Pam, Nikki and Peter, I am so sorry to hear about Mary's passing but love the great memories revived by reading her obituary. She was an absolute treasure and touched all our lives in the best ways. Christine

Wendy Becker

April 17, 2019

Mary you will be missed very much you have touched my life in so many ways I love you and my heart goes out to your family you will never be forgotten you will be missed very much love Wendy

Wendy Becker

April 17, 2019

Mary you will be missed very much you have touched my life in so many ways I love you and my heart goes out to your family you will never be forgotten you will be missed very much love Wendy

Phyllis Bird

April 17, 2019

Condolences to the family. Mary will be missed by so many! She was such a kind and loving person and we all benefited from that lovely smile and beautiful nature. Knowing her was a true gift.

Phil/Marylou Young

April 17, 2019

.As the Irish say.."To know her was to love her"...
Mary was so beautiful and sweet and gave so much in community service to the Bennington area. She loved to tell us about growing up with her 5 brothers and the fun that they all had.
Shine on in heaven dear friend..❤

Cynthia Thomayer

April 17, 2019

What a very sad day for the community of Bennington. Her smile and kindness radiated throughout the community she so loved. Thank you Mary for such an inspirational legacy. My deepest sympathy to Peter and the entire Geannelis family.

April 17, 2019

Your beautiful mama is flying high and in the arms of God and all his angels and loved ones!!! I loved her so!

April 17, 2019

I am so very sad to hear this news. What a wonderful person she was and how fortunate her family had her for so long.She will be missed by all who loved her and her goodness will live on in all who knew her. A great loss for Bennington as well. Another pillar of our community has passed away and it hurts our hearts. My prayers and a big hug to the family. xoxooxoxox

JoAnne Myers

April 17, 2019

Mary was one of the sweetest, most caring people that I've known. When I worked at Geannelis' Restaurant as a teenager, I loved when Mary would come into the restaurant, she would greet everyone with a smile and she had such a joyful spirit about her! It was also an honor to have her serve as a board member for Bennington Savings and Loan (The Bank of Bennington). Mary will be greatly missed. My deepest condolence to her family.

Tina Mckune

April 17, 2019

Condolences to her family ...Mary was a loving person I will never forget our time at geannelis' restaurant best boss anyone could have..she will be missed and forever in my heart.

Jeanette Voss

April 17, 2019

I will always remember Mary and her family. My car spun off the road into their yard in a snow storm. Mary's family not only took me and my, then baby, son into their home but also, righted my car so could continue on our way. Their kindness has been an example for me ever since.

Walt & Joyce Dunham

April 17, 2019

Mary was such a beautiful, friendly person! Her obituary says it so well! We had known her and Dick for many years and Joyce and I will miss her.Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Pat curtis Curtis

April 17, 2019

I am so sorry to see this She was a wonderful caring person. BEST DARN REATURANT IN TOWN. PAT

Judith Pennock

April 17, 2019

I was very sorry to hear about Mary. Her kindness, compassion and love of community made her a shining star and she will be greatly missed. I never heard her speak an unkind word to or about anyone and every encounter with her began and ended with a hug and that beautiful smile. My deepest sympathy to you all.

George Krawczyk

April 17, 2019

Mary was one of the kindest and most generous people I ever met. I was so sorry to hear about her passing and I offer all of you my most sincere sympathy at this time of loss.

Bill and Rose Wolfe

April 17, 2019

Our thoughts and prayers for the family at this time. Mary was an amazing lady and not to be forgotten. A Bennington Icon. RIP dear Mary.

Charles & Kathy Wood

April 17, 2019

Peter our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your Mom will be missed by all.

Lori and Ron Lochner

April 17, 2019

Peter and family, So sorry to hear of the loss of your mom...my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. God Bless You.

Autumn Main

April 17, 2019

Peter and family thoughts and prayers for all for the loss of your Mother just know now you will have an angel looking over you.

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