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Shaun MacHaffie Obituary

Shaun William MacHaffie 1975-2011 PITTSFIELD Shaun William MacHaffie, 35, of 4 Memorial Drive, Pittsfield, died suddenly at his home on Wednesday, January 12. He was born in Toledo, Ohio, on February 3, 1975. He was educated in Pittsfield schools and had attended Taconic High School. Mr. MacHaffie was last employed as a machine operator at Sheffield Plastics where he worked for many years. He was a New York Yankees fan. He enjoyed playing baseball in his younger years. Mr. MacHaffie adored his daughters and lived for all his family. Besides his two daughters, Bayleigh MacHaffie and Shaylynn MacHaffie, both of Dalton, he is survived by his father, Glenn S. MacHaffie and his companion, Kathy Dunn, of West Virginia; his mother, Sally J. Walden and her husband, Edward M. Walden of Pittsfield; two brothers, Paul M. Walden of North Adams, and David J. Walden of Pittsfield; four sisters, Kelli A. MacHaffie of Pittsfield, Amy L. MacHaffie, of Pittsfield, Arin L. MacHaffie of Pittsfield, and Rebecca R. Walden of North Adams; his Paternal grandparents, William K. & Jeanne MacHaffie of Pittsfield; his maternal grandmother, Ruth I. Bennett of Pittsfield, and many nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, and Cousins; as well as a stepsister, Michelle Walden Picard of Williamstown; three stepbrothers, Matthew Walden of Maryland, Martin Walden of North Adams, and Mark Walden of North Adams; his companion, Shila Vallencourt of Pittsfield and her daughter, Kayla Barrows, and his former wife, Kellie A. Plant of Dalton. Mr. MacHaffie was pre-deceased by his grandfather whom he adored, William M. Bennett. FUNERAL NOTICE: Calling hours for Shaun William MacHaffie will be held Sunday, January 16, from 4 to 7 p.m., at DERY FUNERAL HOME. A private family memorial service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, contributions to establish an education fund for Bayleigh and Shaylynn may be made payable to his mother, Sally J. Walden, in care of the Funeral Home, 54 Bradford Street, Pittsfield.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Jan. 14, 2011.

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Arin

August 21, 2025

Thinking about you Shaun I miss you more than ever. I love you. Xoxo
Your Lil sis Arin

David Walden

February 5, 2025

I love and miss you Shaun. I see you and grandpa all the time. Please continue to watch over and protect our family.

Im about to have a THIRD little boy. I wish you could meet them. I swore it was going to be one and done. But we have to even out the playing field.

Go Yankees!

I love you brother. I miss your hugs.

Bunndy

February 4, 2025

50th huh happy Birthday old man it's gotten easier but that pain still there miss you big bro

You lil sis and bestest friend Amy

February 3, 2025

Happyyy 50th Birthday in Heaven Shaun WOW old man lol there´s not a day that goes by that I don´t think of you We Miss and love you SO much and I hope you enjoyed all your balloons today!!

Kel

February 3, 2025

Happy 50th Birthday in heaven Shaun love & miss you down here xoxo

Cliff b

February 3, 2025

Happy heavenly big 50th birthday!! today man rest easy shaun

Stephanie booth

February 3, 2025

Happy 50th heavenly birthday Uncle Shaun! I hope you celebrate goood today, I love and miss you so much!!

Arin

February 3, 2025

Happy 50th birthday big broI love and miss you more than words can say XOXO Love your lil sis Arin

Your lil sis and bestest friend Amy

February 3, 2025

WOW 50yrs old today Happyyyy Heavenly Birthday old man I miss and love you SO much hope that you´ll be watching down on us today while we celebrate your big day today miss you tons!!! Xoxo

Amy Machaffie

February 3, 2023

Happyy Heavenly Birthday ShaunI can´t believe another birthday without you party it up today up there and give everyone a great big hug from me I miss and love you so soooooo much Xoxo Love your lil sister Amy

Your sister Arin

January 12, 2023

You've been gone 12 yrs Shaun NOT a day goes by that I don't think about you. I miss you more than words can say I love you Shaun Please continue to watch over all of us XOXO

Carrie

December 26, 2022

Merry Christmas in heaven

Kelli

December 26, 2022

Merry Christmas in Heaven Shaun I love & miss you so much! Xoxo Always & Forever in Our Hearts

Bunndy

July 11, 2022

Always thinking about you big bro

Kelli

January 11, 2022

Hey Shaun, It's been to many years now since we've heard your voice or seen your face I miss you so much it still hurts like it was yesterday. This time of year is always harder for us still down here. I know you are good up there with Michael & everyone I love you so much I know I'll see you again someday

Amy

January 8, 2022

Damnnn Shaun another year gone by without you I miss you SOOOOO SO much!! Love you Lot´s!!

Arin

January 25, 2020

I miss you more than ever Shaun Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. Love you❤ XOXO

Terrance Smith

January 8, 2020

I miss you more everyday brother till we meet again love you

Shawn Harrington

July 20, 2018

Love and miss you my brother and I know you would be mad at me for saying this but go Red Sox lol but love ya man and I will see you someday

July 19, 2018

Miss and love you ❤

January 14, 2018

Miss you still to this day brother love ya man

Kathy (Provencher) Packard

January 13, 2018

Shaun has been on my mind a lot lately. Every time I read of another family happening, I think of Shaun and how he watches over his family, through good and bad. I was thinking it was coming time for his angelversary and I looked on here.....I cannot believe that it has been 7 years without him. Sally and all the family, you all are forever in my heart, as is Shaun. May January 14th be a day of remembrance, a day of laughter of great memories and a day of hugging one another and being grateful for the time you had with him. Love and hugs, Kathy Packard

David Walden

January 10, 2018

I love and miss you brother

September 10, 2017

You have visited in my dreams almost every night since you left this earth....lately even more so. I don't know what you are trying to tell me but I can tell you that our girls are so amazing and I wish you were physically here to see their accomplishments! Keep them safe as you have, and please watch over Bay a bit more these next few days! As you know, she is bunkered in with great family in FL. as Irma is showing her fury on the coast as we speak! They are very prepared but I know you will be there to help keep them safe. I miss you and love you.....Kellie

Love you ALWAYS ur lil sis Amy

February 3, 2017

Happyyyyy Birthday Shaun...I know you were definitely with us ALL today and I'm so glad that lil Amariana made her appearance on ur special day. I am missing you SOOOOO much and still can't believe your gone! Love you LOTS and Thank you for watching over us all.R.I.P. and hope you enjoyed your special day in heaven!❤❤

November 23, 2016

Uncle Shaun it's been far too long. My last time seeing you you walked through the door, and said "Hey Ray"! Your voice the image is still clear as day. A day i will remember forever. Thanksgiving is tomorrow an I saw a post on Facebook about having an "empty seat" bc of the lost of a loved one. I was gonna share it then I thought what empty chair would we have with our family lol.
We may have plenty of family to fill every seat in the house an still need more. But no one can fill the hole in our hearts that we all have since losing you. Better yet the day we gained our guardian angel! I know you're with us all the time. I love you & I miss you so much. ❤❤❤

Amy Machaffie

July 29, 2016

Missing you like crazyyyyy ...wish you were here:( Love you LOTS!!

Love ur sis Amy

Mike Delsoldato

July 9, 2016

Shaun...been a while but still miss you every day..keep everyone safe my friend....until we meet again...

Raychelle

August 12, 2015

Thinking of you, love and miss you so much! ❤

❤ your sister Arin Machaffie

June 21, 2015

Happy Father's Day Shaun <3 hope you enjoyed your day today. We all love and miss you so much but i know you're with us all the time. I love you and tell grandpa and Michael i said Happy fathers day too xoxo

Aunt Cathy

February 4, 2015

I was looking up at the stars last night thinking about what it must be like to celebrate your birthday in Heaven. It's the place where you began. how awesome it must be to spend your birthday with Jesus,God and all of our angels!! Love you!!

Terrance

February 3, 2015

Shaun, my brother, its been so long too long i wish everyday that i could see you one more time have one more laugh with you one more anything with you. You where and still are the best friend i could ever have. I wish i could there with you for your birthday because i know its going to be a blast. I love and miss you bro happy birthday love Bunndy

Love always your sister Arin <3

February 3, 2015

Happy birthday Shaun i know you're gonna be partying hard up there. I love and miss you so much :( xoxoxo

January 13, 2015

Wow... 4 yrs already...it's SOOOO hard for me right now:( I'm missing you like crazyyyy...we've been really busy lately and I'm going through alil struggle right now & I know if you were here right now you definitely would be helpin us out in anyway possible like you always did...I've never felt so alone till now:'( but anyways me,V & the kids are doin pretty good for the most...I do know V misses his sidekick ?? you guys were crazyyyy lol... Well gotta get some sleep so I'll write you again soon... Missing you SOOOO SOOOO much & Love you LOTSSSSS!! Love ur sis Amy,V & kids ?????

Arin

January 12, 2015

Miss you so much Shaun xoxo

shawn harrington

January 12, 2015

Shaun I still miss you like it was yesterday wish I could see you egan and one day I will and I love ya brother

Raymond Sheline

January 11, 2015

I was just thinking about you the other day. when I was driving through Dalton. I miss you bro!

kelli

January 11, 2015

I just wrote to you but had to come back & light this candle for you too. Love you xoxo from Steph, Brandon & CJ too

kelli Machaffie

January 11, 2015

Hey Shaun, I know it's been awhile since I have written on here. I'm sorry!! I know that you know not a day goes bye where I don't think of you, miss you, love you, wish I could talk to you, hear your voice & see your face & not just in a picture :'( tomorrow will be 4 yrs. Since you left & became OUR guardian Angel!! It still feels like yesterday man.still hurts all of us so much!! You would love CJ :) he is the best thing that has happened to me in awhile. Yea I'm a grama well a (Mema) & Steph is a great mom to him. Brandon seems to be doing good too.his grades are awesome. I love & miss you everyday Shaun!! Always & forever in OUR HEARTS.... xoxoxo I light candles for you & mike often. 1 with be lit for you ALL day tomorrow! I love you
Love always, Kel

? your sister Arin

January 11, 2015

Well it's been 4 yrs tomorrow and im missing you like crazy Shaun. It's still so hard i think about you everyday and just wish you were still here. It's not the same Shaun i keep asking God why did he have to take you so soon away from us? I don't understand :'( I love you Shaun xoxo

David Walden

October 7, 2014

Thinking of you alot today brother. I love and miss you. I have your picture taped to my computer at work, you keep me going everyday.

Raychelle MacHaffie

June 15, 2014

Happy Fathers Day Uncle Shaun Love & Miss you so much ?

? your sister Arin

June 15, 2014

Happy Father's Day Shaun!! I love and miss you so much enjoy your special day up there with grampa and thank you so much for watching over all of us everyday ? xoxo

Raychelle MacHaffie

April 10, 2014

Thinking of you, love & miss you!! ?????

Raychelle Machaffie

February 3, 2014

Happy Birthday Uncle Shaun! Miss & Love You So Much!

Susan White taliaferro

February 3, 2014

Shaun I thought of you this morning it's your birthday I hope you are watching over all of us!! I miss you a lot!! I love you!!

David Walden

January 29, 2014

Love you Shaun! I hold you in my heart every day through any challenge or tough time I come upon. I know you are watching down on all of us right now, keep our family safe and guide us in the right directions. I look in the mirror everyday and see you in me and I thank God for that. I'm so sorry Shaun that I wasn't the best brother I could have been. I was young and never really had a real chance to have much one on one time just hanging out with you, or a real man to man talk with you. I pray to you everyday and have the highest faith in knowing that you hear me. Tell Gram and Gramp that I love them and I wish I could have had a real grown up conversation with them too. You, gram and gramp left so early on in my life that I never had the chance to make you guys proud. I am pushing on brother, I will go to a Yankees game this year and I will carry you with me. Its just you and me bro. I love and miss you so so much.

Love- Your baby brother

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas honey, can't believe it's our 3rd Christmas without you, seems like yesterday we were all together for our 1st Christmas Eve family party, I treasure that night in my heart, What do you do in heaven on Christmas? Give gramps & grama a BIG hug for me, and Michael too! We had a good time at Beckys last night, we're trying to carry on the tradition each year even though its so very hard without you, a big piece of our hearts is missing but we know you don't want us to be sad. I love & miss you so very much Shaun, none of us will ever be the same, but you live in our hearts & we have wonderful memories that help keep us going each day. I love & miss you so much honey, love, mom

October 9, 2013

another season is here honey,...was always my favorite time of year, now just a reminder to me that it's just another season without you. Time definitely doesn't ease the pain of losing you Shaun, it just makes the REALITY of you gone MORE painful. I know you don't want us living everyday in sadness & you want us to carry on with our lives & not grieve, but it's SO HARD!!! I know you're OK & no longer in pain, that part eases my heart, but you are loved, missed, & thought about every single day! Give gramp & gram a BIG hug for me, hope you know my heart hugs you everyday! I love & miss you so much Shaun, mom

Amy

August 20, 2013

Missing you sooo MUCH!! <3 you

kel

August 11, 2013

Miss you & think about you everyday Shaun! I talk to you a lot. & Always holding on to all the memories I have. still & probably always some tears but definitely some smiles too!! Lots of hugs & kisses to you. Kiss & hug grama & grampa for me too. <3 <3 <3

Mike Delsoldato

June 24, 2013

Shaun...I've been missing the times we had watching baseball...I hope your well up there and watching over everyone...till we meet again bro...

Raychelle

April 7, 2013

Love & miss you!

David Walden

March 18, 2013

Hey bro, I'm just sitting at work and was thinking about you. I miss you man. I wish there was a better way to talk to you but no matter what, I know you can hear me and I know you are watching over me each and everyday. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't wish I could have been with you more. You left me hangin down here as the only yanks fan. It's alright, we will always come out on top. Anyways, I gotta get back to work but I just wanted you to know how much I love and miss you. Continue to watch over our family, I know you will. Love you man.

February 7, 2013

Miss you.... I need you so much right now.... sometimes I think that I can't do this on my own....damn it! I need you!

Rachel Wick-Moore

February 3, 2013

Happy B-day Shaun... I remember ur laughs n smile we shared in School.. I was deeply saddened with ur departure.... I'm sure u make a beautiful angel and u continue to guide n protect ur beautiful family.. I'm thinking of u today on what should of been a wonderful milestone in ur life... u may be gone but NEVER Forgotten....

carol wick

February 3, 2013

I know u are with the lord and i am sure he is showing a great birthday so from down here where everyone misses u we will have a drink in your name so happy birthday

Jazmyn Ridley

February 3, 2013

Happy Birthday Uncle Shaun!! we all love and miss u down here. Just wanted to let u know that we will be celebrating this special day in memeory of u!! I LOVE U<3

kelli

February 3, 2013

Hey Shaun, Happy 38th Birthday! We are gonna be partying down here for you, just as you are rockin the Heavens today xoxo Always & Forever in Our hearts! Love ya Kel, Steph & Bran

Darryl machaffie-ridley

February 3, 2013

Happy Birthday uncle shaun!! i love an miss you so much wish you were still here but your with god now lookin down on us, got ne addicted to bingo scratch tickets lol i jus want you to know your the man an its your day today iloveyou an ill have a nice cold one for you :}

Nadine Roraback

February 3, 2013

Happy Birthday Shaun. R.I.P.

Arin Machaffie

February 3, 2013

Happy Happy 38th Birthday Big Bro!! I know your gonna be partying hard up in heaven and we will be partying with you down here<3 i miss and love you so much Shaun!! love your lil sis Arin xoxo

Pam

February 2, 2013

Happy birthday Shaun

Raychelle

February 2, 2013

Happy birthday uncle Shaun love an miss you so much! <3

February 2, 2013

Happy Birthday big Bro...hope your enjoying your day... we will be deff. celebrating down here for you!! LOVE & missing you sooooo much:'( Love ya your lil sis Amy,V & all 10 kids<3

January 12, 2013

You are in every ray of the sunshine, the twinkle of every star in the night sky, the warmth of the summer breeze and the nip of the winter wind. You are always with us because our love for you and yours for us never ends. We miss you ~ love, Aunt Traci

Raychelle

January 12, 2013

Love and miss you uncle shaun !

sally walden

January 12, 2013

Shaun, it was exactly 2 yrs ago right now, 7 am, that the phone rang, a call I re- live every morning at this time, that call that a parent prays never to get, that call that's a parents worst nitemare, and yet that call that I got telling me you were dead, Can't believe its been 2 yrs., seems like yesterday, so fresh, so vivid in my mind, never to go away. The tears every day, the wishes that can never happen, 1 more hug, 1 more I love you, 1 more "hi mom!" Once more having you walk thru the door, 1 more phone call, 1 more ANYTHING!!!! I MISS YOU SO MUCH!!!! I guess I still haven't accepted the fact that you're really gone! You're FOREVER in my heart and in my thoughts Shaun, I just really miss you, a hurt that never gets any better OR easier. I know you're with grampa & grama though, give them hugs for me tell them I love & miss them. I wait for the day when we DO see each other again, giving u a BIG hug right now honey, love forever, mom

January 12, 2013

I am missing you sooooo MUCH...today marks 2yrs & feels like yesterday...everyone says it gets easier...i actually think it harder:'( i Miss & LOVE .you my Big Bro...cant wait till were ALL together again..xoxox <3 Amy

January 12, 2013

Two years ago on this exact day I lost someone special in my life, my uncle shaun. He was an amazing guy with a big heart, he knew how to make you laugh even on the days you felt like crap. Shaun is the best uncle that know one in the world could ever compare to. i remember the day we went trick o treating together and all the times he would come over, I would laugh everytime trey tried taking his hat and trust me he never gave up until it was in his hand. Shaun had a smile that could last a lifetime. He raised two amazing children that never once were taken off his mind, they grew to be two young adults with a passion for sports and music. We may not all show our emotions but I know thats not what you would have wanted, I know u want all of us to be happy and to know that everythings ok. In my eyes and heart you will always be a great uncle, brother, and father that will never be forgotten. Rest in Peace
<3 always shonna

Bunndy

January 12, 2013

Shaun whats goin on bro. As you know another year has gone by and even though it has not gotten any easier i feel like you still push us to grow and instead of morning the loss of you we should celebrate your new beginning. But even after all this time it still feels like just yesterday that you were sitting in my living room telling me that i need to see inception maybe it will always feel that way but i think that its not all about how soon we all lost the best father,brother, son, cousin,or best friend that was ever put here on earth its also about the best times that we shared with you thats what i want to remember you were such a phenomenal person that effortlessly impacted so many peoples lives you were truly an angel on earth. Shaun I know for a fact that I am not alone when i say that you are honestly the best person that i have ever had the pleasure of meeting and still are if there was one phrase that could some you up i think it would be "perfect in every way" and anyone thats knows you knows exactly what i am talking about.i love you brother keep us all strong see you when i get there and save me a seat. Love ya Bro

Arin

January 12, 2013

i still can't believe its been 2 yrs since you left us:( it doesn't even seem it. i'm so lost without you here i miss you so much i can't take it i think about you everyday that passes and it's soo hard. i know you are watching over us all and i can't wait till we are all together again. Miss and love you always my big Bro xoxo <3 your lil sis Arin,Bunndy and kids

January 8, 2013

Hey Uncle Shaun, so I've never been on here this is my first time an boy am I full of tears. Its so sad we miss you an love you so much an I feel like crap that I've never written on here. But you know I think about you all the time an I talk to you a lot especially when you blow out my candle that's infront of your picture ;) I still hear your voice in my head when you would walk in the door "Hey Ray!" an I try so hard to not forget it. Its still clear as day! as I sit here writing this I have tears running down my face an kamarris Jr your great nephew asks "mommy why you crying why you sad?"but I hug him as tight as possible an say I'm okay. One day he'll understand! So crazy how one minute you here an the next you can be gone, but we know your in a better place an I know one day ill see you again! I love you so much love your first niece Raychelle <3

Jay Renaud

January 7, 2013

My best friend, my brother. I miss ya man every single day. I can't drive by the old place with out seeing you there. Hope you got a beer waiting for me in heaven brother. I can't believe that in 5 days it will be two years since you left this plane. Still seems like yesterday. I know that you are happy and at peace brother and I can't wait to see you again. I love ya brother!!

Melanie

January 7, 2013

Miss you so much Shaun. Think about you all the time and remember all the good times,when we Hung out at your sisters. Still can't believe its almost been 2 years since you left. You will never be forgotten. I had another baby and put your name in her middle name. Malayia Shauntel. Keep on watching over everyone and we will all see
you again. Love you!!!

kelli

January 6, 2013

Hey Shaun, In just 6 days it will be 2 full yrs. Since you were taken from all of us physically!! Its hitting me like a ton of bricks right now! Im not sure if this will EVER get any easier Man. I LOVE & MISS YOU & talk to you Everyday. You Always have & Always will remain in OUR Hearts til we see eachother again. Love, your Big Sister

Pam

January 6, 2013

You are dearly misses

Ben Campoli

January 5, 2013

Always thinking if u buddy I no ur in a better place miss ya bro!!!!!!

jazmyn ridley

January 5, 2013

I love you uncle Shaun. I just spent an hour thinking about u and had tears running down my face. I can't wait to see you again.!! Life is soo different without you here:( just remember we are always down here thinking and remembering. All the fun times. We had together.... we cherish those memorable moments. I can't wait till we all reunite and can be together as a family again:) well. Tell great grandma and grandpa bennitte I said hi and I love them"! And don't forget to take good care of baby ridley. Love you all<3

tim and wendy hamilton

January 5, 2013

Gone but never forgotten,rest in paradise

<3 Amy

January 5, 2013

Well Shaun in 7 days it will be 2yrs since you've left us:'( & its still SOOOoo Hard...were ALL missing you sooooo MUCH...there isnt a day that Goes by that were not thinking of you!! MISS & LOVE YOU sooooo Much!!! <3 ur lil sis Amy,V & ALL 10 kids

Jade Ridley

December 18, 2012

Uncle Shaun we miss u and we hope we see u soon! i will never stop thinking of u, and i will keep drawing for u<3

sally walden

August 5, 2012

We ALL miss you honey... more & more with each passing day, our lives will NEVER be the same! We all shed tears for you everyday because we miss you so very much, but we share wonderful memories everyday which helps us to laugh.... you are FOREVER in our hearts & minds and we know you are right here with us also, we all feel your presence!! love & miss you, mom (give grampa & grama a BIG hug for us )

your sister Arin

August 4, 2012

Missing you sooo much Shaun :'( I love you!!

June 17, 2012

Happy Fathers Day Uncle Shaun! Xoxo we love you, luv Stephanie & Brandon

June 17, 2012

Hey shaun, i know its been awhile since i have written. Sorry but still is very hard! Not a day or night goes by where ur not on my mind. I know this is gonna show up a day late in here but you know im wishing you a Happy Fathers Day today :) <3 & Happy Fathers Day to Grampa too xoxo i know ur with your girls in spirit everyday! Love ya, Kel

Amy Machaffie

June 17, 2012

Happy Fathers Day Shaun!! Missing u soooooo MUCH EVERYDAY...Love ya 2 the moon & back...ur sis Amy <3

~ <3 your sister ~

June 17, 2012

Happy Fathers Day Shaun!! I miss and love you soo much :'( Wish u were here to spend your day with your AMAZING girls but I know you will be right with them in their hearts:) its soo hard without u big bro:'( xoxo I love and miss you with ALL my heart p.s. Tell grampa Happy Fathers day and give him hugs and kisses 4 me

Your sis Arin

June 3, 2012

Hi my big bro I just wanted to tell u your daughter looked AMAZING for her prom:) and I know u were right there with her and watching over her:) Missing u more & more everyday that passes :'( I LOVE U SHAUN!!

Your Brother

April 12, 2012

Hey man, just wanted to let you know that I love and miss you

Arin Machaffie

April 6, 2012

Hi my big bro i miss you soo much! We had a really good weekend with Shayshay:) I went to her science fair with her and she did an awesome job:)i am so proud of ur girls and i know you r too! I cut the pic outta the paper of Bay and put it with you:) she is doing soo good in softball:) I know ur with us everyday its just still so hard 4 me i love you Shaun and i'll ttys ~ love your sister ~ xoxox

p.s. give gramma and grampa a BIG hug 4 me!

Bunndy

April 2, 2012

Shun whats up brotha had a great weekend with shyshy i swar she looks more and more like you every day.Talk to u soon love you man

becky walden

March 6, 2012

Hey there big bro :-) ..just wanted to let you know youre going to be an uncle again!!! My kids may never be able to meet u here on earth but they are going to know who you are. ..Thinking about u and missing u every single day..love u

February 23, 2012

hello there stranger....poor Bay and her wisdom teeth...(must be your genes) no i had mine out too......miss you like crazy, just cuz i only have you to fall back on with them...even tho things were tough with you i know you would have eventually pulled through for them....we always had hope....just waiting for your time....it never came and i am sooooo sad for them and YOU.... you missed out on a lot that you didn't have to.....just sad is all..... miss you....Kellie

Melanie Berry

February 10, 2012

I miss you Shaun and think about you all the time. We have lots of memories hanging out at your sisters houses. Hope to see you again one day up there. I love you and miss you!!! & Happy belated Birthday :) <3 Melanie

Brian Ogrady

February 3, 2012

Hey Shaun didn't know that well but you made everyone In your life laugh and feel loved happy birthday man

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You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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