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J. O'Connor Obituary

Attorney J. Norman O’Connor, 83, of 44 Leonard St., Adams, and 1523 Wildwood Lane, Naples, Fla., a longtime Northern Berkshire lawyer, died early Tuesday morning at Naples Community Hospital after being admitted Monday evening.
Born in Uxbridge on July 10, 1923, son of William and Alice (Poulin) O’Connor, he attended schools in Webster and graduated from St. Louis High School there. He entered the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester in 1941, leaving to enlist in the Marine Corps when World War II broke out.
He was assigned to an accelerated 12-month officer training program at Dartmouth College in New Hampshire. He served in the Pacific theater, seeing combat on Saipan, Tarawa and Guam as a second lieutenant with the 5th Amphibious Corps. He was honorably discharged as a captain in 1946.
He later attended Boston College School of Law, where he received his juris doctor in 1953. Following his graduation, Mr. O’Connor worked as a law clerk for former Justice Counihan of the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court for a year.
He moved to Adams in 1954 to join Walter J. Donovan in the practice of law, eventually becaming a partner and forming Donovan & O’Connor Attorneys at Law. He was the active manager of the firm until 1998. He also had operated his own insurance agency in Putnam, Conn., for several years after leaving the service.
Mr. O’Connor was a fellow of the American College of Trial Attorneys and of the American Bar Foundation, an honorary organization of attorneys, judges and law professors whose professional, public and private careers have demonstrated outstanding dedication to the welfare of their communities and to the highest principles of the legal profession. Membership is limited to one-third of one percent of lawyers licensed to practice in each jurisdiction; members are nominated by fellows in their jurisdiction and elected by the foundation’s board.
He was a life member of the Massachusetts, Berkshire and American bar associations, and was a member and past president of the Massachusetts Academy of Trial Attorneys.
He was a communicant of the Parish of Notre Dame-St. Thomas Aquinas of Adams, where he was a lector for many years. He was a life member of Adams Post 160 American Legion and the Adams Lodge of Elks. He was a former Adams town meeting member and a member of the Knights of Malta. While at Holy Cross, he was a member of the President’s Council.
Mr. O’Connor especially enjoyed spending time with his family and grandchildren. He was an advocate for education, and had participated in reading to schoolchildren in the Naples elementary schools. He spent several of the winter months at his home in Naples and enjoyed playing golf. 00
He and his wife, the former Betty Deary, were married Aug. 20, 1944.
Besides his wife, he leaves two sons, J. Norman O’Connor Jr. and his wife, Christine, of Adams, and Thomas O’Connor and his wife, Claire, of Westport, Conn.; five daughters, Maureen O’Connor Burgess and her husband, Vermont Supreme Court Associate Justice Brian L. Burgess, of Montpelier, Vt., Marilou Lang and her husband, J. Michael Lang, of Plainville, Conn., Susan O’Connor of Auburn, Maine, Jane Mitchell and her husband, Michael, of Merrimack, N.H., and Elizabeth O’Connor and her husband, Kevin Burke, of Gloucester,15 grandchildren and a great-grandchild.
He was predeceased by a daughter, Colleen O’Connor, and by his brother, William O’Connor.

FUNERAL NOTICE -- The funeral for Mr. O’Connor will be Saturday, Nov. 18, at 11 from Paciorek Funeral Home, 13 Hoosac St. Adams, MA 01220, followed by a Liturgy of Christian Burial at noon in St. Thomas Aquinas Church, Route 8, Adams, celebrated by Rev. Daniel J. Boyle, pastor of the Catholic Parishes of Adams. Burial will follow in the family lot in Bellevue Cemetery, Adams.
Calling hours will be Friday from 4 to 7 at the funeral home.
Memorial donations may be made to the Frank H. Wright Memorial Scholarship Fund (Checks payable to the Rose D. Wright Trust), in care of M. Dolores Braza, Trust Officer, Bank of America, One Monarch Place, 21st Floor, Springfield, MA 01144-1001. This is a scholarship fund benefiting Berkshire County law students. To leave a message of condolence, or for directions, please go online to www.apsfuneral home.com.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Nov. 16, 2006.

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November 30, 2006

Mrs. O'Connor and family,

Our sincere sympathy to you and your family at this sorrowful time. Norman will be remembered for his family and his dedication to his chosen profession.

Sincerely,

Margo and Vin Melito

Judith Deary-Chabot

November 26, 2006

Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Bruce Pester

November 18, 2006

I would like to express my deepest condolences to the entire O'Connor family. Mr. O'Connor defined the expression of being "a gentleman and a scholar". It's been a pleasure of mine to have shared time with your family while growing up in Adams. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Lenore Turgeon Leavitt

November 18, 2006

Dear Jane, Liz, Tom and Sue:

I am very sorry about your father's passing. I know you will enjoy the happy memories you have had with your family. You were a wonderful family to know and go yo school with in the Adams.

Dennis & Carol Deary

November 16, 2006

Dear Aunt Betty & family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless all of you,

Carrie &Trent Gaylord

November 16, 2006

Dear Mrs. OConnor, Jay, Chris, Keirn, Colin,Courtney,Jane and Liz...You are in our thoughts and prayers, during these difficult days... May you always think about the specail times shared with your dad and Grandfather. He was a special family man that has touched many lives as he journied the adventures of life....May those sweet memories always bring a smile to your faces and your hearts!

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." Matthew 5:4

In Christ and Love,
Carrie(Kordana)Gaylord ,Trent and Family

Suzanne Koperniak

November 16, 2006

Jane and Liz,
I'm very sorry for your loss. I truly know how you feel, as my mother died 2 weeks ago. My son Jacob goes to school with Caleb. Jacob would like you to tell Caleb that he is very sorry also.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Suzanne (Kozik) Koperniak

Tina Melville

November 16, 2006

I was so sad to hear of Mr. O'Connor's passing. I thoroughly enjoyed working for him. He was brilliant, challenging, funny, witty, stubborn, and had more charm than a 4 leaf clover. A true Irishman if there ever was! I will miss him greatly! God bless Mrs. O'Connor and the rest of the family.

Jane Bill LePage

November 16, 2006

Our thoughts and love are with you..

Charles J. Hoye

November 16, 2006

My sympathy to all the family. Norm was a good friend and a good news source when I worked for The Transcript in the Adams and North Adams area. Charlie Hoye

Patti Siddall

November 16, 2006

Mrs. O'Connor -
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss and extend my wishes for peace and love to your entire family.

Gary & Tricia Johnstone

November 16, 2006

Please know that our thoughts and support are with all of you in this difficult time.

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