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BANCROFT RICHMOND "BATS" WHEELER

1933 - 2019

BANCROFT RICHMOND "BATS" WHEELER obituary, 1933-2019, Needham, MA

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BANCROFT WHEELER Obituary

WHEELER, Bancroft Richmond "Bats" Of Needham, formerly South Natick, Massachusetts, died on March 21, 2019. He is survived by his wife of 63 years, Mercy Haskell Wheeler, his three daughters, Emily R. Wheeler of Jamaica Plain, Massachusetts, Priscilla (Polly) C. Wheeler of Sacramento, California and her husband, Matthew Ganley and Amy C. Wheeler of Jackson Hole, Wyoming; six grandchildren, Maude, Nell, and Justin Wheeler Baldwin, Sarah Ganley, Charles Rojo, Molly Rojo; and 1 great-grandson, Bancroft Henry Ganley. In addition, Mr. Wheeler leaves the children and grandchildren of his late half-brother George W. Knowlton with whom he shared many family gatherings, and his long-time close friend, Ian Duncan, of Steamboat Springs, Colorado. Mr. Wheeler was born in 1933, in Worcester, Massachusetts, the son of Dr. Bancroft C. Wheeler and Mary Richmond Knowlton Wheeler. He attended Worcester public schools, Fay School, and graduated from Phillips Exeter Academy in 1951. He graduated from Harvard College in 1955 and served for 2 years in the United States Army in the Counter Intelligence Corps. Upon his discharge he attended Harvard Law School and graduated in 1960. Mr. Wheeler practiced law in Boston for over 50 years, first with Gaston, Snow, Motley & Holt, then with Boyd, MacCrellish & Wheeler as a name partner, and most recently as of counsel to Nutter, McClennen & Fish. Following his active practice he continued to serve as trustee and executor and participated in the Access to Justice program and as a volunteer with MetroWest5 Legal Services in Framingham. He was active in town affairs both in Needham, where he lived for 18 years, and more recently in South Natick, where he served on the Advisory Board of Broadmoor, the Massachusetts Audubon's local wildlife sanctuary, and on the board of the Natick Historical Society as well as town meeting and several town committees in each community. An avid tennis and squash player for many years, Bats competed in tournaments all over New England, serving on the board of New England Senior Tennis Foundation for many years. He enjoyed recreational skiing in New England and the West and spent many vacations on the slopes. He was a member of Longwood Cricket Club, and past member of the Union Boat Club, the Union Club and several local tennis clubs. He enjoyed assisting his wife with the planning and implementation of the gardens at their home in South Natick, which were featured from time to time in gardening literature. His affection for trees, books (history and politics), baseball (Red Sox) and dogs ran deep. A Memorial Service will be held in the Eliot Church of Natick, 45 Eliot St., Natick, on Friday, April 12, at 2 PM, followed by a reception at the Massachusetts Horticultural Society - The Gardens at Elm Bank, 900 Washington St., Wellesley. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to either the Natick Historical Society (www.natickhistoricalsociety.org), Metrowest Legal Services (www.mwlegal.org), or Broadmoor (www.massaudubon.org/Broadmoor). For obit, directions or to share a memory of Bats, please visit www.eatonfuneralhomes.com Eaton Funeral Home 781-444-0201

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 26 to Mar. 31, 2019.

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Grace Whitaker Green

April 5, 2025

My name was Grace Whitaker back in 1955. I met bats and mercy in Baltimore. We were Young brides and our husbands were in the CIC.. Mercy if you're still alive and remember me please contact me at 832-444-8332. I remember spending a Thanksgiving at bats home and your home in Connecticut. I'm back in Houston TX.

Ken Birkett

December 2, 2019

I loved our tennis matches at The Needham Tennis Club when I was in high school and college. He always made it fun for everyone.

DavidHedberg Hedberg

April 3, 2019

Many fond memories of Worcester and Bats Wheeler. RIP friend Hope you find Archer desCognets there.

March 29, 2019

A true gentleman. Fun to work with. Our sympathy to Merci.....Helen and Mel Colman

March 27, 2019

Bats' warm and welcoming smile was something I could count on whenever I saw him at Longwood or the B&T, a delightful gentleman. Sending sincere condolences, dear Mercy. Mino Sullivan

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