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RIDGELY HOWARD DUVALL

1952 - 2019

RIDGELY HOWARD DUVALL obituary, 1952-2019, Gloucester, MA

RIDGELY DUVALL Obituary

DUVALL, Ridgely Howard "Jake" Passed from this world on October 26th, after scuba diving in the waters off of Gloucester, MA. Jake was born in Princeton, N.J. on December 8, 1952. His parents, Severn Duvall Jr., and Nan Duvall lived with their three children, Jake, Sev, and Mary in Hanover, NH and, in 1962, moved to Lexington, VA where Severn Duvall taught English at Washington and Lee University.

Jake attended Mt. Hermon School in the late 1960's (class of 1971) and graduated from Lexington High School. He attended Washington and Lee for a period but moved to Boston, MA in the early 1970's, where he lived happily ever since. Jake spent the next approximately ten years in Boston, developing his extraordinary cooking and wine skills. He attended the New England Conservatory and studied and subsequently practiced music composition.

In 1985, Jake and Kathy Lum were married in Cambridge, MA, their home ever since. Their marriage was a fusion of Boston and New York, Red Sox and Mets, French and Chinese cuisines. Their pursuits carried Jake and Kathy around the globe and through these and other interests their lives were shared generously with many, many friends and family.

Jake became an avid scuba diver in the 1980's; a serious pursuit that also served to further his travel and love of exotic ingredients. In the last decades, Jake traveled to nearly every major dive location, staying in both luxurious and plain accommodations, and interacting with people around the globe. Since the 1990's, Jake and Kathy split their time between Cambridge and Gloucester, MA, where they lived in Bayview. Jake was an avid Gloucester diver, gardener and caretaker of a place he and Kathy loved beyond measure.

Jake's amazing gifts, for which we all knew and loved him, include food and wine, photography, oceanography, different cultures, birds, southern heritage at times, and making children laugh. In addition to friends too numerous to mention, Jake is sadly missed by his wife of 34 years, Katherine Lum; siblings Sev Duvall of Westport, CT (Louise, Eliza and Sarah); Mary Duvall of Boulder, CO (Vlad and Lily); Danek Duvall of San Francisco, CA; and his stepmother, Tamara Duvall of Lexington, VA. Jake's parents predeceased him.

Memorial plans are pending. In lieu of flowers, please remember Jake with a donation to oceanographic environmental causes and the Boston Sea Rovers Summer Internship.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 5 to Nov. 6, 2019.

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Jim cook

May 17, 2020

Jake was a fascinating guy. Kind, sincere and generous. There aren't many people who I like as much as jake. It's sad I won't hear his stories anymore. My sincere condolences to his wife and family. He will be very much missed.

Janet Randall

November 11, 2019

So sorry to hear of Jake's passing. He was a smiling face every time we would meet at Formaggio. Just a lovely man.

David Shumway

November 5, 2019

I got to know Jake through working at Cape Ann Divers. I will miss his intelligence, sense of humor, and generosity. He was a wonderful person and it was a pleasure and honor to have known him. Deepest condolences to Kathy and all of Jake's family.

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