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Mary Rines Obituary

RINES, Mary Jo Consummate artist, mother of three, and beloved by many, died peacefully on September 4 at her home in Weston, MA after a brief but hard-fought battle against lung cancer. She was 80. As a student, teacher and award-winning artist, she supported art organizations throughout her career. She was the first female president (1988-90) of the 100-year old New England Watercolor Society and remained a director for decades. Mary Jo was also a long-term member and chairman of the art committee of the Copley Society of Art in Boston and served as president of the fledgling Weston Arts and Crafts Association in Weston in the early sixties. She was a major force in the conception and creation of the gallery at First Parish Church in Weston and served as its chair for many years. Mary Jo Marcy was born on Aug. 27,1931 in Wilkes-Barre, PA., the daughter of the late Dr. Emmett and Josephine Marcy, and niece of the late Dr. Arthur Stull, a former chemist and high-ranking official in the U. S. Office of the Surgeon General during WWII. She graduated from Skidmore College in June 1953 and was recruited by the super-secret National Security Agency and stationed in Washington, DC where she met Lt. S. Melvin Rines, a WWII Navy fighter pilot who had just returned from the Korean War. After a whirlwind courtship they were married on Feb. 28, 1954. In addition to devoting herself to raising three children, she studied with highly-trained and innovative artists, attended workshops, worked in various paint media creating traditional, abstract and contemporary works of art. Later she conducted her own workshops teaching Techniques in Watercolor in the Boston area and ran the Deep Cove Workshops from her studio in Southport Island, Maine, focusing on 'Edge of the Sea' themes of shells, rocks, seaweed and sand moving with the tides. She has won more than forty-six painting awards including the Gold Medal of Honor from the New England Watercolor Society and was a Signature Member of the Transparent Watercolor Society of America. Mary Jo's work has been widely exhibited in New England and national shows. She has traveled throughout the world and led painting safaris in Kenya and Tanzania capturing images of many cultures and animal life, converting sensitive sketches and fleeting photographs into living paintings through innovative shapes and exquisite color. Although art in all its forms was of consuming interest, she was also an enthusiastic tennis and contract bridge player, a veteran skier throughout New England, the West and Austria and Switzerland, a skilled sailboat racer in Boothbay Harbor, Maine and cruiser in bareboat charters in the Caribbean, Greek Islands and Turkey. A late-comer to horsemanship, she learned to ride Eastern and Western saddle, accomplished basic dressage and jumping, and rode-to-the-hounds (twice!) in full regalia. Mary Jo Rines is survived by her husband, Mel, of Weston, MA a former managing director of Kidder, Peabody & Co, her daughter Marcy Venezia of Canton, MA, her son David and his wife Alisa of Arlington, MA, and five grandchildren. Mary Jo is also mother of the late Jeffrey W. Rines who died in 1978. Memorial services will be held at First Parish Church in Weston, 349 Boston Post Road, Weston, MA at 2:00 pm on September 23rd, 2011. Arrangements entrusted to the care of the John C. Bryant Funeral Home of WAYLAND. For on-line condolences, pleasevisit www.johncbryantfuneralhome.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 10 to Sep. 11, 2011.

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Barbara Briggs

September 27, 2011

We remember the wonderful Maine foggy morning forays into nature and privileged trips into the studio to check out what was lately blooming on the "canvasses", punctuated by early afternoon plunges into the icy waters followed by VERY quick swimming and laughter all around. Such lively and mystical fun. I can see Mary Jo smiling in heaven, ready to burst into one of her suddenly complicit laughs...
Love, Barbara King Briggs and Paul and Caleb

September 23, 2011

Rines Family,

Rob and I were so sad to hear about Mary Jo's passing. We both have such wonderful memories of Weston living and holiday gatherings. In particular, we recall bringing our baby twins to your Christmas Eve gathering - how welcoming you all were and warm! Thinking of you all and hoping that you find strength from each other during this most difficult time.

Love Rob and Maureen King

Beverly Cuellar

September 18, 2011

Dear Uncle Mel,
We are so sad to hear of Aunt Mary Jo's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

September 15, 2011

Dear Mel and family, We are so very sorry to hear of Mary Jo's passing. She certainly was a wonderful person and added so much to everyone's life. All will miss her as you do and our thoughts are with you and your family. We are too far away to attend the service but we'll be thinking of you. Would love to hear about Mel's new books. Come visit the Northwest sometime. Love to all, Sue and Bryan Cairns

September 13, 2011

Mel,
I was lucky enough to meet Mary Jo (and you) through Gracia. She brought happiness to all who encountered here i extend my deepest sympathy
Libby Mottur (Chatham, MA)

September 12, 2011

Our prayers are with you Mel. Such an accomplished artist...someone who always chose to dance rather than sit on the sidelines. God Bless you and your family at this most difficult time.
Sincerely,
Diane and Guy Randlett

Carol Jessen

September 12, 2011

I loved her shell paintings from the first time I saw them. And a couple of years ago we painted the tidal pool at Rachel Carson's house all day. The Boothbay Region has lost a great one. We shall miss her warm smile and painting companionship.

Lynne & John Seitzer

September 12, 2011

We loved her.

September 10, 2011

Always smiling, always full of artistic humor - a wonderful life-long friend from the Skidmore class 0f "53 Loving sympathies to her handsome husband, beautiful children. Mary Jo will live forever in the spirits of everyone honored to have known her. with loving prayers, Jacquie and Don Martin

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