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HENRY THAYER

1937 - 2017

HENRY THAYER obituary, 1937-2017, Norfolk, MA

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HENRY THAYER Obituary

THAYER, Henry Henry, age 79, died peacefully on March 26, 2017 at Norwood Hospital. Henry was born on April 15, 1937 in Boston to Edward C. Thayer and Margaret B. Thayer. Henry leaves his loving wife Ellen, his son Henry, Jr. and daughter-in-law Naoko of Wethersfield, CT, his son Joshua and daughter-in-law Eunha of Brookline, MA, his daughters Alison of Rehoboth, MA and Ashley of Norfolk, MA, his grandchildren Kendrick, Joshua, Justin, Zoe, Emily, Aiden and Gabriel, his sister Margaret T. Hollingsworth of Kennebunkport, ME, and his nephew Nathaniel and nieces Chandler and Katherine. Henry was predeceased by his brother Edward C. Thayer, Jr. Among his many talents and activities, Henry was an enormous railroad enthusiast, accomplished photographer, voracious reader and historian. His marvelous and unique sense of humor, a love for slapstick and absurdist humor, and a tendency towards mischief, were quite infectious and made him a delight to be around. Henry also possessed a profound love for animals and nature. He was deeply devoted to the care of his loved ones and those in need. A graduate of Harvard College (A.B., 1958) and Harvard Law School (J.D., 1963), Henry spent his entire legal career at Rackemann, Sawyer & Brewster in Boston, having joined the firm in 1964, the year of his admission to the bar. For 52 years he advised clients with respect to real estate titles as extensive as a city block or a 3600 acre tract or as local as the disputed use of a driveway. Henry was the driving force behind updating and bringing back into use the seminal book on Massachusetts title and conveyancing practice, editing the eighth and ninth editions of Crocker's Notes on Common Forms, published by Massachusetts Continuing Legal Education, Inc. His passion for railroad history and love of rail travel evolved into a particular expertise in the law of railroad titles, a subject on which he wrote and lectured extensively. He was widely recognized as the "Dean of Titles" who contributed immeasurably to the field of Massachusetts real estate law and to the training and professional development of the bar; and he was instrumental in leading and shaping the Massachusetts community of real estate lawyers. Henry served as president of the Massachusetts Conveyancers Association (now The Real Estate Bar Association for Massachusetts) in 1988; and he received the group's highest honor, the Richard B. Johnson Award, in 1995. Henry was also a past president of The Abstract Club. In addition, Henry served for many years as chair of the joint amicus committee of both groups. In addition to REBA and The Abstract Club, Henry was a member of the Massachusetts Bar Association and the Boston Bar Association. He was elected as a fellow in the American College of Real Estate Lawyers in 1984. Henry's generosity towards fellow members of the bar and to clients of all kinds, most notably those of limited means, was legendary. For many years Henry participated in the Boston Bar Association's Volunteer Lawyers Project, an organization which provides legal representation in civil matters to indigent Boston individuals and families. Henry also contributed innumerable hours of pro bono service to the Dudley Street Neighborhood Initiative, serving as eminent domain counsel in connection with the return to life of the Dudley Triangle neighborhood in Roxbury and Dorchester. Among his many philanthropic and charitable endeavors, Henry perhaps valued most his work with The Cathedral Church of St. Paul in Boston, where he served as chancellor from September 2005 through January 2013 and was a member of the Cathedral's Leadership Development Institute. In addition, Henry offered his much needed love and support to St. Paul's Church in Brockton, MA. In recognition of time that he donated to the above causes and to so many others, Henry received the Boston Bar Association's Pro Bono Award in 1991 and the Massachusetts Bar Association's Pro Bono Award in 1998. Henry served in the U.S. Army Reserve for 33 years, enlisting as a Private in 1955, receiving his commission as a Second Lieutenant in 1958 and retiring with the rank of Colonel in 1988. A member of the Field Artillery branch, Henry also participated in Army Intelligence and the Foreign Liaison Service and was awarded the Meritorious Service Medal in 1988. During his active duty tour, he served in Korea from 1959 to 1960 following his training at Fort Sill, Oklahoma. Thereafter his reserve service included assignments to the Pentagon, Newport News and Berlin among other places. He declined an invitation to enroll in the Army War College prior to his retirement to focus on his law practice. A service will be held at St. Andrews Episcopal Church, 79 Denton Road in Wellesley at 11:00 a.m. on Wednesday, April 12, 2017. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers a contribution to the Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty of Animals (MSPCA) would be most appreciated. MSPCA, ATTN: Donations, 350 South Huntington Avenue, Boston, MA 02130. For additional information, tributes and guestbook please visit: Duckett-Waterman.com Duckett - J. S. Waterman & Sons Home of Memorial Tribute Sudbury, MA (978) 443-5777

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Published by Boston Globe from Apr. 6 to Apr. 9, 2017.

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Jim Boyce

April 11, 2017

I met Henry and Ft. Sill, Oklahoma in 1958. He became a good friend and we enjoyed very much listening to the music of Duke Ellington and discussing railroads which were a lifelong passion of my Father. I knew, I thought, a considerable amount about railroads, their names, their routes, their amenities (remember it was the 50's). After meeting Henry, I let him do all the talking about railroads, those he had ridden, to where he had ridden them, and those he had not rode - passenger or freight notwithstanding. I am certain he will be missed by everyone who ever knew him. Rest in peace old friend.

Jim Boyce, Whitefish Bay, Wisconsin

John L. Donovan

April 9, 2017

After sending my first message I remembered something I should have added. Henry was the only guy that any of us knew who sent a foot locker full of train timetables to Korea as part of his baggage. JLD

John L. Donovan

April 9, 2017

I was a classmate of Henry's at Ft. Sill in FAOBC-5-59. I also served in a field artillery unit that was stationed next door to Henry's 38th FA battalion. We had great times. Mrs. Thayer and children Henry was a great guy. I am sorry for your loss.

R. Harris

April 5, 2017

Henry was an icon in Boston and beyond. He was a human library with a kind soul and a golden heart. He will be missed deeply.

April 3, 2017

Henry was a valued member of the Massachusetts legal community, a dear friend and former law partner - I am sharing a portion of an announcement that was circulated last week among the lawyers who knew and practiced with Henry:

Henry served as president of the Massachusetts Conveyancers' Association, REBA's predecessor, in 1988 and he received the group's highest honor, the Richard B. Johnson Award, in 1995. He was also a past president of The Abstract Club. In addition, he served for many years as chair of the joint amicus committee of both groups.

He spent his entire legal career at Rackemann, Sawyer & Brewster, P.C., having joined the firm in 1964, the year of his admission to the bar. For over 43 years he advised clients with respect to real estate titles as extensive as a city block or a 3600 acre tract or as local as the disputed use of a driveway. Throughout his career Henry participated in the Boston Bar Association's Volunteer Lawyers Project. In 1991 he received the BBA's Pro Bono Award. In 1998 he received the Massachusetts Bar Association's Pro Bono Award. In addition to REBA and The Abstract Club, he was a member of the Massachusetts Bar Association and the Boston Bar Association. He was a fellow at the prestigious American College of Real Estate Lawyers.

Henry was the driving force behind updating and bringing back into use the seminal book on Massachusetts title and conveyancing practice, editing the eighth and ninth editions of Crocker's Notes on Common Forms, published by Massachusetts Continuing Legal Education, Inc. With special expertise on railroad titles, Henry also contributed to MCLE's Real Estate Title Practice in Massachusetts. He was widely recognized as the "Dean of Titles" who contributed immeasurably to the field of Massachusetts real estate law and to the training and professional development of the bar; he was instrumental in leading and shaping the Massachusetts community of real estate lawyers. His dedication to his clients, leadership in the real estate bar, and career-long commitment to the education and training of others exemplify the best of our profession's rich legal heritage, and his generosity towards fellow members of the bar and to clients of all kinds, most notably those of limited means, was legendary.

A graduate of Harvard College and Harvard Law School, Henry began his service in the U.S Army Reserve as a private in 1955, serving in the Korean conflict in 1950 and 1960, and retiring with the rank of Colonel in 1988.

A scholarship was founded in his name this past year to honor Henry for all that he has done to advance the legal profession and improve the lives of others.

He was a treasure and he will be deeply missed.

Lauren D. Armstrong, formerly of Rackemann, Sawyer and Brewster

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