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Deborah Giden
July 17, 2013
Dear Marcy, Amy, Julie, and Peter,
I am just feeling terrible that I have not written you all. I wrote cards but haven't found what I am certain are correct addresses for everyone. So, I apologize for this method of reaching you. Judith (my grandma) would have been embarrassed. It is a sign of the times.
I am sorry to hear about Jay. I hope you are doing okay.
My mom reminded me that without Jay my family would not be here - "Thank you Jay for being a matchmaker"
Also, I admired him for his professionalism and patience in dealing with certain family matters. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
I wish we lived closer to each other so we could share more of our lives ups and downs. Just know that I am here in beautiful Mountain View, California. I have an extra bed and bath, and welcome you anytime.
Again I apologize for emailing.
Warmly,
Deborah
(your favorite cousin)
victor silverstein
July 13, 2013
Dear Marcy and Family,
I was saddened to read of your great loss of Jay. He was a wonderful person, full of warmth and compassion. I am sure that the many memories that you have of him will give you the strength needed to go forward.
Fondly,
Sandra and Victor Silverstein
July 5, 2013
Marcy
Lois and I are both so saddened by the news. Jay was always the one we went to in time of legal problems. He was the best. His common sense and legal ability were second to none. I will always remember when we moved to Alaska, he couldn't wait to get Bobs "knee action" bike. A wonderful man!
Lois and Bob Brauch
Matt Conway
July 2, 2013
Mrs. Brett, Peter, Julie and Amy,
I am very sorry to hear about your Dad. He was such a great guy who always had a smile on his face every time I saw him. Whether it was talking about the swimming pool, politics or the law, he was a great conversationalist. I miss the many great times on Amherstdale and Colonial. You have my sincere condolences.
Kyle Downey
July 1, 2013
Jay volunteered countless hours for Cornell and he was an outstanding leader in the Buffalo area. He made a positive impact not just on Cornell, but on the lives of thousands of young men and women.
Kyle Downey and Colleen Chaffee
Cornell Alumni Admissions Ambassador Network (CAAAN)
linda conway
June 29, 2013
I adored your sense of humor....what a wonderful Colonial Dr. neighbor you were..our children would not have learned to swim without the generosity of your pool!!.
Jim loved talking to you as i was leaving Buffalo in 2006 for my trip back to WH....May you rest in peace and I hope you and Jim are playing bridge as I write thei note!1
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June 27, 2013
Mr. Brett was a true gentleman. Our deepest sympathy to his family.
Linda Walker
June 27, 2013
Marcy - I was so sorry to hear about Jay. I'm sure that you and your family are being prayed for by a whole lot more people than any of you realize. Love,
Maurice Levy
June 27, 2013
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Jay's death. Somehow I always felt comfortable knowing he was around. Jay was a wonderful friend and knowing him has very much enriched my life. Sad to say, I did not spend enough time with him.
Marcy, I send my heartfelt condolences to you and the family. I share in your loss, with Love,
Maurice
Sally Willet
June 26, 2013
Marcy,
Please accept my deepest sympathy at the loss of your dear Jay. You are in my prayers.
June 26, 2013
Sending lots of hugs, kisses and prayers. Jay is in a better place.
Lots of love,
Lisa Nolan Kieres
Jean-Jacques Boissier
June 26, 2013
Jay, you and I go back so far that I cannot imagine this world without you. You are a dear friend and valued advisor, and I will miss you greatly. Johnny
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