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ELIZABETH H. W. LAWRENCE - ELIZABETHTOWN, N.Y. - Elizabeth Hand Wadhams Lawrence passed away peacefully at home on Feb. 14, 2012, from cancer. She was born on May 13, 1947, in New York City, to Elizabeth Hand Wadhams and Richard W. Lawrence Jr. Shortly thereafter, they moved north to live in her mother's family home in Elizabethtown, N.Y., where she was raised. Growing up in this small town was a profound and formative part of her life, which she greatly appreciated. Betsy, Stacey, Elizabeth, Aunt Betty Joe, or Beej (as she was known at various times during her life) was a fiercely independent woman, with great strength of character, immense generosity, deep compassion for her fellow man, and a keen thirst for knowledge. She was also a gifted cook, an artist, a singer, and writer, who possessed a serious sardonic wit. In her youth, Betsy attended the Elizabethtown-Lewis Central School, graduated from Emma Willard School, and then from St. Lawrence University. Following that, she lived in San Francisco, Moab, Utah, and Orleans, Mass., before moving to Burlington in 1977. Elizabeth was an early employee of Ben and Jerry's Ice Cream, managing their first store in the gas station in Burlington. She then cofounded Green Mountain Prevention Projects and the Green Mountain Teen Institute, designated as one of the "Thousand Points of Light" by the first Bush administration. Elizabeth also worked for the Burlington Community Land Trust and the Vermont Council on the Arts. She was a member of the Burlington-based a capella group, "The Chapped Lips." Elizabeth returned to Elizabethtown to care for her father in 1998. Following his death in 2002, she worked with The Housing Assistance Program of Essex County and the Elizabethtown Cemetery Association. She served her community as Trustee of the Elizabethtown Social Center and the Cora Putnam Hale Trust; Chair of the Essex County Community Services Board and Chair of the Essex County Historical Society; and Board Member of the Boquet Housing Development. Elizabeth was preceded in death by her parents; and her sister, Ruth (Robin) Lawrence Wilson. She is survived by her sister, Alida Lawrence Currey of Grand Junction, Colo.; her niece, Lynn Wilson (Ben Fredregill) and children, Cole and Marina, of Arvada, Colo.; her niece, Anne Lawrence Wilson (Peter Lawson) and children, Bates and Theodore, of Moab, Utah; and her Wadhams cousins. She had a large extended "family" of people who loved and cared for her as well. Our deepest gratitude to all those who helped out during the last year, particularly Emily Wadhams, Hanna Kissam and Mark Kissam. A memorial celebration of Elizabeth's life will be held Monday, Feb. 20, 2012, at 2 p.m. at the United Church of Christ (the Stone Church), 7580 Court Street in Elizabethtown, N.Y. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Essex County Historical Society, P.O. Box 426, Elizabethtown, NY.

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Published by The Burlington Free Press on Feb. 16, 2012.

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paul

June 16, 2012

First Time in Moab


You came in quietly,
slipping under the cool
sheets, pressing skin

to skin as an eighteen-
wheeler howled down
the two-lane into town.

Mary Campbell Caldwell

February 26, 2012

Bets, I know you must be amused at this modern form of expression. I think we'll look at this as a message in the air... I know your mighty, mighty soul is hard at work. Keep an eye on all of us who love you. ... that should keep you busy. See you on the flip side! Peace be with you Lady!

Dee Steffan

February 21, 2012

I'm so sad to hear about this. Betsy Stacey Elizabeth made our lives so much fun in the early Ben and Jerry's days; I will always remember her great laugh and sense of craziness. Rest in peace, Betsy.

Jane Tienne

February 21, 2012

Betsy lit up my life from the first day of kindergarten – when my family moved to California, I never got over missing her. Shall never forget the special joy when she came with her music teacher to San Diego – we were 12 years old. Later our paths crossed again – in San Francisco (1971), at Appletree Point the summer I studied at Middlebury (1979) and in 1989 when she rescued me from despair – quite literally, she saved my life. Saw her briefly in Burlington when I was on my to start my life over in England (1990). Had lunch with her at the Deer's Head Inn (summer 2010) – she was tired, thin and out of sorts. I wonder, did she know then that she was ill and just didn't want to tell me? Memories will never fade of evenings on the screened porch, eating delicious food, listening to music and talking about life… she touched so many lives and mine was one of them. Irreplaceable, in my heart forever. Sweet sleep, Betsy.

February 19, 2012

Miss you Betsy...a friend since 1965.
Olly Quayle

David

February 17, 2012

Love the photo. Elizabeth, I know you're smiling down on all of us with a twinkle in your eye. Thank you, thank you, thank you. You've given me and so many so much. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jody Albright

February 17, 2012

I remember Elizabeth (I called her Bets), as a feisty, highly intellingent, witty and sincerely generous person. She had a lot of soul which came out in her singing. Singing with her in 'The Chapped Lips' was a highlight in my life and a memory I will always treasure. Bets had a great ear for melody and a wonderful way with words- (she also had the biggest vocal range in the group which we definately exploited!) She also had a great sense of style and an eye for beautiful, artistic things. Unfortunately, I hadn't seen Bets in a very long time and was so sad to hear this news. I am thinking of you Emily; another Lip, her cousin and very close friend- I'm so sad for your loss.

Annalisa Picciolo

February 17, 2012

Goodbye Auntie Betty
It was an honour, a pleasure and a treat to meet you. You were a wonderful woman, a fantastic Auntie and we will always keep in our heart the memory of you, your beautiful house, your smile and all your stories. We'll never forget the time spent with you. Thank you for being so wonderful. Annalisa & Michelle

Tana Randall

February 17, 2012

A strong, powerful woman who affected so many of us in Vermont... Thank you, Elizabeth, for your gift of GMTI.

February 17, 2012

Elizabeth, you made such a difference in my life the summer I was at GMTI, and I'm sure in countless other lives as well. I'm sad to hear the news and will always be thinking of you when I stargaze at night! I want you to know I turned out ok :)

Corey Niles

February 16, 2012

She gave us many many smiles, and certainly some, OMG! moments...from one of her many many vermont kiddos..

Corina Rose

February 16, 2012

So sad to hear this, I learned so much from her. She was dedicated to her work and had a big heart may she rest in peace

Laurie Spindler

February 16, 2012

A wonderful woman who had a powerful impact on me and many young Vermonters via GMTI. I am grateful to have known her, laughed with her and to have learned so much. Thank you Elizabeth. Your influence will live on with so many. Thank you.

Baruch Zeichner

February 16, 2012

I'm very sad to see this. Elizabeth was a one off, with a huge heart and a keen mind.

Gary Sisco

February 16, 2012

I'm very sorry to read this. I loved her very much and she was a great friend.

Barbara Leslie

February 16, 2012

Love,laughter,humor incredible,friendship,road trips,politics,and appletree point - her treasure of a home; all filled with warmth,food,song,heart and friends. I am blessed to have been embraced in the glowing aura of Elizabteth's awesome personality - and no doubt, a wiser woman for it. Bets was so sharp - and I think that is what I loved most about her. Her energy, creativity and talent went so far beyond words said today. Elizabeth, with this crazy sad news today, I only take comfort in the thought that the song of your life is resonating through the heavens..you've been singing with the angels for a long,long time. Betsy was my good friend for a very long time, and I hadn't seen her in some years before running into her and Emily at Red Square. And so it was ever the same telling stories and laughing... some more. As for Emily and Elizabeth, that is a story for another to tell about how incredible friendship can be. Em,I am sad for your loss.

william Sullivan

February 16, 2012

My condolences to the family of this magnificent woman who was so oriented toward the needs of others. Bill Sullivan, Starksboro, VT

Tim Wile

February 16, 2012

I am so terribly sorry to hear this news about Elizabeth. She had such a wry sense of humor and the ability to see things clearly in rather direct ways - something I loved about her. I spent a number of years basking in the legacy of GMPP and GMTI - an incredible gift to so many. The last time I say Elizabeth was a number of years ago when driving through Elizabethtown with a friend on the way to a wedding, we were talking about Elizabeth and then drove by her walking down the street. We had a lovely and laugh filled impromptu reunion. I send you all my very best with so much appreciation for the woman Elizabeth was.

With love -

Tim Wile

Doug Hoffer

February 16, 2012

She was one of a kind.
A great loss.

Lisa Seymour

February 16, 2012

I did not know Elizabeth; in fact, I never met her. I can tell you that my children thoroughly enjoyed their participation in GMPP, especially my oldest daughter, who is now in her 3rd year at Lyndon State College. She sounds like a wonderful lady who touched many lives, created life-long memories and will be missed terribly.

Rich Feeley

February 16, 2012

I was sorry to read that Elizabeth has passed away. I remember her from many years ago, when she sang with "The Chapped Lips" in Burlington, along with our friend, Emily Wadhams. Emily, we are so sorry for your loss.

Elizabeth was a very smart, and beautiful woman. She made a great contribution to our community during her life. RIP.

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