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Thomas David Obituary
Thomas J. David, 58, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, July 13, 2007, at Cape Cod Hospital.
Tom leaves behind three daughters, Jill, Kimberly and Laurie, all of Yarmouthport; his loving girlfriend, Linda Pleva of Harwich; and his former wife, Betsy David of Yarmouthport. He is survived by his brother, Robert J. David of Upton; his sister, Barbara M. Griffith of Coventry, Conn.; five nieces; and two nephews. Additionally, he leaves his lifelong friend Robert Dinallo of Windsor, Conn., and grandchildren, Sugar and Spice.
Tom was born on April 15, 1949, in Hartford, Conn., son of the late Joseph M. David and Madeline K. David. He spent his childhood years in Windsor, Conn., and graduated from Windsor High School in 1968. Tom loved to travel and spent the next eight years living in Florida, California and Hawaii before moving to Cape Cod in 1976.
He was the owner of The Atlantic Stripping Company and then was employed for the last 18 years by The Bath House/Republic Plumbing and Heating Co. He was the inventor of the String Thing.
He loved walking on the beach and watching the sunrise and sunsets. He enjoyed spending time with his family and friends and always had many great stories to share. He had a great sense of humor, a smile for everyone and was always making people laugh. He will be truly missed and will stay in our hearts and thoughts each and every day.
Visiting hours will be on Tuesday, July 17, from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Morris & O'Connor Funeral Home, 58 Long Pond Drive, South Yarmouth. Memorial service will be private.
In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to the American Heart Association, 396 Main St., Hyannis, MA 02601.
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Kimberly David
August 13, 2007
Daddy I love you and miss you so much.
Marilyn Hotchkiss Molloy
August 9, 2007
My cousin, Anna King, just sent me the notice of Tom's passing. My condolences to all his family. He was very young the last time I saw Tom and his sisters. Tom's grandmother and my mother were sisters. Ester Henrechon Kennedy and my mother, Madeline Dorothea Henrechon Hotchkiss.
With my sympathy, Marilyn Molloy
July 25, 2007
To Tom's Family - I am very sorry to hear of your loss.
I am a very old family friend from childhood days.
Again, my deepest sympathy Jack MIllen
Ellen Romano
July 20, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
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Ellen Romano
July 20, 2007
Dear Betsy, Jill, Kim, and Laurie
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Tom (your Dad). The loss of a loved one is so terribly disturbing no matter what the circumstances are. We thought we were going to lose Bob when he had his heartattack but I guess the man upstairs has other plans for him. I can't say anything to help make you feel better, but I can pray for you all to stand by one another and let yourself feel and release your emotions. All of them. Even if it's anger, it helps to shout. My heart breaks for you all Peace
Ellen Romano
July 20, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Jenny Glover
July 18, 2007
DearJillybean,
I am so sorry for you profound loss. I will always remember playing frisbee with you and your dad on the beach. Laughing in the sun sharing a moment in your lives together as father and daughter. You could always tell there was so much love between the two of you. That
will never leave you he is apart of you. Hold on to it forever and let
him live through you. I love you. Keep smilin in the sun.
love always,
Jenny, Chris and Emily
David Lang
July 18, 2007
I grew up on Filley St. with Tommy. Fond memories of playing baseball at John Fitch School, fishing at Washington Park, drinking coffee at the Farm Shop His kindness and sense of humor will be best remembered.
Kerry Medeiros
July 17, 2007
Laurie,
You and your family are in my prayers. Your dad was a great guy and always had a smile. I will miss seeing him at CVS in Dennis.
Lisa Bertrand
July 17, 2007
Mr. David-My dear neighbor! Always a kind word, a smile and a wave to share! You are truly missed. My family was blessed to have known you. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Keith, Lisa, Jordan
Steve D'Esopo
July 17, 2007
I can't remember a time before I knew Tom David. Our dads car-pooled to Pratt & Whitney for so many years and we grew up across Washington Park from each other. Whether we were skating on the pond, playing golf or baseball in the field or I was just looking for someone to help me pull by bobsled up the hill for another slide, Tommy David was always in the group. To Bob and Barbara and your families, my sincere condolences for your loss. Tom will be missed.
Danielle C.
July 17, 2007
Jill,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. He was such a nice man & always had a smile on his face. You, and your family, are in my prayers.
john bassell
July 17, 2007
Went to high school with "T" spent some crazy times at Mama Rugars and time out in California as well as the Cape. From the boys of the divot club he will be missed
Richard E. Smith II
July 17, 2007
I had the pleasure of meeting Tom in my Junior year of High School. We became instant friends. After serving a tour of duty in Vietnam, my Dad gave me the keys to his old car and the use of his old camper and told me to go relax for the summer. Tom, Steve Foote ,Jim Govoni, Larry Galliot and I took off, in the summer of 71, to Cape Cod. I never had so much fun. Tom fell in love with the Cape.
After a brief tour of the world, Tom returned home to Windsor.
Tom's love for the Cape was as strong as ever. So, in the summer of '73, along with my new bride Phyllis, Tom took us up on an offer to bring him back to the Cape.
That summer of '73 started Tom's new adventure on Cape Cod. Needless to say, it was his most memorable journey....he never left the Cape.
We visited as often as we could, but Tom always remained one of my best friends. I will miss him calling me "Smite" and giving me a big bear hug when we met.
May god Bless you my friend.
Smite
Renee Marks
July 17, 2007
Kimmie,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. What a genuine person he was. I remember him coming into Cape Cod gymnastics "raising the roof"! Always with a smile on his face. He Loved you girls all SOOO much. He will always be with you in your hearts.
God Bless
Paul Olszowy
July 16, 2007
My sympathy to Tom's family. I worked with Tom at Republic. Tom was one of those easy going people who was liked by everybody. He will be missed.
Erin and Steven Burlingame
July 16, 2007
Jill, Kim, and Laurie,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Your Dad was a wonderful man with a smile always on his face. Our condolences go out to all of you and your family.
Caitlin Spencer
July 16, 2007
Kimmie I am so sorry for your loss. my heart goes out to you andyour family. xo
Joyce Bazzano
July 16, 2007
To all Tom's family, my heart goes out to you. I went all through grammar school and high school with Tommy; he was such a sweetheart. He will be missed by so many. Always remember that those we love don't go away, they walk beside us everyday...
God Bless
Joyce (Knickerbocker) Bazzano
Jeff Dulkie
July 16, 2007
Jill I am sorry for the loss of your dad. I also no what you are going threw and I will be here if you need to talk.
Jeff Dulkie
Jill David
July 16, 2007
I miss you Father..Sugar and Spice miss you too..I will make you proud..love, Bean
Elizabeth Bohaty (formally Kelly)
July 16, 2007
Dear Barbara: My sister, Kathy forwarded to me announcement that your brother passed away, suddenly. I'm so sorry! I remember him so well back on Filley Street (when I was a little girl) as your older brother who got to do adventerous things such as drive to CA. As an 8 year old, I was in awe of him! Know that my prayers are with you and the rest of the family. I'll be thinking about you all on the 17th. I wish I could be there. God bless.....Lizzy Kelly (formally of 52 Filley).
Sue Picard
July 16, 2007
Jill,
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your sisters. I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nan Coleman-Gagne
July 16, 2007
So very sad to hear of Tommy's passing . We grew up together in Filley St neighborhood in Windsor and shared many fun times together with all our neighborhood friends, including the Lang's, Hedges and Kellys , playing a nightly game of "kick the can!" I was fortunate enough to see Tommy again at the country fair, as we both moved to the Cape . We will miss you, our friend, our neighbor. Thanks for some many cherished memories.
Kim David
July 16, 2007
The best father in the whole world. I miss you daddy!!! love your Kimberly
Pam Maxwell
July 16, 2007
Laurie, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. My sympathy to you and your family. He was such a nice guy. Take care.
Kristin David
July 16, 2007
My favorite uncle, you will be missed immensely. Love, Kristin
Laura McCormack
July 16, 2007
My sympathy to Tom's family. We went to Windsor High School together and I remember him as a very nice, friendly person.
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