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John Balch Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 10, 2006.

BALCH - John Louis, 86, died in Bradenton, Florida on January 8, 2006 He was the proud owner of the popular Captain Higgins Seafood Restaurant in Wellfleet, Massachusetts since 1968. He was the beloved husband of Betty (Godwin) Balch, father of four children: Carol (Bradford) Case, Bradenton, FL., Jeanne (Steven) Coser, Melrose, MA, David (Linda) Balch, Wellfleet, MA and Mark (Kelly) Balch, Spring Hill, Fl. He was a loving grandfather of seven and great-grandfather of three boys. A celebration of his life and memorial service in Massachusetts and Florida will follow at a late date. Those wishing to making to make an expression of sympathy are asked to consider Dana Farber Jimmy Fund, PO Box 55585, Boston, MA, 02205 or The First Congregational Church of Wellfleet, 200 Main Street, Wellfleet, MA 02667.

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January 8, 2007

Betty Balch posted to the memorial.

January 8, 2007

Carol Case posted to the memorial.

January 7, 2007

Helen Pender posted to the memorial.

21 Entries

Betty Balch

January 8, 2007

John:
Love of my life. No words can describe the warm memories, pride and gratitude that come from having a husband to love and cherish like you.... I miss you every day.

Love Always, Betty

Carol Case

January 8, 2007

Dad, One year, how time passes. Though we are not physically together; I see you everywhere I go.
You are in Mom's loving eyes and around her neck on the heart shaped pendant she wears. You are in Jason and Jon's "chocolate faces" as they enjoy the candy you loved so much. I see you in Jon's twinkling eyes when he is about to tell a long story or in Allies loving video she made in your honor.
I feel your presence on your beloved Cape Cod, at the ocean, your favorite eating places or in the music and books you loved so much.
Your stories and memories will live on through those you loved and touched. Dance well and sleep with the angels. Love Always Carol

Helen Pender

January 7, 2007

It's been a year already but you know John has never left us. I think of him often and when I think of him I feel his presence. It is such a comfort to know that he is still there just waiting for the day when we can all be together again.

Mark Balch

January 7, 2007

Dad, it has been a year since I last saw you and you haven't been far from my thoughts. I didn't realize how much you molded me and made into the person I am today. I miss you more every day, but I know that you will always be with me if not in presence but in how I deal with my life and you are still one of the most influential people in it today and forever. I love you more and more each day. My family will always love you.

MJ

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Kelly Brewer-Balch

January 7, 2007

Dad,

Almost a year has gone by since I saw you last. As we went though each holiday, your birhday and most especially Christmas, you were very much a part of our thoughts.

There are certain times that you were missed the most; especially the Fourth of July. That was the time of the year when I first met you and you have been an important part of that holiday (and my life) since. Most of my memories are of Wellfleet and the summers that we spent with you and Mom there. Of course, there were also the many Autumn roadtrips we took around the New England area. Mark and I and later the kids, looked forward to those trips. Thinking about them, I can still see the Bridge of Flowers, the little motel in New Brunswick and the trip to Niagara Falls and so many more!

I also remember how wonderful you and Mom were to me when, although you barely knew me, you allowed me to come into your home, without Mark, and stay with you for 2 weeks in Boynton Beach. This was the time that cemented our relationship and I will always be grateful for your support and the time when you saw that I was feeling down and you, in no uncertain terms, told me that the person who was making me feel that way didn't know what they were talking about. It still makes me smile and be proud just thinking of it.

Dad, just remember that we love you. Maura and John speak of you all the time. They love to send balloons up to you and tell you how much they love you. In fact, this Christmas they ran outside, in their pajamas, to yell up into the sky "We love you, Grampy. Merry Christmas!"

John Balch

January 7, 2007

Grampy,

When I think about you, I know that you are jumping from cloud to cloud and having fun. I remember that your kisses tasted like chocolate. I bet you are eating lots of chocolate - I love chocolate, especially whoopie pies!

Grampy, look out for the balloons we are sending your way!

Maura Balch

January 7, 2007

I mostly remember Grampy being on Cape Cod with a ring of chocolate around his mouth! Grampy loved chocolate alot. Grampy loved me and my brother, John alot, too. I was so excited about Grampy seeing me on the stage when I danced last Christmas. I loved the presents that Santa and everyone who loved me gave. I especially loved spending Christmas with Nana and Grampy. It made me so happy to spend time with all of my family at Christmas for the first time.

Helen Pender

February 3, 2006

Our families spent a wonderful Christmas together enjoying the excitement of our young grandchildren. When I gave you a hug goodbye I had no idea it would be for the last time. For the last couple of weeks, I have been searching for words that will express how much you will be missed, but there are none. I know that you are not far away and that at the next family gathering your presence will be very much felt.

Helen

Allie McAuley

January 27, 2006

Grampy,

Today I am thinking about you and missing you. It reminds me of being young and watching you and Nana leave for a summer on CapeCod or for a trip in some wonderful foriegn place.I always wanted sneak away and go with you two. I never liked the goodbyes only the hellos.

I couldn't ask for a better set of grandparents. You have been there for so many of life's milestones. You made a difference in my life and shared with me so much of your wisdom and adventures. You will live in my heart always, and I promise that your legacy will live on because those that are close to me will know you from the many memories we've shared.

I miss your grin, your humor, your advice, your love of good food and your one-of-a kind stories.

I love you Grampy.

Until we say hello again...

Your Darlin'

Allie

Kelly Balch

January 18, 2006

Dad,

As each day passes, I think of you more often. My best memories of times spent with you were on my wedding day - that nice dance - and on all the trips we took together with Mom, Mark, Maura and John. Although I miss you, the memory of those times spent together keeps bringing smiles to my face.

Love you always,

Kelly

Harriet Sargeant

January 15, 2006

As the hubby of my dearest friend I

loved him too. He and Russell will be together until we girls join them in song and dance.

Scott Picardy

January 15, 2006

Uncle John,You were the captain. I will always picture you cooking, whether you were at work or home. You traveled the world and lived life to the fullest.And I always knew where I could find chocolate.I miss you. Scott

Mat Coser

January 15, 2006

gramp led a full life. he traveled everywhere, and did everything he wanted to do. He and nan raised four great kids, and was an amazing grandfather. I truly miss you gramp. I know wherever you are, you are keeping an eye on me. I will not let you down.

i love you captain.

Jon Barker

January 15, 2006

Love You Great "Ne" From Jonny "B"

Dave Balch

January 15, 2006

You were my little league coach, my scout master, my classmate, my boss, and most importantly, my Dad.

"If God has a master plan

then only he understands

I hope its your eyes he's seeing through"

Love always,

Dave

Jason Barker

January 15, 2006

My great-grandfather was a great man. He loved chocolate and his family.I hope my balloon made it to heaven. I love you great grampy. Jason( 9yrs)

Valerie Balch

January 14, 2006

To my family,

I have so many memories of my Grummy :) I will miss him dearly, he was the only grandfather I have ever known. He will ALWAYS have a special place in my heart.

My thoughts are with my family and with him.

Love always.

Val

Jim Matthews

January 12, 2006

To My Extended Cape Family:

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Mr. B. He will forever hold a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and I know Mr. B will always be watching over you!

Love, Jim

Lorraine Clemente(Dias)

January 10, 2006

Jeanne and family,

I was so sorry to read about your Dad. I remember our school days at your house and our trips to Wellfleet. We have great memories.

Love, Lorraine

mark balch

January 10, 2006

Miss you Dad. Love MJ

mark balch

January 10, 2006

I miss you Dad. Love MJ

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