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Gary Cole Obituary

Gary Severe Cole, age 76, of Oak Park; beloved husband of Stephanie, nee Springs; loving father of Mischa and Gary "Monty" (Alysia) Cole; cherished brother of Toni Walters and the late Earl Cole Jr.; fond uncle of Troy (Teresa) Cole, Wendy (Dan) Charnas, and Jamie (Vince Keenan) Walters; great uncle of Taylor, Isaac, Theodore, and Roxanne; cousin of Howard Cole; great cousin of Alex and Adrianna. Gary was owner and executive chef of Blue Duck Catering. He was also a retired lawyer and past Village of Oak Park Trustee. Gary was an avid cyclist, golfer, and fisherman. Most especially, Gary loved being with his family and friends. Memorial visitation Saturday, March 17th, 10 a.m. until time of service 11 a.m. at First Baptist Church of Oak Park, 820 Ontario St., Oak Park. In lieu of flowers, memorials to Make-A-Wish Illinois or American Cancer Society. Funeral info: 708-383-3191 or drechslerbrownwilliams.com

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Published by PL-West on Mar. 15, 2018.

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Donna Hogan-Murray

November 6, 2018

I extend my condolences to you Stephanie, Mischa and Marty. Learning of Gary's passing has shocked me tremendously. I discovered this news while search for you to invite you to an event commemorating my mom, Mrs. Ethelee Hogan, on November 17th. She was your nanny for several years till her passing in 1990. Please know that the love and kindnesses you extended to my mom is the platinum standard that we use in our professional lives.Please let me know if there is anything we can do for you. Prayerfully, Donna (404/444-3731)

Robert

June 12, 2018

I'm shocked to learn about Gary's death. It was only last spring in the local Jewel that we talked about resuming our golf at Columbus Park. We were golf partners at Gull Lake, Michigan where we wowed the the group with our culinary magic. As trustees, Gary and I shared similar goals and perspectives. We served on committees and special ad hoc forums. He offered to cater an event for me in Michigan 4 years ago. My deepest sympathies and condolences to his family, Stephanie,; Meisha, and Monty, for whom my daughter Marian babysat . He was a good man who shared many of my ideals, beliefs, and outrages. As trustees, we welcomed the controversial social justice issues facing Oak Park. We challenged what we considered to be frivolous budget items at the annual budget hearings. I'll miss him and only sorry that I didn't know sooner of his suffering and untimely death.

Anthony Haley

March 18, 2018

Anthony Haley of the Haley family sending my condolences.
Thank you Chef for the many years working next to you.
Thank you for the books and wisdom you shared with me.
I will always remember reading '212 Degrees' front to back as we prepared to go setup for a dinner party.

March 15, 2018

Gary was a good man who will be missed by all of his friends, especially the bike riders. Peace my brother. Our thoughts and prayers to his family. Al Fry

March 15, 2018

His love and legacy will always be a part of you. Sending our prayers and thoughts of healing to you.

K. Brown

March 15, 2018

The love your spouse had for you is something that can never be taken away. Hold on to that and know that they are there with you always.

March 15, 2018

I wish to give my condolences for the loss of your loved One,draw close to god and he will draw close to you.( James 4;8)

Richard Walker

March 14, 2018

May care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace for the days ahead. Berenice and I send our deepest condolences.

March 14, 2018

My sincere condolences to family and friends. It is hard to loss a loved one, wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you all and it's in our thoughts and prayers that you will be able to cope and endure during this difficult time.

AKL

Celebrating our 19th Wedding Annivesary

Shawn and Gloria Dillard

March 13, 2018

Thank you for the wonderful memories. You made our lives brighter with your warm smile and wisdom. We are happy and blessed for every moment we shared with you: a fiesta at your house, the chats on the veranda, and the many eves of CIGARS! WE WILL MISS YOU!
WE LOVE YOU, STEPHANIE,MISHA AND MONTY.

Roni + Dennis, Seltzberg + Giovannini

March 13, 2018

Our deepest sympathy to Stephanie and all Gary's family and friends. We'll miss his great smile, his energy, friendly "neighborliness"... everything. A donation to Make-A-Wish Foundation has been made in his honor.

Antoinette Williamson

March 13, 2018

My deepest sympathies to the Cole Family.

Kristen Gates-McChristian

March 13, 2018

We would like to express our deepest condolences and sympathy to Gary's family. We will miss Gary very much! He was a dear friend to our family. We'll miss seeing him at my dad's annual Christmas party, out front of the house, for Abby visits with Billie Jean, and for many other reasons. Please know your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

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Memorial Events
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Mar

17

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

First Baptist Church of Oak Park

820 Ontario St., Oak Park, IL

Mar

17

Service

11:00 a.m.

First Baptist Church of Oak Park

820 Ontario St, Oak Park, IL

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