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Joseph Kilzer Obituary

Kilzer, Joseph J. 86, of Lisle, formerly of the Skokie and Huntley areas, passed away Thursday, May 16, 2013 at Edward Hospital in Naperville. He was born March 14, 1927 in Chicago the son of Peter and Dorthea (nee Schuster) Kilzer. On February 23, 1957 he married Vivian Allison in Chicago. Joseph was a Tool and Die maker for 40 years and a member of IAM, past President of former Local 113 in Chicago, a former member of St. Lambert's Catholic Church in Skokie where he was a choir member for over 30 years and past President of St. Lambert's school board. Following this he was a hospice volunteer for 20 years in Illinois and Wisconsin. Joseph was a Jonny Appleseed, he loved to plant trees everywhere he lived, loved to garden and plant flowers. He will be deeply missed by all. He is survived by his wife, Vivian; children, Mary Voelker of Vernon Hills, Mark (Marci) Gutting-Kilzer of Des Plains, Paula (Barry) Tomsky of Woodridge; grandchildren, Justin "JJ"and Jillian Gutting-Kilzer, Zachary, Wesley and Alexandra Tomsky. He was preceded in death by his parents; brother, Frank Seibert and sister, Anna Turausky. Visitation will be Wednesday, May 22, 2013 from 9:00 am until the 10:00 am Memorial Mass at St. Mary Catholic Church, 10307 Dundee Road, Huntley. Inurnment will be at a later date at Arlington Heights Wheeling Township Cemetery. Memorials in his name may be directed to Fox Valley Hospice at www.countrysidecareyp.com. For information call the James A. O'Connor Funeral Home at (847)669-5111 or visit www.jamesaoconnorfuneralhome.com

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Published by Skokie Review from May 21 to May 28, 2013.

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Kendra Kett

May 25, 2013

I am so sorry to hear that Mr. Kilzer has passed away. Mr. Kilzer was always so happy to see us girls when he visited Paula and I in college at U of I. So much laughter and good times when he and Mrs. Kilzer would visit. I will always remember Mr. Kilzer as a loving father, a happy man with a hearty laugh and big smile, and a devoted husband to Paula's mother. Sending my condolences, love, and prayers to all the Kilzer family at this sad time.

May 23, 2013

Ardelle, Bill, Karen Pasterczyk and Gail Deuschle want to send their deepest sympathy. Knew you all when you lived in Skokie. May God bless all of you.

Lynn Seymour

May 22, 2013

Uncle Joe, you will be missed so much. I miss all the times we all spent together in Green Lake. You will always hold a very special place in my heart. I love you and miss you!

Pat Stasiak-Scharm

May 21, 2013

A truly kind and good man ... and always my favorite uncle.

May 21, 2013

May 21, 2013

May God comfort you during this time. (1 Peter 5:6,7)

Art and Nancy Daumke

May 20, 2013

Eternal rest grant to Joe O Lord Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
A good man with a great sense of humor :-)

Laura Tomsky

May 20, 2013

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Pat & John Ruelas

May 20, 2013

Paula, we are so sorry to hear about your dad. Our prayers are with you and him.

Paula Tomsky

May 20, 2013

Goodbye, Daddy. You've earned your eternal rest. Uncompromising but never judgemental, you demonstrated love without reservation, and so much more. What a fine, honorable man I had for a father. We shall miss you so, but we know you are wrapped in God's loving embrace. "Well done my good and faithful servant..."

John & Jacqueline Turausky

May 19, 2013

Joe you were always the big brother I never had. Both myself and my family were blessed to have an uncle and friend as caring and giving as you. You will be missed by all whose lives you touched. May you rest in peace and God Bless.

Grace Butkus

May 19, 2013

Unfortunately, I never got a chance to personally meet you (as your daughter's new roommate), however Mary had spoken of you fondly many times over the months I've been here.
I offer my deepest condolences to the family and ask God to watch over and bring you peace and comfort at this time.

Cheryl

May 19, 2013

Sorry for your lost. May you find comfort in the cherished memories of Joseph.

Mary Voelker

May 19, 2013

Dad, you taught us about the strength of faith, the reward of hard work, and the power of love and family. I will miss you so much.

Dianne Gutting

May 19, 2013

Joe - you were such a sweet man. You will be missed. I'm so glad I had a chance to know you.

Cheryl Turausky

May 19, 2013

My first memory of Joe was at our wedding, from a distance I thought I was seeing my grandfather. He was a special man and I was blessed to meet him when I joined the family. He always made me smile. Steve and I send our prayers to the family.

Lauren Bill

May 19, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time of grief and reflection on what a wonderful man he was.

Dianne and Andy Turausky

May 19, 2013

Andy and I are out of the country at the moment, but want to express our condolences. Joe was a good man...a kind, generous, loving person who always put God, family and country first. I'm certain the gates of heaven opened wide to welcome him home!
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Your love was always around us

Mark Gutting-Kilzer

May 19, 2013

"…don't it always seem to go you don't know what you got 'til it's gone…"
I will certainly miss the man who daily demonstrated the meaning of words like patience, dignity and integrity.

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