Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
FUNERAL HOME
Patrick Scharfe Obituary
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Patrick Scharfe
Peggy Tufts
January 16, 2019
Patrick Scharfe was my Dad and he could do anything and everything. He could golf, bowl, swim, dive, dance, play basketball, football, and even taught me how to do a cartwheel at about 3 yrs old. He didn't just do those things he did them like a pro and was never an average guy. He did not like rules and I guess I learned to break some because of him.
He was a truly honest man and never learned to lie, and at times was easy to trick when surprising him cause he was not suspicious. I was always proud of him and even though I got angry when he showed up in places I was hanging out with my friends, (even Trition College) I was still proud to have him as my Dad. He was very handsome and looked young and people always commented on his good looks.
He was strong in both mind and body in middle age and I always felt safe around him and knew he would and could protect me. I remember as a young girl of about 5, I thought I saw ghosts at night and told my Dad about it. He tried to tell me that there was no such thing but because I could not be convinced, he told me that the next time that I see one to call him and he would jump out of bed and catch it and we would be millionaires. Unfortunately, it never happened. My Dad was fearless and I also remember being so afraid of a movie that I saw and could not sleep for months after it. On nights when I had a really hard time he would come in my bed and sleep with me. I asked him if he was afraid of the dark like I was and if he could sleep in the dark basement without fear and he said "absolutely", which amazed me.
I could go on and on about him but what I want to really say is that I loved my Dad and could not have asked for a better one. Unfortunately, his life was robbed by Alzheimer's Disease which began at about 70 years old. It is a progressive disease and he just got worse and worse and died from it at almost 81 years old. I love u, Dad!
March 12, 2013
to pat and family on the passing of your father condolences from all your pals at loyola health and futness club
paddy o'kane
Bill, Gloria, Lisa & Billy
March 11, 2013
Dear Pat & family,
No words could ever ease the pain when losing a loved one. May you find some peace and comfort in knowing that your dad is now at peace with no more pain and suffering. Our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
March 11, 2013
Sorry to hear! He was my Dads and my insurance agent for 40 years! His office was right down the street from my parents house! My Dad would walk down and talk to him all the time! My Dad also past 2 years ago and my mom a few months ago! He always made time for them when they needed him! He will be missed! Prayers go out to all! Terri Richler
March 10, 2013
Scharfe family: Phyllis and I were sorry to learn of your loss. Bob & Nancy: During parties with your mother and Bernice Whicky, your mother was very proud of her Children. Jim & Phyllis Priest
Randy & Pat Forrest
March 10, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss.
March 10, 2013
Scharfe Family
May calm and peace come to your family in this difficult time.Your Husband/Father brought me great memories as a child. Whether it was playing football on the street
(Orange Ave.)or going on vacation.
Our deepest Condolences
Jeff Prendergast Family
March 9, 2013
Dear Scharfe Family, So sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My prayers are with you at this difficult time. He was a great man. Karen Doherty
Showing 1 - 8 of 8 results
Make a Donation
in Patrick Scharfe's name
Memorial Events
for Patrick Scharfe
Funeral services provided by:
DeFiore-Jorgensen Funeral & Cremation Service10763 Dundee Road, Huntley, IL 60142
How to support Patrick's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Patrick Scharfe's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
