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Thomas P. O'Brien

1956 - 2020

BORN

1956

DIED

2020

FUNERAL HOME

Cardinal Funeral & Cremation Services, LTD

7715 W. Route 14

Crystal Lake, Illinois

Thomas O'Brien Obituary

Thomas Patrick O'Brien, 64, of Cary Illinois passed away August 8, 2020 at home surrounded by his loving family. Born January 31, 1956 in Augusta, Georgia. Beloved husband of Donna (nee Morales); loving father of Shannon (Matthew) Roan, Kyle (Anne) O'Brien, Kristen (James) McDermott, and Tyler (Deirdre) O'Brien; beloved son of William Patrick (late Donna) O'Brien, and Elizabeth O'Brien (nee Keating); fond grandfather of Lilian Yuna Burrow O'Brien, Luella Grace Roan, Luna Sofia McDermott; dear brother of David Joseph (DJ) (Mary) O'Brien, Tracy Mulausen, Gary Allen (Carol) O'Brien; fond uncle of William O'Brien, Brittney (Grant) Guimond, Kelsey O'Brien, Courtney O'Brien, Bailey O'Brien, Jonathan O'Brien, Cassie O'Brien, Lauren O'Brien, Chelsey O'Brien, David Mulausen, Michael Mulausen, Stephen Garapola, Vanessa (Luis) Garapola, Tayler Garapola and Steven Garcia; fond great-uncle of Brooks Guimond, Greer Guimond, Noah Mota, Justin Mota and Mila Mota. Tom is also survived by many loving cousins, extended family and caring friends. Join us in honoring the life of Thomas Patrick O'Brien, visitation Monday August 17th from 2pm – 9pm at Cardinal Funeral Home 7715 W. Rte 14, Crystal Lake Il 60012. Funeral Mass Tuesday August 18th at 10:30am at Saints Peter and Paul Church 401 N. 1st Street, Cary IL 60013. Cremation rights will be accorded after services. In Lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to The Great Cycle Challenge – Team O'Brien, greatcyclechallenge.com/teams/TeamOBrien. For more information or to sign the guestbook please visit cardinalfuneral.com or call 815-451-9040.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Aug. 14, 2020.

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Marty Fitzgerald

August 16, 2020

I remember OB trying out for the freshman football team at Brother Rice. He was smaller than most of us but his determination was greater than most. He would get knocked down but got right back up to fight again and again. He made it to the final cut, but did not make the team. He did however earn the respect of his classmates for his tenacity and grit. Those strengths are what I will remember the most, his laugh is a close second. Rest In Peace Tom. I will miss you. Our prayers go out to his loving family. All our love.
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Madeleine Donahue

August 15, 2020

I am so so sad to hear of Tom's passing! I have a memory to share. On St Patrick's day I gave Tom a bottle of wine with Irish graphics on it and a saying in Gaelic, which he looked up to see what it meant. Thank goodness he had a sense of humor about it, we had a good laugh. I will miss his great smile.
There is another Angel in heaven!
My deepest sympathy and prayers goes out to his entire family!
chuid eile i siochain (rest in peace) my friend
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17

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Cardinal Funeral Home

7715 W. Rte 14, Crystal Lake, IL

Aug

18

Funeral Mass

10:30 a.m.

Saints Peter and Paul Church

401 N. 1st Street, Cary, IL

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7715 W. Route 14, Crystal Lake, IL 60012

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