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Victoria Flanagan Obituary

VICTORIA FLANAGAN, 61, BOOKSELLER AND ASTROLOGER



After a lengthy battle with cancer, Chicago native Victoria Flanagan, lover of books and the place of the planets in our lives, passed peacefully on Feb. 28.



Born in Chicago, Victoria was the daughter of Carol Fox, co-founder and long time general manager of the Lyric Opera of Chicago. Victoria's father, Dr. Charles Larkin Flanagan, taught internal medicine at Northwestern University's School of Medicine. Flanagan was preceded in death by both parents.



Victoria was a 1976 graduate of the Latin School of Chicago and a 1980 graduate of Smith College. After college, Victoria lived in London for seven years. There she worked at the English Speaking Union before earning a fine arts degree from the Byam Shaw School of Art.



Upon returning to Chicago, Victoria's love of books led her to a career in bookselling. She previously managed the Chicago/Water Tower branch of the Rizzoli Bookstore and, until recently, oversaw the five Barbara's Bookstore locations at O'Hare Airport.



Victoria was presented at the Passavant Cotillion and Christmas Ball in 1977 and later became a member of the Women's Board of the Art Institute.



Victoria was also an astrologer. She used her passion for interpreting the heavens as her form of social work to help her many clients in their lives.



As proof that opposites attract, Flanagan, a moderate Republican and lifelong Cubs fan was married for 16 years to architect Matthew Defty, moderate Democrat and lifelong Cardinals fan. Her devoted husband rejoices that Victoria got to see her Cubs win the World Series.



Other survivors include Victoria's uncle and godfather Joseph Flanagan. Many Flanagan cousins, nieces and nephews reside throughout the Chicago area, and like Victoria, are exceedingly kind.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Mar. 8, 2020.

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Karima

July 1, 2020

Victoria had a big heart. A very warm and kind senior to a young foreign freshman and dorm mate. Rest in peace Victoria.

Mary Fritz

June 23, 2020

er soul will be missed, and her journey to the other side will be sweet for such a good person. Prayers of comfort for those left behind♥

Barbara Hassan

April 7, 2020

What a lovely woman was Victoria Flanagan! I will always remember her laugh, her beauty, her natural light! Despite coming from a royal family, she was a regular person...AND a very talented artist. The painting she gifted me with over 25 years ago is still in the center of my living room. Was fortunate to work with her at the wonderful Rizzoli Bookstore. So sorry to have heard so late, but I hope those of you in her family will accept my heartfelt condolences.

Cindy Bertozzi Turco

March 18, 2020

I am so sad to hear about Victoria. I have fond memories sharing a room with Victoria for two years at Smith. I loved all of the adventures we went on together. I always think of her when I look at the porcelain box she gave years ago. I only wish that we had been able to meet one more time. My angel daughter will be looking for Victoria in heaven.

Elizabeth Flanagan

March 10, 2020

What a lovely and heartfelt obituary! We send our deepest condolences to Matthew and all the family. My parents (Sarah and Hal Davis) also wanted me to share their sadness over this news. And I agree...wonderful picture of Victoria... really captures her spirit and her beauty.

March 9, 2020

My warmest and deepest condolences to you and your families. Victoria was a very special lady and she will live on in our hearts, forever. She was an amazing person and I will miss her laughter and wit.
Hunter Flanagan

March 9, 2020

What a beautiful picture of Victoria! How lucky I I feel to have known her since 1984, and then Matthew, when their stars happily crossed! Victoria's intelligence, hearty laugh, her own quick wit, poise and elegance are a great loss to us all. I am terribly saddened and extend my deepest sympathy to Matthew, her family, and many friends. With love, Elizabeth Waller

Victoria and her Mom, Carol Fox

Moira Collins

March 9, 2020

Matthew, Andrew and I are heartbroken thinking of your loss of your beautiful Victoria. We will remember her always, particularly here at the Dunes where we met her so many long summer days ago!

Victoria and Her Mom, Carol Fox

March 9, 2020

Matthew, Andrew and I are heartbroken about your loss. Victoria was such a dear beautiful friend. We treasure the years we had with her, from the first days of our first meeting in the Dunes.

Julia A.

March 8, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about Victorias passing; we were elementary school classmates. I will always remember her smile. Condolences to family and friends ...

March 8, 2020

So sorry to hear - a schoolmate and opera mate I will always remember fondly. Warmest regards and love to the family. greg and Mona arnold

Penny S

March 8, 2020

With my deepest condolences in this time of such great loss of Victoria
May the memories shared and cherished along with "God promise to wipe away the tears from your eyes."
Bring family and friends comfort and strength.

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