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for ANDREW XENAKIS
Robert Crosby
January 16, 2020
GOOD MEMORIES COME TO MIND WHEN I THINK ABOUT YOU. YOU WERE ALWAYS A GOOD FRIEND AND GAVE ME GOOD ADVISE WHEN I NEEDED IT. I MISS YOU, BUT WILL NEVER FORGET YOU.
Wes Weis
December 21, 2019
I miss you Drew. You were a wonderful friend and a great human being!
Kathleen Xenakis
December 23, 2012
One year ago we lost Drew. It has been a year full of tears, sadness and adjusting to our new roles without him. Taking over Drew's tasks of bringing out the garbage, picking up Brenna's potties, oil changes for the cars, bill paying, and my latest accomplishment, mixing the gas and oil on the snow blower, it started on the second pull! That was the easy part! The hardest task is trying to live without Drew, missing the man who made the kids and me feel so loved. Never could have made it this year without all the love and support from family and friends. Love you all.
Scotty Rebec
December 23, 2012
Drew is spending Christmas in Heaven with his Dad. Two missing Treasure from Earth, Two Beautiful Treasure in Heaven.
We all miss you both.
Pam Kouimelis
December 22, 2012
Thinking of all of you this holiday season, you are a strong family, you make Drew proud. Keeping all of you in my prayers.
xoxo
Pam
Deborah Woods
December 21, 2012
Time really passes us by...it doesn't seem like Andy has been gone a year..I still remember him coming into my office and we start talking about the Bulls and the Bears and his uplifting messages to help me cope with the day. Andy you have been truly missed by your friends and family. May you continue to rest in peace.
Mary H.
May 7, 2012
To Jeff and the rest of the Xenakis family I extend my deepest sympathy for the loss of such a wonderful person. I met Drew in the mid-80's. He was one of a few people at that time who brought joy back into my life simply by having the great good luck to know him. I ran my first 10K with him! I lost touch with him as time went on and only recently heard the news of his passing. He has clearly made a profound impact on many lives and in that sense, his spirit lives on. I wish you peace in your memories of a genuinely wonderful human being.
Camiria Jones
January 10, 2012
My condolences to the family. I had the opportunity to know Mr. Xenakis via working as a charter school clinician. He was a kind, friendly, and goodhearted person, and I always enjoyed seeing him at the schools where I worked.
Bill Drudge
January 9, 2012
A former co-worker at CPS just told me of Drew's passing. It hit me in the gut. He was one of the very few other males in our department of hundreds, a very good guy, who also was hilarious. I had one of the biggest laughs of my life sitting next to him at a city-wide meeting. I'm so sorry to all in his family.
Bridget Joyce
January 9, 2012
It saddened me to read of Andy's passing. My condolences to the entire Xenakis family. I will miss him. He was a decent and kind person who reached out to me when I was struggling at the start of the school year. He was a wonderful coworker, and I'm sure he will be missed greatly by the students who knew him.
patricia duffy
January 9, 2012
Dear Joan and Family, 1/9/12
I received the extremely sad news about 'andy' this morning as I opened up the CPS e-mail. Andy and I waved to one another a few days before Christmas. I will surely miss conversing with this terrific human being, full of positive energy,optimistic outlook and kind-spirited individualism. I always looked forward to seeing him at the Juvenile Center. Patricia Duffy
Jennifer Tarle
January 7, 2012
I want to extend my deepest sympathy to the entire Xenakis family. As a fellow SLP at CPS, I always looked forward to seeing Drew at meetings. His positive energy, can do spirit, and words of wisdom always made me smile. The world is a better place because of Drew. He will be missed!
GREAT FAMILY PICTURE
January 6, 2012
DeAntorrence Travis
January 5, 2012
Condolences to the Xenakis family. Andy was just an awesome person who made a positive impact on everyone. He will be greatly missed at York. I'll keep rootin for the SOX buddy!
Robert Carr
January 4, 2012
Mrs.Xenakis
Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Our prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Robert Carr
Former staff member
Nancy B. Jefferson
January 2, 2012
I worked with Drew for over 25 years as a fellow speech pathologist in the Chicago Public Schools.. He was always upbeat, had a great sense of humor and was truly a genuine human being. My deepest condolences to his family. Ellen Lunz SLP Wilmette. IL
George & Marilyn Trudan
January 2, 2012
It was such a beautiful tribute that all of you gave to Drew. I'm sure he was proud. We are blessed to have spent a part of our lives with such a wonderful guy. He will always be in our hearts. Love you all, George and Marilyn
Theresa Geppner
December 31, 2011
My deepest condolences to the Xenakis family. Drew was such a great friend to all down at EIU. He always had a smile, a laugh and had the wonderful ability to make people feel special. I hope your great memories will help your family through this difficult time. Rest In Peace, Drew. I will always smile thinking of you.
Patrick Boylan
December 31, 2011
I'm sorry for your loss. Drew was a good guy. He'll be missed by those of us who knew him from SPC in the old hood.
December 30, 2011
To the Xenakis family, please accept my condolences for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Andy at Consuella B. York Alternative High School for 17 years.
It was always a pleasure to see Andy and talk with him as he was extremely positive, caring, and committed to the students with whom he helped improve their communication skills. Some people live long lives and never make a difference in the lives of others. During Andy's short life, he touched many and each person's life was enriched for having known him.
God Bless the Xenakis family and may you find comfort in knowing that Andy's life had purpose and meaning and his destiny was fulfilled.
Valerie Jackson
Former Principal
Consuella B. York Alternative High School
Sheila Fleischhacker
December 30, 2011
Sorry to hear we lost a member of the Oak St Beach family. peace and prayers, Sheila
Roberta Silver
December 30, 2011
Andrew was a fine human being and will be missed.
Laura Wolf
December 29, 2011
Drew was the best speech therapist I ever had the honor to work with at Meadows. He always took the time to stop by and talk with me about things and always asked my opinion on goals, he made me feel like we were a team. I will miss those times and another ear to share work complaints with. I am very glad that I was able to see and talk with him on December 22nd. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family! He was a really cool guy!
Scott Anderson
December 29, 2011
I have had the privilege to work with Andy the past eight years. He will be missed at York. I will miss seeing him and talking about baseball. My thoughts are with the family.
Anedria Brown
December 29, 2011
I worked at Nancy B. Jefferson School in the Special Education Department for 8 years with Andy. He was one of the nicest people I have ever met! My prayers go out to his family.
John Morgan
December 29, 2011
Drew saved my life once. It was back in the 70's when we were both lifeguards at Oak Street Beach. I was driving him home after work and cut off a red Cadillac. The Cadillac caught up to me, passed me, near the viaduct on North Avenue west of Cicero. He blocked my entrance under the viaduct with his car and then got out.
The driver was a pimp (yes, dressed just like HuggyBear) and his bodyguard and woman got out of the car. The pimp yelled at me in rage and then pulled a gun. I was frozen with fear as the pimp approached.
Drew yelled at me to put the car in reverse and directed me down a side street. I must have been going about 50 northbound on a southbound one way street. The pimp chased us on foot.
When southbound traffic stopped us, Drew noticed an alley I was too panicked to see. He directed me down the alley and we made our escape.
We did not take North Avenue home from the beach for weeks for fear of running into the pimp again.
Drew saved my life that day and I will never forget it.
My deepest condolences to his family.
Neil Pellicci
December 29, 2011
I worked with Drew and his brother, Jeff, many years ago at Oak St. Beach. He was a terrific person and friend. I was fortunate to run in to him a few years ago in Westchester and we talked and caught up. I know that he will be sorely missed by his friends and family.
Randy Clay
December 29, 2011
Jeff and family
Ana and I are sorry for your loss.
V. Sorescu
December 29, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with the Xenakis Family. I had the privilege to work with Mr. Andrew Xenakis at Manley High School. I will always remember his caring spirit and smile. May God's peace be with your family during this very difficult time.
Ray Gilius
December 29, 2011
I had the pleasure of getting to know Drew while working with him as a lifeguard at Oak Street Beach. We had a very close knit lifeguard crew then, and Drew was largely responsible for that. He will be dearly missed.
Alice Morgan
December 29, 2011
I want to extend my deepest sympathy to your family. When I started to work for Clearbrook I met Drew and he was a very good man. I know he will be deeply missed by your family as well as the people at Clearbrook. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Janet Pevsner
December 28, 2011
Dear Xenakis family,
I worked with Andy for many, many years as an SLP in Chicago. I mostly saw him at meetings and he always had a big, warm smile and a fun, caring and passionate outlook on life. I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your family.
Barbara Goode
December 28, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you Kathy and with your family. So many wonderful memories reflected in the photos. May God's peace be with you all during this difficult time.
Anthony Kasper
December 28, 2011
Jeff our thoughts and prayers. We are out of town, but will keep you in our thoughts. Tony Kasper and Tom Wagner
Wendelll Labern
December 28, 2011
My condolences to the Xenakis family. I didn't know Andy but worked with Jeff. My prayer are with you brother.
Wendell Labern
Patrick Murphy
December 28, 2011
What a sad loss for everyone who knew Drew. Our prayers and thoughts are with the Xenakis family.
Sue Mullins Baron
December 28, 2011
The Drew I knew was a strong man & full of life. It's been many years since I visited but I'll always remember his smile & how he made his bride smile. Fondly,
Susan Chapa
December 28, 2011
To the Xenakis family, Andy was loved and respected at Chicago Public Schools for so many years. He will be missed. We pray for all of you, that the peace of Christ will guard your hearts and minds, and that His comfort and strength will be with you. We are so sorry for your loss. Andy kept us laughing at a meeting just a couple of months ago.
Marie Murphy Delrose
December 28, 2011
All Xenakis family: Cannot find the words to express my deepest sympathy. I can still see Drew sitting on the steps on Lavergne, with that mischievous smile always on his face. He was such a large part of my young life, just like another brother. I shall always remember him fondly. Thoughts and prayers
Nealean Washington
December 28, 2011
My warmest condolences to the family. He had just been assigned to Milburn Alternative, so I only recently met Mr. Z. I can tell he had such a great spirit from the single encounter we had. You are in my prayers.
Kellys
December 28, 2011
Xenakis family our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Drew was a great man, father and friend. We will always keep him in our hearts. God Bless
Susan Phillips
December 28, 2011
Kathy,Michale,Margaret and MaryBeth, My heart is aching for all of you. I truely know how hard this is for all of you. Remember Drew was man of strong Faith, let your faith and his faith get you through this. May God and Drew always be in your Hearts. With love,Sue Phillips
Todd Bowers
December 28, 2011
I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Andy at York for five years. He was a person that always put himself before others. He was an amazing person whom I am a better person for having known. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Penny McBride
December 28, 2011
Xenakis Family,
Andy was loved by all and will be missed. Philip 4:7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
December 28, 2011
Dear Kathy and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth. Psalms 145:18
With warm regards,
daria ruffolo
Chelsea Armstrong
December 28, 2011
Andy was an amazing man. He truly connected with every student he worked with. He will be missed by all who had the honor of meeting him. My thoughts are with the Xenakis family in this difficult time.
Kimberly Bradley
December 28, 2011
I had the pleasure of working with Andy at York and Nancy Jefferson schools. I am so sad to hear about his loss as he was such a great guy with a great sense of humor. I pray that the family finds comfort in all of the kind words, thoughts and memories that we all have of Andy. May God bless your family in your time of need.
Kimberly Bradley
December 28, 2011
My deepest condolences to the the Xenakis family. I had the pleasure of working with Andy at both York and Nancy Jefferson schools. He was such a genuine person that truly cared about other people. He also had a great smile and sense of humor. I am so sad to hear about his loss. Hopefully, the family can find comfort in such positive words about him as he was a great person and will be truly missed.
Marva Whaley-Anobah
December 28, 2011
Marva J. Whaley-Anobah
Principal
Nancy B. Jefferson Alternative School
Marva Whaley-Anobah
December 28, 2011
Andy was a special person who cared deeply for his family and particularly his dad. He would share with us weekly the progress his father was making and thank God for his healing. He had a servant spirit and will truly be missed.
May you find comfort in knowing that he was a child of the most high God and is in the best of hands.
Frank Kuhlmann
December 28, 2011
I had the honor of working with Andy for the past two years at Manley High School. He always had a smile on his face and made a point to stop by and talk. He was a king and generous man. My heart goes out to his family.
Doc Charles
December 28, 2011
Deepest sympathy to the Xenakis family.I will remember Drew as low key , gentle , calm but warmly interactive with our little sch family circle .May the gracious Lord comfort you Kathy & your children , guiding you lovingly thru difficult time .
Robert Crosby
December 27, 2011
The LORD bless you and keep you; The LORD make His face shine upon you, and be gracious to you, The LORD lift up His countenance upon you, And give you peace. Numbers 6:24-26 My prayers are with the family during this tragic period. Andy was a great person and a joy to work with at Manley High School and Urban Prep-West.
December 27, 2011
Xenakis family, My heart and prayers are with you during this time of bereavement. May the love of GOD bring you comfort, may HIS peace abide with you wherever you are, and may HE touch you with HEALING HANDS to strengthen you along the way. Andy was more than a colleague; he was a friend, big brother (in Christ) and more importantly, a GOD-FEARING MAN. His spirit and smile will truly be missed. GOD bless and keep you safe in HIS arms. Kenya Johnson (Ms. KJ)
Kay Asimakis
December 27, 2011
I was shocked to hear the news of Drews passing, he was so young! My prayers are with you Kathy and your kids. May you find great comfort in the memories you share of your years together.
December 27, 2011
Drew was a person who truly cared about others. As an SLP who worked with him for years, I enjoyed seeing him at meetings. I enjoyed talking to him. I always felt that he was a person who lived his religion. He was a dedicated clinician. My prayers are with the Xenakis family at this time.
P. A. Gray (Chicago)
Neal Gothelf
December 27, 2011
I will always remember Andy as a kind and gentle soul with the patience of a saint when it came to working with the students at the "Center". I feel saddened by his passing and blessed to have known him. My sincere condolences to his family.
Deborah Woods
December 27, 2011
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Xenakis family. I don't even know where to begin. Andy was such a great person to work with and as Case Manager he always provided me with the support I needed. When he came over to NBJ to service the students he would stop in my office early and we would begin our conversations about the Bears and Bulls. We both would give our predictions for the year.
Mrs. Xenakis and family I feel your pain,I just lost my husband in April and Andy was there lifting up my spirits. He will be truly missed from all of us...
Karyn Aguirre
December 27, 2011
Extending to your family comfort and peace. Hoping through family and friend support you will find a way to manage as you attempt to heal. Andy was a joy to work with, a true professional, his presence was known at Nancy B and he had a magical way with the students. He had an engaging smile and I can still hear him calling me DOC (though I did not have my doctorate) and the conversations we shared about my Miles and his children. Stay rooted in your faith and though we may not understand, the Creator makes no mistakes. Missing you already Andy!
Patty and Michele Lieberman
December 27, 2011
Xenakis family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this time. He is walking with God now and is in a good place. God Bless all of you.
Tracy Martin
December 27, 2011
Xenakis family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I worked with Drew for many years at Clearbrook. He was a great guy and we would always talk about Notre Dame football. I will truly miss Drew as a good friend.
Pam Kouimelis
December 27, 2011
there are no words to express our sorrow of losing such a kind man. He truly will walk with the angels.
December 27, 2011
There's a sense of shock and sadness that resonates through my heart when I think of your loss. Andy always had a BIG Smile on his face, a Joyful spirit, and a Wonderful personality. It was always a pleasure working with him as part of the Clinical Team. He will definitely be missed. May God Bless and Comfort your Family at this time. My deepest condolences. Erica S. Harris (Chicago, IL)
Peg Finn
December 27, 2011
I was shocked and saddened to hear about Drew's death. I told my family that he had a perpetual smile on his face and was always always moving. My deepest condolences to your family. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Virginia Ardito
December 27, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Shannon Mullins
December 27, 2011
So terribly sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers are with you. Many fond memories of "Uncle" Drew. He will live on forever in our hearts
Wes Weis
December 27, 2011
I was asked recently what I would like people to think of me once I am gone. I said without hesitation, ‘he was a nice guy'! Drew was an exceptionally nice guy and will be missed!
My heart goes out to all his family and his friends. I will always remember him and he will be in my heart always!
Scotty Rebec
December 27, 2011
"My deepest condolences for your loss Kathleen and Family. Joan, Andy & Jeff. Another Angel to watch over you all. He may be out of your arms but will never be out of your hearts. "Rest well Drew, your work is done on earth"
Frank & Scotty Rebec, Chicago, Il.
Michelle Xenakis
December 27, 2011
My deepest condolences for your loss Kathleen, Michael, Margaret and Mary Beth. My prayers are with you all!
Beverly Harris/York Alt. Counselor
December 27, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Michelle Xenakis
December 27, 2011
My deepest condolences for your loss Kathleen, Michael, Margaret and Mary Beth. My prayers are with you all.
Julie Campoverde
December 27, 2011
Xenakis Family,
I have had the privilege to know Andy for thirty years. We both began our careers with CPS at the Juvenile Detention Center in the early eighties. I have continued to know and love Andy throughout the years as we both have worked with students with special needs at the Cook County Jail. I cannot express how much our students looked forward to Andy's visit. I know his caseload was huge, but he made sure he gave each student the great quality of his services. The image that I have in my mind is of one student in the maximum security division, in protective custody, who depended so much on Andy, always asking when he would see Andy. Andy was able to impact so many children's lives. Andy was a special person and I am going to miss him dearly.
1980 Graduating Class, 2010
Christy Strole
December 27, 2011
Drew was a generous and hilarious guy. Every year we got together at ISHA and told the funniest thing that happened to each of us that year, and Drew's were the most exciting stories. Margaret, email me any time you have a speech/certification/administrative/legal question in your field that your Dad would have handled: [email protected] Or if you need a letter of recommendation, or a job. Our thoughts are with your family during this horrible time. We will miss him forever.
Karen Mosby Mora Cintron
December 27, 2011
My prayers are with you. Drew was a wonderful man and a good friend.
LaVerne and Mark Potjeau
December 27, 2011
Kathleen,
Our deepest condolences to you and your family at this difficult time in your life. Our prayers are with you and your family.
LaVerne, Mark, Steve, and Thomas Potjeau
From the Staff of Conboy's Westchester Funeral Home
December 27, 2011
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