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Charles Hargrave Obituary

WAMEGO- Charles Leo Hargrave, 87, died Saturday, July 11, 2009, at his home in Laclede, Kansas. Leo was a man of many talents honed from a humble upbringing during the Great Depression and WW II. Born to Nellie Belle Blue Murrow and Victor Louis Hargrave in Denver on September 11, 1921, Leo remarked, I may be small, but Im wound tight. His father, Victor, was an orphan train child whose original name was Laustrup. Nellie Belle Blue Murrow, third cousin to Edward R. Murrow, was born in Hiteman, Iowa. Leo attended Valverde Grade school in Denver, he hoed pinto beans in eastern Colorado fields near Byers and he pumped his legs 10 miles on his bicycle on two paper routes. He was the first in his family to graduate from high school, South Denver High. He married Bettie Bernice Thompson in Denver in 1941. Gary Leo Hargrave was born in April 1943. Michael Roy Hargrave was born June, 1944. Neal Thomas Hargrave was born in November 1947. He served in the United States Air Force, 1944-45, as a bombardier stationed out of Framlingham England. He survived 3 planes being shot out from under him and was the oldest man, at 23, on his crew. As Staff Sergeant, Leo, was nicknamed Fireball Charlie for his red hair. He returned home on the troop ship Queen Mary. Working in a machinist shop and at the Federal Reserve Bank taught Leo that he wanted to work for himself. He apprenticed as a plumber and earned his Master Plumbers license. Over the next 20 years he built his plumbing contractors business that culminated in Leo securing bids to do most of the major plumbing contracts in the new start up ski village of Vail. Leo always wanted a cattle ranch. Following in his fathers footsteps, he bought a ranch near Eagle, Colorado and began raising cattle & sheep. He married Barbara Dutro Brown in 1966 and they moved their ranching operation to Montana after purchasing the Edward H. Palm ranch in the Thompson River Valley west of Kalispell, Montana. Leo raised his stepsons, Gordon Cotton Brown and Charlie Michael Brown in a world of horses, haying and cattle work. Leo and Barbara built one of the first North American Charolais cattle operations. Leo was active on his sons Marion school board and always generous in his bidding at local pie auctions. Leo married Ellen White of Laclede, KS, June 10, 1978. He built their Charolais operation and surrounding lease lands to the point that he was recognized as a model of sustainable environmental grazing practices. The couple simultaneously built a dude business on the cattle ranch. Guests from around the world joined them for the next 20 years in Living the Legend of a Montana cowboy. Leo donated his time on the Flathead County planning board for five years. He helped organize and then rode as a Drover representing Flathead county in the 1989 Great Cattle Drive commemorating Montanas 100th birthday. Leo spent 6 years helping to guide the Dude Rancher Association as a board member and was honored with induction to the DRA Hall of Fame in 2007. Leo flew small aircraft for 52 years; sometimes for business to remote cattle auctions, sometimes to spot maverick bulls on the grazing range, and always for fun. For over four decades Leo delighted in saving and moving historical buildings. He moved and converted a railroad depot into a residence in Eagle-Vail. The guest ranch business gave him a good reason to move historic log buildings to the ranch and renovate them into guest cabins. On yearly visits back to the Laclede area to visit family, he renovated the 100 year old Tannerville School into a residence. After completing the schoolhouse, he was proud to bring the stone building on the South end of Wamego, Kansas, main street to life with his renovation. All of Leos building projects over twenty years contained lumber he harvested as trees and milled on his home mill. Leo retired from ranching in 2002. He spent the next years building a home near Kalispell. Leo and Ellen traveled and in later years enjoyed exposing their nieces and nephews to cultures around the globe. Survivors include his wife, Ellen of Laclede and Kalispell, Mt; his children Gary Leo Hargrave, Colorado Springs, Co.; Neal Thomas (Barbara) Hargrave, Cannon City, Co; stepsons Gordon (Laurie) Brown of Los Angeles, Ca; Charles Michael Brown, Boulder, Co; daughter in law Carolyn Kay Hargrave, Cannon City, Co; grandson Robert and granddaughter Renee, great grand children, and three brothers: Kenneth, John, and Donald. He will be welcomed to the great roundup by his father and mother, Brother Buddy, son Michael and granddaughter Chanelle. A memorial service will be held at 1:00 p.m. Saturday, July 25, 2009 at the Stewart Funeral home of Wamego with Father Jim White, S.J. officiating. A memorial will be held at a later date in Kalispell, Montana. Memorial contributions are suggested to the Wamego Public Library or to the organization of the donors choice and may be left in care of the Stewart Funeral Home of Wamego, P.O. Box 48, 66547. Its easy to mourn his passing, but its easier to celebrate his extraordinary passion for life. On-line condolences may be left at www.stewartfuneralhomes.com. Charles Hargrave

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Jul. 15, 2009.

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Margaret Casey

July 26, 2009

Ellen--
I was just talking about Leo and Ellen Hargrave tonite to a friend...telling him all about the WONDERFUL time we had at your ranch..the flight that Leo took us on...and googled Hargraves---only to find this very very SAD news. I will always have the wonderful memories of spending a week at the 'ranch'. All Leo's spectacular stories are still with me! Love to you Miss Ellie!

Patti Miles

July 17, 2009

Ellen, family and friends,

I am so sorry Leo is gone. He will truly be missed. He will also be with my mother, Betty Montgomery and my father, Donald Montgomery. They were friends for many, many years. There are so many memories I have from Colorado and Montana. I remember a visit when my dad and Leo flew his plane to pick me up in I believe Portland Oregon to take me to the ranch. They received transmission from an airport to land and refuel but, landed at the wrong airport. They thought they were going to lose their license to fly. They did some fast talking and dancing to get out of that one. Then when we got to the ranch and were having dinner the telephone rang. Leo was laughing. My father had guessed the weight of the pig at the fair and they wanted him to come and get it. Leo raised it and sent us a ham. Too much to put down but just know my heart is with you and I will never forget you. What a life he had and what life he gave to others.

Mary

July 16, 2009

Didn't know him, but I love the obit - what a guy! We have family who grew up at Laclede so that's what caught my eye. Thanks for sharing the story of his life

Virginia Wiscovich

July 15, 2009

God gave us memories so that we might have roses in December, so Miss Ellie...looks like you'll be gettin' lots of "roses" every year! Leo will be greatly missed...his unique sense of humor, his quick grin, the twinkle in his eye when he put one over on you...Well, Sweet Cheeks...I guess you're up there working the Big Ranch now...keep the dogies homeward bound! With love and gratitude for the honor of sharing my life with Leo and Ellen!

July 15, 2009

Ellen and family,

I am so sorry for your loss.

Walter and I got acquainted with you and Leo when you bought the farm at Wamego from Edwin Martin and Walter.

It was a pleasure getting to know you and we have thought about you both a lot since.

Sincerely,

Joan Clark

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