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Robert Derstein Obituary
He was born in Benton, Kansas, on November 6, 1935, to Florence Bonner and Kenneth Derstein.
After El Dorado High School, he graduated from Kansas State University in 1961, where he belonged to Acacia Fraternity, and received his Juris Doctorate Degree from Washburn University in 1964. He worked at First National Bank of Denver, First National Bank of Topeka, and then 36 years as Senior Vice-President and Trust Officer at CoreFirst Bank & Trust in Topeka, retiring in 2015.
Robert married Mary Anne Eaton on August 22, 1959. She survives. He is survived by a sister, Barbara Kay Templin, and a brother, Leslie Derstein.
He was very active with Kansas Children's Service League, The Villages, YMCA, and Community Concerts. He was a member of Kansas Bankers Association and Kansas Bar Association. Robert served in the Army Reserves.
He loved the Episcopal Church and served on the Vestry of Grace Cathedral at the time of the fire in 1975, being very active with the rebuilding project. He was the Thurifer for many years.
Memorial service is pending.
Contributions may be made to Grace Episcopal Cathedral Endowment Fund, Topeka Community Foundation, 5431 SW 29th Street, Topeka, KS 66614, or The Villages, Inc., PO Box 67053, Topeka, KS 66614.
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January 9, 2020
I recently learned of Bob's passing. He as a man of grace and intellect
He was always kind as a boss, even when I did not deserve it. I think of him when I am trying to be patient. James Colgan, Colgan Law Firm LLC.
August 8, 2019
Bob was one of those very special people. I know I have missed him as our paths have not crossed as the number of calendar years has gone up and up for both of us. Fr. Mendenhall.
Jane Hicks
August 8, 2019
A special person, Bob always had a smile and a song. Working with him for 20 years we shared many happy moments.
Terri Sandgren
August 8, 2019
One of the nicest people you could hope to meet!! I worked with Bob at Commerce Bank & Trust. He ALWAYS had a smile and a hello no matter how busy he was. A true gentleman.
Kathy Slawson
August 7, 2019
What a dear man. Bob always had a sweet smile and kind word for everyone. I will miss him at church and wherever I was lucky enough to run into him.
Janell McPherson
August 7, 2019
Bob was a good man! I worked with Bob doing estate sales for Core First Bank. He was a joy to work with and made me laugh! I will miss him!
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