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Raymond Aubin Obituary

Raymond P. Aubin
April 6, 2020 SHELTON - Raymond P. Aubin, age 72 of Shelton, CT, peacefully entered into eternal rest on April 6, 2020. He was the beloved partner of Amy Stavola, his devoted and loved sweetheart for 39 years. Born in Bridgeport, CT., he was the loving son of the late George N. Aubin and Ellen Schmidlin Aubin. He was also predeceased by his loving son, Darren R. Aubin. Ray served in the United States Navy Reserve in his early years. He had a love for his Harley Davidson motorcycles and working on old cars. Prior to retirement, Ray was a proud ironworker with Ironworkers Local 424 in New Haven, CT. He served on the Executive Board and was also an Instructor for the Apprentice Classes. He was an expert welder and ironworker and worked briefly in Saudi Arabia. Ray loved his work. After his retirement, Ray became an Honorary Member of the Ironworkers Union. He loved playing golf and was an excellent pool player, playing on many leagues. He enjoyed organic gardening (especially growing hot peppers), raising free range chickens (delicious eggs), beekeeping (the best tasting honey), making great tasting wine and trading stocks. He read extensively anything about health, vitamins, supplements and nutrition, and was always offering advice and print outs to help you better your health. Ray enjoyed several years of camping with Amy and riding his Harley. He looked forward to the yearly Super Bowl trips he made to different states with his brothers Brian and Gerald, and his friends. Hot peppers, cheese and homemade wine with son John, nephew Billy, and friends was a time to relax and laugh. St. Patrick's Day was an all-day affair to celebrate at The Pub with family and friends. Ray loved being with his family. Birthdays, pool parties, and the annual Aubin family reunion were filled with laughter and memories which Ray truly embraced. Although COVID-19 took Ray away from us, he was more than a statistic. He was a son, brother, partner, Dad, Papa, uncle, cousin, and friend. He was a caring and giving man who was always there to help others. Ray touched the hearts of all who knew him. His memory will be with us always. Ray is survived by his sweetheart Amy, his loving son, John Stavola and his wife Jenna, and cherished and adored grandchildren Owen and Quinn, whom he loved very much, of Trumbull, CT. He is also survived by his beloved siblings: George Aubin (the late Judy Aubin) of Worcester, MA; Donald (Rita) Aubin of Centreville, VA; Jo-Anne (William) Sura of Trumbull, CT; Gerald (Barbara) Aubin of Trumbull, CT; Mary Beth (John) Franzese of Shelton, CT; Theresa Bogan of Milford, CT; Janice (Russell) Krol of Trumbull, CT; Brian (Jenni) Aubin of Mooresville, NC; Denise (Jamey) Reagan of High Point, NC and Bernadette (James) Allan of Shelton CT; Uncle Henri and Aunt Clare Aubin, and many nieces, nephews, grandnieces, grandnephews and cousins. Due to the current health situation, a memorial service and celebration of Ray's life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in his name to the Alzheimer's Association, 225 N. Michigan Ave., Fl. 17, Chicago, IL 60601, or to your favorite charity. The Ralph Hull Funeral Home, 161 W. Church St., Seymour, CT 06483 has been entrusted with his arrangements. Please visit us at www.hullfh.com for further information or to leave an online condolence.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Apr. 10, 2020.

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A.L. S

April 17, 2020

Rest in Peace my Dear Ray

Maria Denaro

April 17, 2020

To Brian, Bernadette and the entire Aubin family - Ray and John Patrick visited for a Christmas Eve dinner at our house - our families' memories blending as they'll continue to do. Another is one is Maria's favorite: that he had a record player in his car !! Ray sounded like one cool cat. RIP -- the Denaro family - Maria, Mike and Joanne

Linda Romano

April 12, 2020

Amy, John and Ray's family, so sorry for your loss. May God give you all strength during this time. I am sure there are so many memories you have to remember Ray by.

Ray is now with the angels.

Erma Thompson

April 11, 2020

Amy, so sorry to learn of Ray's passing. He certainly led a full life so you will have so many good memories to help you get through this difficult time. Thinking of you. Love, Erma

April 11, 2020

I went to school with ray. The nicest guy you would ever meet. RIP ray. You sure were special. Barbara mohyde depietro

Cindi Svec

April 11, 2020

To Entire Family & Extended Family.
We where sadden to hear of Rays passing. Always had a smile on his face.Cherish the many memories & all the many lives he touched along the way.
God Bless
Kimball & Cindi Svec

LAUREL & HARLEY CYCLE, INC

April 11, 2020

It was always a pleasure to take care of Ray & his motorcycle. May God Love you Ray, Fred.

Victoria Mcguire

April 11, 2020

Amy my thoughts and prayers for you and your family

Mike Szarmach

April 11, 2020

Brian and family, i'm so sorry for your loss. you will be in my prayers..

April 11, 2020

My deepest sympathies to Bernadette and the whole Aubin family on this terrible loss. Taken too soon. Love to you all.
Wayne Schalich

Rudy Mauritz. III

April 10, 2020

May our gentle God cradle Ray and bless his family as they grieve and remember all the good times that had occurred during his life. Ray will be missed.

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