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GOBY David A. Goby of Trumbull, passed away on Sunday August 14, 2011. David was born in New Haven, a son of the late Louis and Roze (Rood) Goby. He graduated from Central High School in 1959, and Marietta College in 1963. He received his Master's degree in Education at the University of Bridgeport and Law degree from Quinnipiac Law School. David had a long career in Education, having taught science at Staples High School in Westport and eventually becoming the K-12 science coordinator before retiring. He then taught science at Ezra Academy in Woodbridge until retiring again in December 2010. David was the Founding Director of Merkaz, the Community High School for Judaic Studies in Bridgeport, which he directed for a total of twelve years. He always felt Merkaz was his legacy to the community. David is survived by his wife of 43 years, Ilene Weintraub Goby; daughter Robyn and son-in-law Scott Larson of NC; son Jonathan and daughter-in-law Nanette of Fairfield, son Adam and daughter-in-law Dalia of Fla.; brother Samuel and sister-in-law Sharon of California; and four grandchildren; Michael Larson, Jared, Kayla and Isaac Goby. He will be remembered for his sense of humor, his positive outlook, and as an inspiration to his family. Funeral services will be held at Congregation B'nai Israel 2710 Park Avenue in Bridgeport on Tuesday August 16 at 2:00pm, with interment following at B'nai Israel Cemetery 190 Kings Highway in Fairfield. The Abraham L. Green and Son Funeral Home is in care of the arrangements. Shiva will be observed at the Goby residence, 112 Governor Trumbull Way in Trumbull, on Tuesday, August 16, Wednesday, August 17, Thursday, August 18 and Saturday, August 20. A shiva minyan will be held at 7 p.m. each evening. To perpetuate David's legacy and promote Jewish education, contributions may be made to the David Goby Merkaz Fund c/o Merkaz 4200 Park Ave. Bridgeport, CT 06604.
Published by Connecticut Post from Aug. 15 to Aug. 16, 2011.

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August 9, 2024

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Diane Stoddart

September 2, 2011

Dear Ilene (“Mrs. Goby”), Robyn, Jonathan and Adam (and families),

My name is Diane Stoddart, and I was your babysitter for many years in the late ‘70’s and early ‘80’s. I work as a Medical Assistant at a Westport Pediatrics Practice, and just happened to inquire today about David (“Mr. Goby”) to a nurse who went to Staples (1972), and she told me about David’s passing. I am so sorry for your loss. You were one of my favorite families to sit for, and I have often spoken of you over the years. I will always remember David as such a pleasant, happy, kind man, and I have no doubt that this is how you remember him also. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time.

Diane Stoddart

August 16, 2011

I knew David when we were both in college. He was a charming, warm, intelligent and funny person. I spoke to him recently after 48 years and it brought back so many memories of how wonderful he was. Maturity had only enhanced these traits. He was grateful for the extra time he had been given after his bout with Hodgkins disease in the early 70s. It had allowed him 40 more years to be with his beloved wife and growing family. He was justly proud of them and also of what he had accomplished in life. He was a joy to know and I, along with many others, will miss him greatly.

Sally Probasco, Madison Wisconsin

Michael Lazaroff

August 16, 2011

Dear Ilene and Family,
Dave was always a kind and generous man who was willing to help out his students in and out of the classroom, as well as his colleagues. When he retired from Staples, he truly was missed. I will always remember his smile, his brisk walk, and his humor. I consider my life truly enriched, simply by virtue of knowing him. He truly was a Mensch.

August 16, 2011

Dear Goby Family - I am so sorry to hear about your loss. David was such a wonderful and caring person. You are all in my prayers.
-Sara Sparks (Kristy)

Sandra Wakin Grazynski

August 16, 2011

Whenever I picture David I see him smiling. He was kind and genuine and will be missed.

David Cohen

August 16, 2011

Very sorry to hear about David. I grew up up the street from him, and was a student at Merkaz. In recent years I always enjoyed seeing him at the JCC in the fitness center. He was a great guy.

Mark Silverstone

August 16, 2011

David was a very special person in my life. No one was kinder and gentler when I was most in need.

Don and Judy Larson

August 15, 2011

Dear Ilene, Robyn, Adam and Jon,

David left us all a legacy of courage in his life and in his death. We're so glad we could call him friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

August 15, 2011

Dear Ilene and Robyn and family,

We are so very sorry for your loss of David. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. He was a wonderful man.

Gary and Cyndi Knauf

Milton Jacoby

August 15, 2011

Ilene & Family,

So sorry to hear about David. Lately we've been losing many of the "good ones." What a beautiful man! And he even liked listening to the Temple band...

August 15, 2011

Sending our condolences and lots of hugs,

Alisa, Keith and Graham Cunningham

August 15, 2011

Ilene,

What sad news! George and I send our sincere condolences to you and your family. Did not know David well, but well enough to know that he was a good man, and committed to education and the community.
With sympathy,

Lis and George Ruderman

August 15, 2011

Ilene, and to your entire family, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. May wonderful memories of David fill your hearts and help you through this difficult time,
with deepest sympathy,
dian vince

Barbara Octavio

August 15, 2011

Dear Ilene and Family,

My deepest condolences to you and your family, Ilene. My prayers are with you.

August 15, 2011

Dear Ilene and family,

Kevin and I are very sorry to hear of David's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Donna & Kevin Eisenman

Barbara Grossbard

August 15, 2011

Ilene and family, We send our thoughts and prayers to you. David was a very special guy....he will be missed. Barbara and Roger

August 15, 2011

Ilene and Family.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family
David was a wonderful man.
Tom Brennan

Sharon Goby

August 15, 2011

Goby Family,

Love you all, and will miss David forever. He was a brother to me.
Sharon

Susan Riley

August 15, 2011

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Jill Christerson

August 15, 2011

Mr and Mrs Goby, you were my favorite Science teacher at Staples! You taught me so much and over the years I have quoted you often! I graduated in '74. I know your family and friends are devastated, but you don't know how many students truly appreciated you. This is a very sad occasion, and I send my condolences. Jill Christerson '74, Westport', CT. You will be missed.

Todd Miller

August 15, 2011

Dear Mrs. Goby & Family:

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Todd Miller
Fairfield, CT 06825

Donna & Bob Katz (Fischer)

August 15, 2011

Dear Ilene,
Bob and I are so sorry to hear about David. Please accept our condolences and prayers.

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