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Martin J. Ryan

1931 - 2021

Martin J. Ryan obituary, 1931-2021, Southport, CT

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1931

DIED

2021

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Martin Ryan Obituary

Martin J. Ryan, Jr.
Martin J. Ryan, Jr., 89 of Southport, the beloved husband of 65 years of the late Arline M. Ryan, passed away peacefully at home on February 15, 2021. He was born in Ansonia to the late Ethel (Gittings) and Martin J. Ryan, Sr. and was a longtime area resident.
Mr. Ryan was the world's best math teacher and will be fondly remembered by countless students and parents in Fairfield. He shared his love of learning and teaching with his children and grandchildren. Known affectionately as the Dynasty Commander, he was happiest when surrounded by family. He loved to spend time at the shore with everyone. He was a life-long Mets fan, and also avidly followed college basketball. Marty put hundreds of miles on his bicycle on daily rides along the coast of Southport and Westport. He could fix anything in his "well-equipped and staffed" workshop.
Martin is survived by his daughters, Kathleen Dusto and her husband Timothy of Cary, NC, Christine Toole and her husband Michael of Warren, PA; and his sons, Kenneth Ryan and his wife Doreen of Hatfield, MA and Martin P. Ryan and his wife Wendy of Bridgeport. He will also be missed by his grandchildren, Sarah, David, Amy, Ian, Ryan, Jacob, Benjamin, Kelly and Megan as well as seven great-grandchildren.
Due to current restrictions, the Memorial Mass will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to Catholic Charities of Fairfield County, Development Office, 238 Jewett Ave., Bridgeport, CT 06606 or www.ccfairfield.org/donate. To send an online condolence, please visit www.shaughnesseybanks.com

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Published by Connecticut Post on Feb. 19, 2021.

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Thomas P Finegan

February 13, 2022

I had many problems with math (Ludlowe Class of 73). Mr. Ryan was the only Math teacher that ever really reached me and I got a "B" in his class. Best math grade I ever had. This man had an ability to reach his students and help them learn. Although I have not seen Mr. Ryan since 1973 to this day I thank Mr. Ryan in my heart for his compassion and extraordinary ability in teaching. I knew his daughter Kathy in Ludlowe and send her and the rest of her family my condolences.

Mel Senator

February 28, 2021

A fine man and a wonderful teacher. Kind, funny, always willing to go the extra mile for students and friends. Condolences to the family.

Ronald j Luneau

February 25, 2021

Marty was a great teacher and great family man!! My sympathies to the Ryan family. Ron Luneau

Sue Stansfield Williams

February 24, 2021

Dear Kathy, Tina, Ken, Marty and all your family, I’m so sad for your loss. Marty was such a dear friend to our family, and one of the sweetest people I’ve ever known. I have fond memories of our “Uncle Marty”, always with a twinkle in his eye.
Pipe smoke and the sounds of baseball games on tv still remind me of the many nights he and Dad sat downstairs watching a game together.
Both of your parents meant so much to me growing up, and they still do. May he Rest In Peace. He will forever be missed.

Thomas P. Finegan

February 23, 2021

Mr. Ryan was the finest teacher at Ludlowe. He was kind, and considerate and Very patient with his students. I am but one of the people that his brief touch in life made a difference in the way my life turned out. Thank you Mr. Ryan.

Heather Hamilton

February 23, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I had Mr Ryan tutor me when I was a student at Ludlowe. He was so patient and kind. RIP Mr. Ryan. The angels have gained a beautiful soul.

roger dionne

February 21, 2021

Kathleen, Christine, Kenneth, Martin and Family

Thoughts and prayers to all on your loss.

I have known Marty for over 30 years, through sports, (Marshwood football and wrestling).

He was a great mentor to all who knew him.

RIP

Roger Dionne and Mother Dede

Vicky Fingelly

February 21, 2021

Dear Kathy, Tina, Kenny and Martin - Your Dad was a wonderful and kind gentleman and the best and most patient math teacher ever. Mr. Ryan and I could always share a laugh that (only with his help) I finally managed to pass Algebra. At this very sad time, I am sending you all my very deepest sympathy, Vicky Fingelly

Susan Watson Jones

February 20, 2021

Dear Ryan Family, Please accept sincerest prayers and condolences at this difficult time. "Mr. Ryan" was one of the best Math teachers I ever had at Roger Ludlowe. He could explain everything well so we could all understand, and he had a wonderful sense of humor while doing it. (He made Statistics a breeze! ) Rest in Peace, Mr. Ryan.

Pete Stansfield

February 20, 2021

Marty Ryan. Family friend, My Math Teacher, My "Uncle Marty". Never missed a family party or wedding, or the Friday night pinochle games. You took Marty Jr, My Father and I to my first Mets game when I was 9. Rest easy together again with Arline. Thank You.

Milton Jacoby

February 19, 2021

So sorry to hear about Marty. He and Arlene were the greatest couple. Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss.

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