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William Varese Obituary

Varese, William D.
William Daniel Varese, age 37, of Monroe, affectionately known as BJ, died November 23, 2016, following a decade-long battle with substance abuse. A Masuk High School graduate, Class of 1997, BJ studied criminal justice at Housatonic Community College and Western Connecticut State University. He worked as a private investigator following graduation. One of his favorite activities was spending time at the family cottage on Long Island Sound where he enjoyed boating, fishing and swimming. He played soccer in Monroe for 11 years, where he was a star forward. A lifelong Yankees fan, he always loved taking in a home game with his family. A natural in the kitchen, he loved experimenting with different dishes, but his specialty was veal and fettucine alfredo. BJ was always up for a game of chess or poker. His sharp wit and dry sense of humor kept everyone laughing. He had a kind word for everyone he met, and he was always willing to lend a hand, whether to a friend or stranger. He had a heart full of love and caring and will be missed by so many. Survivors include his parents, William and Mary Jeanne Varese, his sister, Ashley and her partner Jeremy Leonard, two aunts, Rosemarie Varese and Peggy Kennedy, and many cousins. Funeral service will take place on Wednesday, November 30, 2016 at 9:00 a.m. from the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Rd., Trumbull and at 10:00 a.m. in St. Patrick Church, Bridgeport, for a Mass of Christian Burial. Interment will be private at the convenience of the family. Friends may visit on Tuesday from 4 -8 p.m. at the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Rd., Trumbull. In lieu of flowers, those desiring can make memorial contributions to the Greater Bridgeport Mental Health Center, 1635 Central Avenue, Bridgeport, CT 06610. To leave an online condolence, visit us at www.abriola.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Nov. 28 to Nov. 29, 2016.

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Richard Mancini

December 6, 2016

Bill and Mary Jeanne, Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your son William. May God Bless you at this very difficult time.

Susan DelValle

December 5, 2016

Bill,

I just heard of the passing of your son. I am so sorry to hear such sad news. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sue

December 2, 2016

Bill,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Love,

Marie Gallo-Hall

Edna Luvara

December 1, 2016

Dear Bill so sorry to hear of your beloved loss you and BJ are in our thoughts and prayers. I can't
even beginn to know the pain you are feeling to lose a loved one. Love always Tony and Edna

Lisa Martinchek

December 1, 2016

So sorry to hear of the loss of BJ. I was a friend of his through middle and high school and have such fond memories of him. My deepest sympathy for all of your family. God Bless.

Jerri Baudisch

December 1, 2016

Dear Mary Jeanne,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

November 30, 2016

Dear Bill and Mary Jeanne: I was crushed to hear this tragic news. I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that your family will heal from BJ's passing,

Nick and Lisa Framularo

Joan Neville Buffa

November 30, 2016

Dear Bill and Mary Jeanne,
I am heart sick over your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Love,
Joan

November 30, 2016

Bill: So sorry to learn of the passing of your son. Our deepest sympathy.
Vincent and Addie Lee Chase

November 29, 2016

Mary Jeanne, Bill and Ashley,
I am so sorry for your loss. Although I had not seen BJ for a long time, I still remember that precious smile. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love you all. Kara (Horvath) Gronbach

anna voccola

November 29, 2016

RIP in eternal peace dear B.J.

November 29, 2016

Dear Bill & Mary, our family is so very sorry to hear of BJ's passing. Seems like yesterday he was at our house playing and laughing with David. We cherish the memories we have from his youth and will keep ALL of you in our prayers for the difficult days ahead. God bless your family. RIP dear B.J. with love from the Vocccola family

November 29, 2016

Mary Jeanne and Bill,

While the loss of a child is never easy, may your beautiful memories of B.J. bring you comfort during this difficult time.

God Bless you and your Family.

Fondly,
Doreen and Tom Weihing

Molly Nazzaro-Pierce

November 29, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. BJ and I grew up together and he was always smiling and making us laugh as kids. So sad to hear of his passing. God bless

November 29, 2016

Our hearts are filled with sadness for your loss. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Mickie and Jerry Dlugos

Rose Ann Guidi

November 28, 2016

Bill and Mary & family I am so sorry to hear about your lost of your son. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Rest in peace William D. Varese. Your friend Rose Ann Guidi

Mary (Neri) Hoag

November 28, 2016

With my deepest sympathy.

Jean McGuire Carnese

November 28, 2016

Mary Jeanne, Bill, and Ashley, I am so sorry. I cherish the memory of BJ as a five-year-old with the sparkling eyes, the mischievous grin, and the ability to charm adults, including me. You are in my prayers
Jean McGuire Carnese

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Tammy

November 28, 2016

MaryJeanne, Bill and Ashley... Keeping the three of you in prayer as you endure this difficult time. Lots of love being sent your way.

Debbie Simek

November 28, 2016

Mary Jeanne and Family; Words can't express how saddened I was to hear of BJ's passing. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and BJ.

Debbie Simek

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