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Mary Ann Yazzie

1923 - 2020

Mary Ann Yazzie obituary, 1923-2020, Kirtland, NM

BORN

1923

DIED

2020

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Cope Memorial Chapel - Kirtland

458 CR 6100

Kirtland, New Mexico

Mary Yazzie Obituary

Mary Ann Yazzie

Mary Ann Yazzie, 96 years old, born on July 27, 1923 on the Navajo reservation in Newcomb, New Mexico, passed Saturday, May 2, 2020 in Farmington, New Mexico from Covid-19 while in residence at the Life Care Center Farmington where she became a resident in December 2019. The maternal clans she was born for were Ta'neeszahnii and Tl'ááshchí'í, while she was born to Nashashí on her paternal side.

She attended Taodlena Indian Boarding School then found work in her early years as a line cook and dishwasher in a restaurant, as a maid in a hotel, and in a laundry where she trained new employees. Mary said she was always self conscious about a scar she received on her hand after someone she was training at the laundry accidentally burned it by activating a clothes press; but none of her children or grandchildren were even aware of it until she talked about it in her 80s. She wasn't the first person in her family to work an eclectic mix of off reservation jobs, her father, fluent in Navajo, English, and even some Spanish, for a time was a police officer, a horse trainer and jockey, a school master, and even recruited other Navajos for Hollywood movies.

During World War II, Mary lived in Salt Lake City, Utah and commuted everyday to Idaho where she contributed to the war effort like Rosie the Riveter producing nuts and bolts, loading them into boxes, and shipping them to Germany. One day she heard a man speaking Navajo, so she walked around the corner to see who it was and that's how she met her husband Paul, who was ten years older than she and was from Immanuel Mission, Arizona. Mary had once said that her mother, Mamie, warned her not to get involved with extremely handsome men. Perhaps that is why she mused, her marriage ended in a separation some years after the war ended? Paul had returned injured and awarded a Purple Heart while Mary worked in Farmington to make money to take care of her children while living with grandparents, aunts, and uncles on the reservation during the 1950s and 1960s.

Mary had eight children; one passed as an infant, Virgil, and Freddie, a graduate of the Institute of American Indian Arts, Vietnam Veteran, freshman at Arizona State, and one time member of Up With People, who passed in 1970. In the 1990s after her daughter Caroline won a radio contest, Mary took her first airplane ride to finally meet Freddie's son, Eddie, who was living in Chicago.

She loved watching basketball, especially the Lakers on the flat screen from son Larry, and the whole family would help supply her with Word Search books and pens. She caught the bouquet at her eldest granddaughter Teresa's wedding. She was fond of sweets so her second eldest granddaughter, Saundra, would treat her to Dairy Queen and her daughter Elaine made sure her green Formica table always had a treat or two sitting there daily. Son, Gary and his wife Edda would supply Filipino eggrolls and daughter Jeannette and husband Lawrence would drive up from Albuquerque to take her to doctor's appointments while her youngest son Gilbert would fix the fussy air conditioner or heater on his visits.

Mary was the matriarch of a family who believed she would most likely have stayed with them through the traditional Navajo lifespan of 102 years. She was physically strong, only took medication for blood pressure and the occasional steroid shot for arthritis in her knee and shoulder. Mary was born to parents who were raised by parents who had lived through the Navajo Long Walk to Ft. Sumner. This must have been a reason why she had such a strong sense of self; she had so many stories about standing up for what she believed in and fighting for her own happiness and good health while never letting hard times define her character nor ever seeing herself as a victim. She was the healthiest grandma around.

Her children ran marathons, became graduates in nursing, accounting, commercial art, electronics, and became a librarian, postal worker, carpenter with the Air Force, and retail manager, to name few. When grandchildren would visit she always asked about their brothers and sisters and told them how much she loved them and missed seeing them. They moved the dial further by becoming a journalist, working in magazine publishing and real-estate, forming heavy metal rock bands, opening a computer repair shop, becoming a CIA trained chef, managing and fighting forest fires, becoming a buyer, printmaker, house refurbisher, and playwright/filmmaker, so far.

She was the constant presence behind an entire family who will miss her deeply. She was the keeper of the continuity of the family, and especially for those who lived away from the four sacred mountain boundaries of the Navajo Nation, she was the heart of our source of culture, identity, and long history.

She was preceded in death by husband Paul H. Yazzie, and sons Freddie and Virgil Yazzie, brother James Franklin, and sister, Lucy Lee, and parents Mamie Franklin and Franklin "Billy" Yazzie.

She leaves behind siblings Harry Franklin (99 years old), Chester Franklin (88 years old), Wilfred Franklin (91 years old), and Esther Begay (86 years old); children, Jeanette Sells, Caroline Garcia, Gary Yazzie, Larry Yazzie, Gilbert Toney, and Elaine Jackson; grandchildren Eddie Metoxen, Teresa Sells, Terry Sells, Brent Sells, Saundra Gomez, Reggie Garcia, Brian Yazzie, Rhiana Yazzie, Tianna Yazzie, Brandon Toney, Alicia Jackson, and Aundrea Jackson; and great grandchildren, Eddie Metoxen III, Alex Metoxen, Maliyah Metoxen, Emmitte Keele, Steven Gomez, Andrew Gomez, Sally Gomez, William Steward, Bridget Lowery, Kylee Sells, Sakoya Sells, and Nathan Yazzie.

Viewing 8 a.m. to 9 a.m., Wednesday, May 13, 2020 at Cope Memorial in Kirtland, New Mexico. There will be a prayer at 9:30 a.m. given by her grandson, Brent Sells at Memory Gardens. A reception will be held at a later date. Pallbearers are grandsons, Terry Sells and Brent Sells.

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Published by Farmington Daily Times from May 12 to May 13, 2020.

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Mildred Ruiz-Sapp

May 14, 2020

Our condolences to the family. We are sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in the memories and love you shared and share. Thank you for your journey. Rhiana Yazzie has learned well from you and now she teaches us. We are grateful.

richard montoya

May 13, 2020

Viva la Mary Ann Yazzie, an extraordinary life, deepest respects to the family and my colleague Rhiana Yazzie from the Montoya's de ABQ, New Mex...

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