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Jeffrey Fulvimari
February 12, 2025
Hard to believe it´s been 11 years since Cindy passed! I think of her all the time. I really miss stopping by the Cub Market and hanging out in the back with her for long chats full of laughter and fun! That was if I could ever catch her without 3 zillion things to do, all at once. One of the hardest working people I ever met, she was also a great person and will forever be sorely missed!
Tom Martin
November 22, 2024
Thinking of Cindy today, although the last time I saw her was many years ago. Around 1990-1994, I lived (along with my wife at that time, Julia) on West 72nd Street in New York City, and (as dog-lovers) we dined frequently at a restaurant called Phoebe's, named for the owner's Golden Retriever. It was always a pleasure to see Cindy there at Phoebe's, and as we all became friends, Julia and I. enjoyed attending one of Dark Horse Theatre's first productions, several short plays with a cast that included Andrew McCarthy. My condolences to all her friends and family. She is missed.
Italia Hoffman
November 5, 2024
I met Cindy as a guest at The Twin Gables. I loved going there and was so satisfied as a guest. Frederick and Cindy were so gracious. I will always remember being there. I'm lucky to have known them.
Terri Pawson
September 4, 2018
Cindy time has a way of catching up and in that sense of time there exists no time only love. Such conversations, such deep secrets, such laughter we shared . Faith, fortitude and courage. Thank you for your love and care it was a true honor knowing you. You are a beacon of light now and have the angels as friends for sure and talk to everyone! I only found out about your passing and extend love and peace to your family here on earth. May we meet again!
Cindy, we miss you more than you would ever imagine.
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Beth Baylis
August 4, 2014
Such a lovely person! We shared the same birthday. She helped make the world a better place. We will miss her. Beth & Ted Baylis
Lake Hill, NY
Jeffrey Fulvimari
May 19, 2014
I miss Cindy very much. Above all, she knew the meaning of friendship! She was the type of person who would work all day at the store, and drop everything to run and help someone in need! And everyone in Bearsville and Woodstock loved her, and relied on her humor and wit to help us through the day. She was the hardest worker and most professional person I have ever met. I would often stop and say "I don't know how you do it all"... We all love you Cindy, and all who knew you miss you! Love, Jeffrey
March 19, 2014
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Sandmann and Girls,
I was so saddened and heartbroken to hear of the sudden loss of the beautiful girl Cindy. As my dear high school classmate and close friend, I have such fond and wonderful memories of those great years that we spent together. I would spend the night at your home and have the best time hanging around Mt. Adams with Cindy. I remember doing the "steps" at Immaculata Church with Cindy, during Lent. Then she would spend the night at my house because I had some cute brothers. We had a lot of fun and laughs growing up. Someone wrote how she would say hello and see how things were, then off to something else so quickly. I had to laugh, to think she had not change much. I haven't seen Cindy in many years, but I still hold a place in my heart for her. This is our 40th year high school class reunion this year, and Cindy will surely be missed. We will pray for her at St. Ursula Academy.
Karen Shields Vollman
Karen Hirtzel Kiefel
March 8, 2014
Pat, Lou, Donna, Kathy, Pattie, Lori and Becky. I just heard the news of Cindy's passing today. Mom found out yesterday from Rhea. I was shocked. I will always remember the little girl who grew up next door to me on St. Gregory St. I always had fun helping your Aunt Phyllis babysit for all of you. Now Cindy is with Phyllis in heaven. My prayers for all of you. Love, Karen
Denise Parent
March 5, 2014
I am saddened to hear of Cyndy's passing. She was a sweet soul who always reached into me whenever I went into shop at the Cub... I appreciated her kindness and unique sense of humor. I am so sorry for huge loss in the community and I wish Frederic peace in his heart. <3
Eric & Vicki Willmer
March 2, 2014
We were shocked and deeply saddened to here of Cindy's passing. She was such a delightful person. We stopped in the Cub nearly every weekend and always looked forward to seeing Cindy's smiling face. She was so warm and friendly and took such an interest in everyone. It was a pleasure to know you Cindy. Frederic, you have our deepest sympathies.
Maria Gianas
February 27, 2014
I am so shocked and saddened to hear the news. Cindy always took a minute to connect and ask me about my life- my first house, first vacation rental....we were both trying to find a way out of our fashion and prop styling businesses, respectively. And spent many an afternoon scheming about how this could be done. Stop the travel and the back and forth. Peace on your journey Cindy. You're free now. My deepest condolences to you Fredric. It's unbelievable. Really. Love and light to you.
February 26, 2014
Hi, another Pomander neighbor here. So fine to hear how much she was loved and liked up in Woodstock to. She was always coming and going here, but always stopped to chat, and find out how everyone was doing - and then zoom off to what seemed just a non-stop life. I suspect she got more done, and touched more people than I could manage in a hundred years. Still -- too brief. Too brief.
Anything we can do down here, please just let us know.
Peter James
Pomander Walk
Kim Smith, Al Krause
February 26, 2014
Cindy's neighbors on Pomander Walk in New York City are so very saddened to learn about her passing. Al and I did not get a chance to know Cindy well, but did have the pleasure of talking to her on a couple of occasions. She was so vibrant and full of life! We will greatly miss her presence here. Our thoughts and prayers are with Frederic and the entire family.
February 24, 2014
I will miss Cindy's shining spirit, intelligence and warmth. I
always left feeling better, after a visit with her at the Cub. In the middle of the daily challenge of running the market, she had the gift of giving her attention to each person who came in. I send deepest condolences to her family, and especially to Frederic, who has always felt like a friend. I am thinking of you daily, and sending prayers and comfort to you.
February 23, 2014
I had the pleasure of working with Cindy many times and I'm so sorry to hear of her passing. She always wonderful and a joy to be with. Michelle Bernstein
karin schreyack
February 23, 2014
I am deeply saddened by the loss of such a fine person.... my heart goes out to Fredrique and her loved ones.
Lys, Steve & Gerrit
February 22, 2014
There is a hole in a corner of our town. Cindy you were the first friend to so many of us when we moved here. You made us all feel special, loved and understood. We will take you with us as we go on and make you proud. We love you and miss you.
Freddy we are so so sorry for your loss and are sending you our love.
sarah pirozek
February 22, 2014
so sorry for your loss.
Erin Hosier
February 21, 2014
I lived in Bearsville for 2 years, and Cindy always made me (and my dog) feel so taken care of. The woods can be a lonely place, and she was one of those people who just made you feel at home. There were many nights when only Cindy's chicken pot pies would do. I'm heartbroken for her husband and all her colleagues and friends. I'll think of her every time I think of Woodstock. And I just know heaven is full of Cavaliers...
February 21, 2014
Uncle Lou & Aunt Pat, Donna, Cathy, Patty, Nancy, Lori & Becky: Our Deepest Condolences for your loss. My families prayers and thoughts are with you. We are here if you need anything, just a call away. 513-373-9340
Love you, Rick, Tonya, Austin, Brooke, Dakota & Corbyn Sandmann. -
Chip Brill
February 21, 2014
During hurricanes and all forms of blackouts, Cynthia was a beacon, always with a smile and kind word. Deepest sympathies to Frederic and the families...
LuLu Kirschenbaum
February 21, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you Becky and your family, sorry for your loss. Lulu Kirschenbaum
Kamela Christara
February 20, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
February 20, 2014
So sorry for your loss.
Laura Sandmann
February 20, 2014
Uncle Lou, Aunt Pat and girls - my thoughts and prayers are with you. If there is anything that we can do for you please let us know.
Rod Futerfas
February 20, 2014
My deepest sympathies to her entire family. She was a vibrant and well loved person. I'll miss her.
Laura, Buzz and family Deters
February 20, 2014
All our thoughts, and prayers we are sending your way.
With much love.
Rachel Marco-Havens
February 20, 2014
My heartfelt condolences. Our community will not be the same without her bright and loving smile.... I light this candle with Love, Light and many prayers for a swift rebirth.
Beverly Traum
February 19, 2014
I lit a candle for Cindy in my Bearsville window, 1/2 mile away, when I heard that she died. It was impossible...I kept repeating through my tears. She and Frederic brought to our tiny town a fine little market where we became spoiled by a beautiful blonde who called us by name and always asked about our various interests or work. She made the Cub Market feel like the porch light that would always be on in our darkest days. She was gracious and lovely. I hold Frederic in my heart. It is a pain like no other - to lose your mate. It will hurt more than you can imagine for longer than you could believe. To Frederic, Cindy's family, and all who loved her - I am so very sorry for your profound loss.
Gala West
February 19, 2014
Sending much love to you Frederick and all of the sandmann family. I am terribly shocked. Cindy was a bright and vital person that I always looked forward to seeing. She will be missed.
Jacalyn & James Jackson
February 19, 2014
Our deepest condolences to Frederic and The Sandmann family. Cindy's ever-present kindness and joy will always be remembered and tremendously missed in our hearts and in the community.
Carol Wandrey
February 19, 2014
so very sorry for your loss.
Robin
February 19, 2014
Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss . Praying for peace and comfort...I love all of you very much and wish I could be there.
esotec
February 19, 2014
so very sorry for you loss , we are in shock
Ted & Julie Sandmann
February 19, 2014
Uncle Lou, Aunt Pat, and girls: We are saddened to hear of Cindy's passing. May God bless you all in this of sorrow.
Niki Sandmann-Roark
February 18, 2014
Uncle Lou Aunt Pat and girls I am praying for you all.
February 18, 2014
Pat and Lou, i am so sorry for the lost of your daughter. My prayers are with your family.
Nancy Pastura Correll
John and Sharon Rushkoski
February 18, 2014
Freddie, We offer our prayers and condolences to you and your family. Cindy was such a joyful person and we will miss her greatly.
Craig Sandmann
February 18, 2014
Dear Aunt Pat, Uncle Lou, Kathy, Donna, Patty, Nancy, Lori and Becky. Sarah, Morgan, Josh and I want to extend our very deepest condolences to you at this very difficult time. We are very saddened by this news and are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. Despite the pain of this loss, take solace in the peace that comes in knowing that Cindy is with our Lord at rest in his Kingdom. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.
Much Love,
Craig and Sarah Sandmann
Virginia
February 18, 2014
I only met Cindy recently and as I entered the Cub Market for the first time, she was playing loud rock n' roll music and I thought, "it's still a music town." What a wonderful person and I will never forget her kindness.
Kerry Cubas
February 18, 2014
My heart goes out to Frederic, and to the Sandmann family. Cindy's generous spirit loomed large in her community. Her wall-to-wall smile brightened many a dark day, as she sincerely shared in the countless lives who passed through the Cub Market. Industrious beyond compare, she always took a moment to converse, laugh and share your day = as enthusiastic about 'your' life as she was about her own. She knew each customer's likes and happily announced new products to our delight. Cindy enjoyed successes amidst the most cosmopolitan of backdrops; yet managed to retain her down-to-earth values. My deepest condolences to Frederic, and to her family.
Henrietta Weekes
February 18, 2014
Cindy was one of those undercover angels! I chatted over the years to her in the Cub Market. She was such a giving and gorgeous spirit, and i think she made all sorts of connections for all of us. Many times she helped me with work. Always she was there with a smile and an open heart. Dear Cindy, you did good in this world and may you inspire us all.....
George Sandmann
February 18, 2014
Sister Pat & Brother Lou, so saddened on the unexpected sudden passing of Cindy. There's no words that can explain why our God has called her home so earlier in life. We can only hope and pray that you can deal with your grief by remembering your beautiful, and kind daughter, and how she lived life to the fullest. Please know that you are not suffering alone.
George, Nancy, Ted, Craig, & Laura Sandmann
February 18, 2014
My biggest hug to you Frederic, I send you the most love and light to get thru the days ahead. X Boda
Abigail Thomas
February 18, 2014
This is still so hard to believe. Cindy, you were such a strong positive friend in my life. I loved seeing you, loved your greetings, loved how you knew all of us, asked questions about our lives. You mattered to so many of us. Darling Cindy. I will miss you terribly.
Linda & Tom Clark
February 18, 2014
Mr & Mrs Sandmann, Donna, Cathy, Patty, Nancy, Lori & Becky,
We are both so saddened to hear about Cindy. So many long ago memories have brought smiles and tears to the surface.
I remember like it was yesterday sitting in Cindy's room talking about her plans to go into modeling in NYC which took her to so many exotic and wonderful places. She was always so determined and to me very brave to step out into the
world and follow her dreams.
Tom spent so many memorable times with all of you. Whenever we hear Earth Wind & Fire "Fantacy" we are taken back to your home & family on St Gregory.
Our thoughts prayers and love are with you all.
With loving memories of Cindy,
John M. Ruth
February 18, 2014
I first met Cindy on July 4, 1968. She was working for her Dad at Avoca Park. We went to grade school together for 2 years at Holy Cross in Mt. Adams. We were one big family in Mt. Adams. My Dad and Lou were great friends.
I saw Cindy last before I left for the Marine Corps in 1974. I heard she did some modeling overseas and I thought I saw a billboard of her while I was stationed in Japan.
Lou and Pat, my thoughts and prayers go out to you. You raised a fine daughter. Remember John 14.
Cindy, may you rest in peace.
Sincerely, Jack
Sanchia Playfair
February 17, 2014
Words can not say how much i will miss you Cindy. You were part of my everyday life in Bearsville. It was always great to share a laugh, a story and moan about the weather. You always went out of your way to stock all my food comforts. My heart goes out to Frederic and your family whom you spoke so fondly of. There will always be a special candle lit in my heart for you. God bless you and your family.
Sanchia Playfair, friend and neighbor
Ben Sandmann
February 17, 2014
I wanted to Light this candle for Cindy. Love Stevie, Mikey Benny, Ricky.
Lisa Hance
February 17, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Sandman Family! Heaven gained an amazing Angel and she will be watching over each and every one of you every day! God bless!
Ben Sandmann
February 17, 2014
Dear Aunt Pat, Uncle Lou, Donna, Kathy, Patty, Nancy, Lori and Becky,
Cindy will be greatly missed. She always inspired others. I remember being 10 years old riding with Cindy in her VW Bug through Mt. Lookout Square after stopping for UDF ice cream. Cindy asked me about my future aspirations. I told her I wanted to become a pro athlete. Cindy encouraged me to follow my dreams. I admire Cindy for her focus and her determination in following her dreams and being successful. When I think of Cindy, I will always see her big smile and pretty face. Cindy I love you, you were always top shelf.
Sincerely, Ben & Michelle Sandmann
Cara Castiglione
February 17, 2014
May you take comfort in knowing that when we lose a loved one here on earth, we gain an angel in heaven that watches over us.
My sincere condolences to you and everyone.
Larry Lawrence
February 17, 2014
Dear Fredric
Many years ago when we met you and Cindy, you always walked around town with a great smile. It was a total shock to us and many people in town. We send our deepest sympathy to you and all of Cindy's family. We always heard good things around town about you and Cindy. May she rest in peace and may her beautiful smile live on within you. If you need anything or just to talk, we are both here for you. Larry & Paul (Village Green B&B)
Tonia Hance
February 17, 2014
Patty,
You and your family will be in my prayers. Lots of love from your Republic Services Family
cynthia cohen
February 17, 2014
i loved cindy…one of the most industrious and kindest women i have ever met, she always had a smile and a compliment ready to deliver. she and Fred shared a true partnership and my heart goes out to him, her family and the large community of friends she leaves behind. she made woodstock a better place to live and she will be sorely missed.
Tony Catanzaro
February 17, 2014
Dear Lou, Pat & family... I'm so sad to hear about your loss. You will all be in my thoughts & prayers.
February 17, 2014
Our prayers and deepest condolences to your family and loved ones.
Jan & Keith Mallon
Melissa Eppard
February 17, 2014
Cindy was a new friend to me, but she was so easy to talk to and had a way of listening that really made you feel heard. My heart goes out to her family and to Frederic, as everyone is reeling from the shock of this tremendous loss. It feels so long to wait for those of us who remain here, but I know that she will be waiting with a big smile and open arms when we all return "home".
Marcele Sanzenbacker
February 17, 2014
Dear Lou, Pat and Family,
You are in our hearts and our prayers.
Ken & Marcele Sanzenbacker
Kathie Huesman
February 17, 2014
Dear Lou, Pat, Cindy, Cathy, Patty, Nancy, Lori and Becky,
Deepest sympathy to you all. It's been years but I can still see Patty running down St Gregory, huge book in hand to excitedly show me Cindy's portfolio. Such an exciting and proud time, one of just many in your family. I hope those memories bring you some comfort in the painful days ahead. Reading all the entries it's obvious that Cindy exuded love and light and shared that with those around her, those qualities are a gift from God.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kathie Huesman
Sandy Morgan
February 17, 2014
Deepest sympathies and warm prayers for Cindy and her family.
Teresa Weden
February 17, 2014
Patti, my heart and prayers are with you and your family.
Marilyn Cox-Cohen
February 16, 2014
Dear Lou, Pat, Donna, Cathy, Patty, Nancy, Lori, & Becky,
I am so sorry to hear about Cindy passing. You are all in our thoughts & prayers during this most difficult time. Praying you feel God's presence & strength and that one day your many fond memories of Cindy will fill your pain & sadness!
Sally Cox-Maj
February 16, 2014
Dear Pat, Lou and family,
All of you are in my thoughts and prayers at such a difficult time. Cindy will be missed immensely but is in Our Dear Lord's arms at this time. I know from experience to remember the good and fun times is what got me through Sharon's death..In fact, Sharon and Cindy are probably up there sharing Holy Cards as they did when they were younger...May God give you the comfort, peace and serenity to accept what only HE KNOWS was best for Cindy.
God Bless,
Sally Cox-Maj
Alexandra Zarro
February 16, 2014
I am shocked and very sad to hear this news. Cynthia was always so warm and loving. My deep condolences to you all.
Drew Schlapp
February 16, 2014
Cindy was a pure Angel walking among us. I met her first in 2004 when I walked into the Woodstock Laundry across from the Library. I was there because someone told me the people at the Laundry had an apartment for rent. They were not there but this Cute Blond was looking at me with a odd look on her face and doing her wash. She asked me who I was looking for? Told her why I was there and she said "I think you need to rent my Cottage" I thought OK??? She told me she owned Twin Gables and to meet her there at 2 PM. I laughed because I was staying at Twin Gables. I rented that house and she became one of my best friends in Woodstock. I will always remember enjoying Thanksgivings at Twin Gables with her and her family. I will never forget her smile and kindness.
Jesse Freund
February 16, 2014
My deepest sympathies for all that knew Cindy. In all of my years stopping in at the Cub Market, I was always greeted with a cheerful 'hello', kindness and a genuine concern about the little things in my life. A cup of coffee and the groceries collected never seemed to be a chore in the delightful, cozy, environment that Cindy, Fred, Diana, Thelma, Maria, Arnie and all of the hard working souls make happen on a daily basis. I will always think of The Cub as Cindy's Place and will continue to feel her kind, giving spirit whenever near the Cub Market. Cindy, you are missed by so many, MANY people in our tiny community!!
Ian Snyder
February 16, 2014
I am shocked and saddened by the news of Cindy's passing. Cindy was always very courteous and engaging at the market. I will forever be grateful to Fred and Cindy for keeping the market open during the hurricane...My heart goes out to Fred and all of Cindy's family. May your spirit and soul find peace. Thank you so much for your kind presence and service to our community.
John & Lina Leuthold Sr
February 16, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tracey D'Alessio
February 16, 2014
What A Shock! I will miss talking with Cindy at the Cub Market, she always loved my Red plaid pants that I wore & we would share a laugh about fashion.... Rest easy ...
fr john nelson
February 16, 2014
Our community misses you, and the Church on the Mount keeps you in our prayers. Fr John
nidhi huba
February 16, 2014
Frederic and Family,
Condolences from the Huba family to yours, Cindy was such a light in the community and enjoyed the chats we had and her love for all that was beautiful and right-Akal means the great undying and my mantra that we chant when someone passes have sent it out in this snow whiteness to her - Light and Love from Casa Huba .
Ginger Leyser
February 15, 2014
Having just received this news, my heart aches. Cindy was such a kind soul who I met in California in the early eighties and she became a dear friend. She gave me my baby shower and I am looking at the photo of her and my son together which still sits in his room now nineteen years later. She was one of the hardest working women I ever knew and was always ready to help a friend. Our heartfelt prayers to the family and to Frederik. Cindy will be so very missed and I am grateful for the wonderful, fun times that we shared and for being able to call her my friend. May God Bless you Cindy... you will always be in our hearts....
Steven Sandmann
February 15, 2014
Uncle Lou and Aunt Pat my heartfelt sympathy in your loss. Those two and a half years when my brothers and your seven daughters had to live together at 1129 St. Gregory Street on our Mt. Adams are a priceless memory. Cindy helping me with my math so Sister Teresina would not get mad at my progress thought I forgot? Or that Christmas of 1969 defending the Sandmann Castle from the Iron Horsemen. Never forget the time Cindy and Donna got us together and we put on that play for Uncle Frank and Aunt Alice for Thanksgiving. Cindy was destined then for those "Broadway Lights". Cindy I always respected you for your courage and commitment to follow your dream. You were a gracious leader, unselfish sister, patient cousin, loving daughter and faithful wife. Tonight when I go outside and gaze upon Orion's Belt I will see your star shining brightly along with all our dearly departed family. Love Steve...
Teresa McCarthy
February 15, 2014
Cyndy, I can't believe you are gone. I will miss your smiling face so much. My heart goes out to Frederic as I know his lost is great. God Bless your family and hold their hearts steady as they will miss you. You have always been warm hearted and kind. Your customers will miss you too. I am so saddened that you are gone. May your path be warm and illuminated. your memory here in this world will go on... Again you will be truly missed. Teresa McCarthy
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