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jane
May 22, 2025
never forgotten.
Jeff Zirkle
August 28, 2024
Prayers and love Mary and family within the Gift of the Divine Will.
laurie m zirkle
December 12, 2022
happy birthday mary ....
love you ...mom
Jennifer Richter
September 13, 2017
Dear Randy and dear family,
I remember you from high school. We didn't know each other well and only met very briefly when I was with Christy Armstrong in the summer of 1974. I remember how very nice you were.
I'm so very sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. My sincerest condolences to you, your wife and children in the loss of Mary. God bless you and comfort you always, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Will keep you and your dear family in my prayers always.
Sincerely yours ,
Jennifer Jarvis Richter
Katy, Texas
December 12, 2016
Dearest Mary
Happy Birthday
Love
Mom
Benjamin Duhamel
February 7, 2016
Beautiful, yet ephemeral, you were as a shooting star
Aly Johnson
October 20, 2015
"May you rest in peace, God will take care of you you're a beautiful angel at peace now."
Tara
September 4, 2014
Miss you every day Mary. I'm happy we were friends. You touched my life in so many ways. Love you and miss you so much. God has a beautiful angel.
Heeral Valinetz (Rawal)
September 4, 2014
Still thinking of you, my 7th grade math partner. Hope you are still at peace.
Heather Wilkerson
September 4, 2014
Tomorrow marks 13 years. It seems like just yesterday. I think about you often. I especially think about reading your poems in English class, Sophomore year. You were such a beautiful writer. I also remember that your handwriting was beautiful. I knew you for a few years, and I don't have a single bad memory of you. I miss you. I hope you are resting peacefully. God bless you and your family. <3
Mary with Matt, Christmas 1989
Randy Zirkle
January 8, 2014
Tracy Wilson
December 26, 2013
I just found out yesterday through a mutual friend about this terrible tragedy. I love you Mary and I will remember you till I live. Its just too painful to know that some one as beautiful and young and as innocent as yourself could be snatched away like this. My most heartfelt condolences to Randly and Laurie, and to Mat and Scott.
Tracy
Randy Zirkle
December 12, 2013
Happy 30th on the other side, my girl.
Dec. 12, 1983 - Sept. 5, 2001
Mary (center) with brothers Scott & Matt, Jan. 1988
Randy Zirkle
December 12, 2013
December 12, 2013
Dear Mary
today is your birthday
you are loved forever
love mom
Scooby Carr
November 23, 2013
This is dedicated in honor of Mary, the essential teen girl saint in her true home in heaven with her Lord Jesus.
Ole S.
October 18, 2013
I´d also like to express my condolences.
I never knew Mary so its hard to find the right words without appear inappropriate. These comments and pictures touched me, as I myself recently lost my family. And although Im not religious, I know that one day we will see our loved once again.
Mary, please take care of my people
Sincerely...
Josh Davis
September 16, 2013
I will think of you tonight, this beautiful girl that I never knew.
Randy Zirkle
September 5, 2013
I can't really say anything that has not already been expressed, except to say that my heart is permanently broken, and that I'm beginning to recognize that in this realm, perhaps that's not such a terrible thing.
Maybe we could all be a little more compassionate with a bit of vulnerability.
I look forward to the long talk that I hope we'll have when next we meet.
Love, Dad
September 5, 2013
It's been 12 years since you've been gone. We all still love and miss you Mary. Hope you're doing well on the otherside.
-Matthew Zirkle
Mary with Kramer, June 1996
August 24, 2013
Laurie Zirkle
December 12, 2012
Dear Mary .....
Today is your birthday....
you are loved forever
mom
Mary and Randy, Christams Eve 1988
Randy Zirkle
November 25, 2012
Mary and cousin Tommy
Randy Zirkle
November 25, 2012
Erich K.
November 24, 2012
I didnt know Mary but it is my belief that once we are on the other side we will know everyone. She has an amazing likeness to a young girl that I know.
It is my Goal in life to reach out to perfect strangers and say "you are not alone" I lost my cousin on 10/31/12 and my best friend since the third grade on 7/17/12.
As a perfect stranger,,,, I understand.
I am sorry for your loss.
September 26, 2012
Such a beautiful young girl. RIP
Noshaba Bhatti
September 6, 2012
I still think about you, Mary.
Christy Rickabaugh
September 5, 2012
Thinking of you today Mary...May you rest in peace!
May 29, 2012
my condolences, you were a beautiful young woman, RIP
laura p
May 21, 2012
<3 what a pretty girl x
c s
September 5, 2011
you and your family are in my thoughts tonight.
September 5, 2011
I love you Mary.....
love mom
September 5, 2011
Can't believe it's been 10 years, miss you so much.
June 9, 2011
Miss you Mary
Mary
April 3, 2010
laurie zirkle
December 12, 2008
DEAR MARY
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ...
LOVE YOU
MOM
Laurie Zirkle
December 12, 2006
Dearest Mary ....
Today is your birthday. I miss you
and love you so much ..
love forever
mom
Susan Gahagan Mueller
October 3, 2006
I think of Mary and your family and, of course Matt, more often than you can imagine. I beleive with all my heart that she is in a better place and is watching and guiding us here. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you mark the five years since her passing.
Peace be with you all,
Sue
gigi & ed umbricht
September 28, 2006
God be with you Mary.
Maggie DeRusha
September 23, 2006
Dear Laurie and Randy,
How hard this must be for all of you. Five years seems like an eternity when you loose someone you love. Mary will always be in all of our hearts and she is in our thoughts often. Laurie, I have always loved your quick smile. You once told me to take one hour at a time and that was very comforting, know that you are loved and prayed for often. Maggie, Gary and family
Katie Fitzgerald
September 20, 2006
I will alway's miss my sweet younger cousin Mary! One thing i always think about when i think of her is how she was there the day i woke up from my coma. If i could do or say one thing to her it would be to ask her about that day, and begin a new relationship and friendship. I never got to know her as well as other's, but she will ALWAYS be in my heart and thought's.....
Eileen Lopez
September 13, 2006
Laurie, my dear cousin, even tho we don't see each other often, I love you so very much. I didn't know Mary, except for the times I ran into her at the Jewel with Randy and Matt. She always seemed so shy, and so beautiful. Then there were the times the 3 of you would stop by my house to say hi. Randy, I always cherished those unexpected meetings with the 3 of you at the Jewel. I do know how very much Mary was loved and I would give anything to have he back here with us. I feel we are all pre destined for our final day, unfortunately God takes some of us far too early.I always saw Mary as a beautiful dancer because she always looked so graceful. I'm confident that she is dancing in the clouds and and smiling upon all of you, her family.
My love to all of you, Laurie, Randy, Scott and Matt. Love Eileen
Mary Pomerantz
September 13, 2006
Dear Laurie, Randy and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this hard time. I hope time has helped you through your sorrow and the happy memories overshadow the sad ones. You have an angel looking over you. Fondly, Mary Gilbert Pomerantz
Tracy Fitzgerald Smigielski
September 8, 2006
Mary and i are cousins. I loved her very much. The one thing looking back is I wish we wouldve known eachother better. But I do carry you with me. My daughter knows she has a cousin watching over all of us. You have touched alot of peoples lives and will always be remembered and loved and missed.
Laurie, Randy, Scott and Matt,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you always, especially at this time.
lOVE, Tracy, Scott and Cailey.
Noshaba Bhatti
September 6, 2006
I didn't know Mary that well. We had a few classes together, but we never got around to talking. Still, I think about her from time to time. I wish I would have befriended her, or at least talked to her a little more. She had a very pleasant personality. But, high school is a strange place in a stranger time. Things happen around you and you either get caught up in it, go with the flow, or get lost somewhere amidst the confusion and chaos. Those of us who made it emerged with a unique sense of self, scars and successes and all.
We take this new understanding of ourselves to college. Who we enter as is often vastly different from who we are when we leave. Finishing up my final classes in college, preparing to leave, I wish I could reach back to the moments I spent in high school. Looking back now, it was all over so quickly. I would have told my younger self to not be so sure of yourself at that age - and to not be afraid to approach people and talk to them. I would have told myself that the people worth knowing were the ones who were sitting in the hidden rows of your English classes. I would have told myself that the quieter ones were the ones who had something real to say. And I would have told myself to take advantage of the time I had, because it would be over before I knew it.
On the 5th anniversary of Mary's passing, I want to tell her family that I'm sorry I didn't take the time to say hello to her and ask her how she was from time to time. She has, without a doubt, touched my life. I will continue to remember her as I go through life.
Heather Wilkerson
September 6, 2006
Even though you are gone, Mary, we all still think about you. Your beautiful smile and contagious laugh haunt our dreams. We often wonder why you were taken from us so soon. So very soon. But then we realize that you were just to precious to be kept here on Earth. You were needed elsewhere. The only thing that comforts us, is that we know that you are happier. There has been an end to your pains, and to your sorrows. But even though you are gone, none of us will ever forget you. Mary Zirkle Rest In Peace. We love you.
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