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John Stewart
February 6, 2006
Kathy, I am both saddened while lost for words in Pat's passing. Pat was my icon when I qualified for gold and platinum team several years ago. He always made himself available to bounce ideas or share personal experiences as one of the top advisors with our company. I can think of only a handful of people in my 25 yrs with the company that has had a lasting impression in my life. I considered it a privlege to know the two of you and the enjoyment my wife and I had @ each Pac conference. Kathi both you and your family will be in our prayers during this very sad time for all of us.
Diana Lee (Riddlebaugh) Schwieterman
February 5, 2006
I was saddened to see the notice of Pat's passing in a Canadian newspaper while on vacation this week. I send my sympathies to his family for their great loss but also to those people who never had the opportunity to be exposed to such a "Gentleman of Great Integrity."
It's sad that the life of such a role model was cut so short. Perhaps Lefty McFadden needed some goaltending in heaven and met him at the gate.
Pat's family is fortunate to have many wonderful memories of him and I know that many people share their grief. Bless you.
A Dayton Gem Hockey Fan.
Anna Mae Hosmer, Butala
February 5, 2006
My family and I our so very sadden for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless you.
Kathy Hosmer Buford
February 4, 2006
Kathy, kids, Barb, Joan, Jerry, Kitty and Aunt Jen:
It has been years since I have seen any of you, since Uncle Lou`s funeral. My sisters, brother and I were saddened to hear of Pat`s passing. We all send our deepest sympathy and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Chuck Mobley
February 4, 2006
Pat was one of the "Good Guys".
After my father died in 1970, Pat helped my mother take care of financial details. It was comforting to see a man helping our family get back on course after our long ordeal with my dad's cancer. I used to sit in the family room and watch Pat & my mom discussing finances around our little kitchen table. As a teenager at the time, I was in awe of his athletic achievements and - his HUGE hands. Pat had the most powerful-looking hands I had ever seen.
Later, I always told anybody who'd listen about what a great guy Pat was. He will definitely be missed.
Joyce & Chuck Kardon
February 4, 2006
Dear Kathy, We are so sorry for your loss, our loss. Pat was a very good friend, a real professional in business, a wonderful athlete and a true supporter of our community.He is really missed by his tennis buddies.
Alan & Lynda Cohen
February 4, 2006
Pat is remembered as a true GEM - one of a kind, multi-faceted; a loving family man filled with pride for his wife Kathy and his family;a loyal friend, a team player, a community leader, the consummate professional businessman. We wish Kathy and family much strength at this difficult time. We miss Pat! With love, Alan & Lynda
Mike Siehl
February 3, 2006
To Kathy and the kids,
On behalf of all of the members, past and present, of Megacity Hockey Club, I offer no less than or deepest, heartfelt sympathy, we are terribly sorry for your loss.
“Ruppy” was definitely one of a kind. He lent prestige to our league.
Forever, the answer to questions about our Megacity Hockey Club were answered; “well, we have a former United States Olympian playing with us” as if that somehow elevated us to yet another level.
To us, what distinguished Pat was not necessarily his impressive career, but his regard for his team mates, his respect for the opponent and love of the game. He leaves a lasting impression as a good guy, a great teammate a gifted goalie and later a marginal forward. We have enjoyed his spirit, his humor and especially the stories.
We will miss and forever remember his presence, the integrity, the easy grin, the wry wit and those less than pretty legs.
It was an honor to share the ice with such a man.
What a life, what a guy, what a shame!
Respectfully and with deepest regards,
Mike Siehl
Commisioner,
Megacity Hockey Club
Dayton, OH
Mel Dillon
February 3, 2006
Rupp family,
So very sorry to learn of Pat's passing. Many years ago as a rink rat and goalie I idolized Pat Rupp as did many kids. As a Junior Gems goalie, Pat taught me so much about goaltending. He was kind and generous with his time. I have a pair of his old goalie skates given to me by Gem's trainer which I wore for many years. I will remember our games as "old timers" in Troy back in the 80s and the show we put on at Goggins Ice Arena against a group of old timers there. Until next game, God speed.
Burt Saidel
February 3, 2006
The term "Olympian" is never better used to describe our Pat. His joyful and yet unassuming enthusiasm for life was a lesson and a gift to all of us.
He loved his tennis games and the banter which took place among loving but abrasive friends.
The world needs Pat Rupps. Whence comes another?
Kenny Gratz
February 3, 2006
Rupp Family,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss.
[email protected]
David Goldstein
February 3, 2006
The word that comes to my mind when I think of Pat is "grace." On the tennis court, where I knew him best, he had wonderful physical grace (and those great goalie reflexes). And both on and off the court he also had personal grace: a true gentleman, with warmth and humor; a model to us all.
Manley and Barbara Perkel
February 3, 2006
I played tennis with Pat over the last few years. Pat was a real gentleman, on and off the court, and an inspiration. He was an excellent tennis player, and whenever I played with him, either as opponent or partner, he lifted the level of my game by his conduct, sportsmanship, generosity, kindness and quiet decency. We will miss him. Our heartfelt condolences to Kathy and family.
Christine and Kirk Wiltse
February 2, 2006
Aunt Kathy, Patti and Tommy,
We are saddened to hear of your loss. May you be comforted by the love of those around you at this time.
Christine & Kirk
Ed & Karen Hayes
February 2, 2006
Dear Kathy,
With such heavy hearts we received the news of Pat. We can only hope that your burdens will be eased by the love of all your friends. God bless you and your family.
Dave Pavelka
February 2, 2006
What a thrill it was growing up to have watched Pat play for the Gems and then later to share the same ice in megacity hockey games. I know he will be sadly missed by his family and all who knew him.
Jim McGarvey
February 2, 2006
My late younger brother,David, played goalie for the Junior Gems. Pat was his hero and always a glass act in a tough game.
Jerry and Betty Rankin
February 2, 2006
Rupp Family,
So sorry for the lost of your loved one. You are in our thoughts. May God bless you.
Jerry and Betty Rankin (Kitty Belesky's in laws)
Randy Tate & Choice One Communications
February 2, 2006
Kathy - we are saddened by your loss. We will all miss Pat Rupp. Please be assured of our thoughts and prayers.
Tim Adams
February 2, 2006
For several years I went every Tuesday night to watch the Gems play. The one player I still recall from that period is Pat Rupp. He was phenomenal. A joy to watch.
My deepest condolences to the family.
Marcia
February 2, 2006
Dear Rupp Family-
I remember when Pat came to Smith Jr High in the 70s to tell the students about his Olympic Days. It was so interesting to hear his stories. I am very sorry to hear about your loss.
Mark & Sandy Nickley
February 2, 2006
Dear Kathy & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Pat will be truly missed by all those who were blessed to have gotten to know him. Mark has said many times that Pat was a true friend and he smiles when he thinks of the good ole hockey days. God Bless you all - love the Nickley Family
Cassie Shelley
February 2, 2006
Dear Kathy, Patti, and Tommy, You have my heartfelt sympathy on your great loss. Pat will be remembered by so very many whose lives he touched in different ways. Bless you all
Christien, Jennifer and Grant Rupp
February 2, 2006
We are so very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
We love you.
Chris, Jen and Grant
Ethel Drummer
February 2, 2006
I followed the Dayton Gems and really enjoyed watching Pat; He was the best of goalies. My sympathy to his family
Rick Heliste
February 2, 2006
One of the highlights of my one season working with the Dayton Gems (79/80) was getting to know Pat Rupp. Those memories were rekindled every trip down 48 with a youth hockey team. I am proud to have known Pat, a great Olympiam and great man. Rick Heliste, Carmel, IN
Kay and Jennifer; Samaritan Health Foundation
February 2, 2006
Dear Rupp family,
Our hearts and thoughts go out to you. Pat will be missed greatly.
Frances Rupp
February 2, 2006
Dear Kathy, Patty and Tommy,
I am so very sorry.
Love
Frani
Suellen Nuhn
February 2, 2006
Dear Kathy and children,
I've never met you; yet I feel I know you from stories Pat shared with me as we had our financial meetings.
I'm sure you will hear this many times from his clients, but I feel I've lost more than a financial advisor, I've lost a friend.
Pat was there to guide me when I needed a friend in the worst way. I wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts.
Suellen
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