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John Berl

1927 - 2017

John Berl obituary, 1927-2017, Wilmington, DE

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John Berl Obituary

John Berl

John Ennalls Berl (Jack) 3/28/1929 - 5/27/17

The angels came and took Jack to heaven on Saturday while holding his daughters hand. Jack was born in Wilmington; he was the son of the late Adjutant General, William Berl, Jr. and Marie K. Berl of Westover Hills.

Jack was a man of great pride, he saw the world as black and white, what was right was right and what was wrong was wrong. Jack had a smile that made everyone smile. The first time any of his caretakers met him they would comment about his beautiful smile that lit up his face and the room.

Jack attended A.I. DuPont School, Archmere Academy and the University of Delaware where he was a member of the SigmaNu Fraternity.

Jack was in the Delaware National Guard where he served for many years. He was involved in the Guard during the tumultuous riots in downtown Wilmington during the 60 and 70's.

Jack loved his career with DuPont, he was an excellent draftsman. After retirement he became involved with the Kalmar Nyckel, Delaware's tall ship. He would show up at the shipyard and volunteer for any job that needed to be done. He specifically asked that this story be put in his obituary. One day he showed up at the yard and Peggy Tigue said "we need a carpenter" Jack's reply was "I am not a carpenter" and Peggy said "you are now". Jack volunteered countless hours at the shipyard helping build the ship. The organization was so grateful to him they named a building after him and put a plaque on it and called it the "Berl Building".

Jack loved the water. He once chartered a 100 foot three mast wooden sailboat to sail around the Abacas islands in the Bahama's with his family. He was in his glory at the helm of that ship in the open seas.

Jack lived the last year and a half with his loving daughter and her husband. Jack loved to travel to Williamsburg, Virginia, where he had been to twice over the last 11 months. He also looked forward to trips to Rehoboth beach, Virginia Beach and the Pocono's.

Jack loved the sun; he would always sneak outside and sit on the deck. On the weekends he would sit in the lounge chair under a tree and watch his daughter and son-in-law work in the gardens. He would say "this is one step closer to heaven".

He was preceded in death by his brother William Berl, III, his three sons John E. Berl Jr., Kevin D. Berl, Stephen F. Berl. He is survived by his daughter Karen B. Gilbert and her husband John Gilbert, his grandson Nicholas A. Berl and his loving sister Marie B. Ferguson and her husband John Ferguson.

The ritual in the mornings around the Gilbert house would be his son in law John greeting him "morning Jack", Jack would answer "morning John". In the evenings John would say "night Jack" and Jack would respond "night John"

Good night Jack, we know you are resting in peace.

The family is grateful to all the caregivers that have entered their lives, they truly loved him. There are no words to express the gratitude and thanks for having the support of Delaware Hospice. Jack will be missed by many of their staff members that looked forward to seeing Jack; he gave them many laughs and smiles and many fond memories.

A celebration of Jack's life will be arranged at the Kalmar Nickel, Copeland Maritime Center at a future date.

In lieu of flowers the family would appreciate donations to the Delaware Hospice https://www.delawarehos pice.org/. CHARLES P. ARCARO FUNERAL HOME

(302) 658-9095

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Published by The News Journal from May 31 to Jun. 2, 2017.

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Karen Gilbert

May 25, 2019

Daddy, we miss you and love you with all of our hearts. John and Karen

John Berl III

June 5, 2017

rip pop pop glad you dont have to suffer

Marie Ferguson

June 2, 2017

I just want to thank John and Karen for all the love and care they gave my brother Jack the whole year and a half he resided with them. He was happy and contented, even through his awful problems. And I was privileged to see him any day or time through this hectic period. Karen, you gave everything that no one else could possibly have done, and more so, twenty four - seven.

Eva Graham

June 2, 2017

Karen, I am sorry to hear about the passing of your father... you and John made the end of his life a very special time... and he was there when you needed him, as well... You were a wonderful daughter and your friends are very proud of you. Please accept my condolences... xo Eva Graham

Maria Sylvanus

June 2, 2017

Oh Karen, I'm so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Know he enjoyed being with you, John and spending time in your lovely home & incredible garden. I know how were such a devoted daughter and fierce protector of your father... Hugs and Love during this difficult time. Maria L. Sylvanus

Jayne Armstrong

June 2, 2017

Karen, I am so sorry for your loss. In following your posts for the past year I can tell you spent quality time with him and created wonderful memories. Cherish them. He was lucky to have John and you.
Jayne Armstrong

June 2, 2017

Jack our house is very lonely without you. I will miss your company while I am in the garden on those warm summer days but will know you are near by when I feel a cool breeze. I will miss joking with you and listening to your family stories, I learned a lot from you. Every time I turn on the Swing Music, we will think of you, watching you and Karen dance in the sun room warmed my heart. Even the cats miss you although you used to say "I love cats, they taste like chicken" which made everyone laugh. I will be waiting for you in the garden.

Your one and only son-in-law and all my love John

Maria Sylvanus

June 2, 2017

Oh Karen, I'm so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Know he enjoyed being with you, John and spending time in your lovely home & incredible garden. I know how were such a devoted daughter and fierce protector of your father... Hugs and Love during this difficult time. Maria L. Sylvanus

John Gilbert

June 2, 2017

Jack our house is very lonely without you. I will miss your company while I am in the garden on those warm summer days but will know you are near by when I feel a cool breeze. I will miss joking with you and listening to your family stories, I learned a lot from you. Every time I turn on the Swing Music, we will think of you, watching you and Karen dance in the sunroom warmed my heart. Even the cats miss you although you used to say "I love cats, they taste like chicken" which made everyone laugh. I will be waiting for you in the garden.

Your one and only son-in-law and all my love John

Bets Ridings

June 2, 2017

Karen,
I know we see each other often, but I still wanted to take this moment to let you know how much I admire you. Bringing your dad into your home a year and half ago, and showing him a loving, caring environment, was a kind and generous act. To sacrifice your own life, to give him the peace he so desperately needed, and unconditional love, is truly a testament to your (and John's) character. I know you miss him every day, but knowing he passed in such an environment should give you comfort. Love and prayers.

Kelly Sakiewicz

June 2, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Every one could see that your dad's last year with you all was filled with fun and happiness. Kelly Howard Sakiewicz

June 1, 2017

Karen I want you to know your father was a pleasure to take care of it loved talking with him each time I seen him you took good care of your father to the end and that smile is out of this world I know he is smiling down on you just know God is with you love and peace

Carolyn Delaware Hospice

May 31, 2017

Dear Karen, I was just thinking about you. I was so sorry to read about your father. I know how much you loved and admired him. He couldn't have received better care, living with you and John. I'd love to get together whenever you are up to it. Take care, Gail [email protected]

Patty Keily-DePree

May 31, 2017

Dear Karen,
My heart goes out to you and your husband who cared for and loved your dad. I picture him now as he was when we were kids. He is having a great time, laughing up in heaven, with my dad.
They were the best of friends. It was so much fun visiting your family. Something always exciting happened when we were with you guys. I still think of your brothers, every one of them, and how "Uncle Jack" was embraced by them, when he was reunited with his boys.
Love to you and pray for your happiness and peace of mind.
Patty (Keily) DePree

Nick Serio

May 31, 2017

I had the great pleasure of working with Jack in the Mechanical Design Group at DuPont's Louviers Site, we even carpooled together for some time.....I thoroughly enjoyed his shared experience and stories, great patience and wonderful demeanor.....and a laugh that could fill a room. A gentleman at a time when gentlemen were becoming ever more scarce. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family - a truly great guy.

May 31, 2017

Sincere condolences to the family. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure in your heart and it lives forever. May the wonderful treasures fill your hearts with love and bring you peace, Hosea 13:14.

Barb Exter

May 31, 2017

Love you Uncle Jack. Won't forget your crazy dives off the high board at Silverside Swim Club or the way you yelled at Karen and I when we sailed that little sailfish boat way out in the bay where you were fishing. So many more memories...My prayers are with you and your family including my Mom-your wonderful sister.

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