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James Toliver Obituary
AGE: 66 • Dover
James "JT" Clayton Toliver of Dover, Delaware passed away peacefully surrounded by family and friends on June 28, 2017, at the age of 66. He passed away after a long battle with cancer at the Seasons Hospice of Christiana Hospital.
JT was born on July 8, 1950, in Lufkin, Texas to the late Grady and Gussie Toliver. He graduated from Sahuarita High School in Arizona in 1968 where he was an outstanding athlete. He attended Lawrence University in Appleton, WI for two years. Because of the Vietnam War he enlisted in the Air Force and was an active member for 20 years. After retiring from the Air Force he went back to school and graduated from Delaware State University with a degree in education. He taught fourth and fifth graders in the Caesar Rodney School District for ten years. A true passion of his was that for more than 20 years, Mr. Toliver enjoyed coaching basketball and track, where he touched the lives of many students and athletes.
JT is survived by his loving wife of 45 years, Jackie Toliver, and their three children, Jeff Toliver (Tammi), Janissa Nuneville (Bill), and Jeremy Toliver. He also leaves behind two special nieces, Monique Rodriguez (Rick) and Nicole Crawford. He leaves to cherish his memory three grandchildren whom he adored, Greyson, Trey and Avery Nuneville. In addition, he is survived by his two brothers, Larry Toliver (Yong Suk) and Clifton Toliver and three special sisters-in-law.
A celebration of life service will take place at 10am on Thursday, July 6, 2017 at Calvary Church, 1141 East Lebanon Road, Dover, DE 19901. There will be an opportunity for family and friends to pay their respects beforehand at 9am. Burial will follow at the Delaware Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Bear, DE at 1pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the American Cancer Society. Letters of condolence may be sent and guest book signed at www. benniesmithfuner alhome.com. Professional services entrusted to Bennie Smith Funeral Home, Dover.
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Memories and Condolences
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February 1, 2019
I grew up with James at the Camp in Sahuarita, AZ. He is my brother, my friend, my coach. I truly hoped to meet James again and tell him how he is my mentor. We did not have a whole lot then just the passion for competition. Javier Blanco
Erin Motley
July 5, 2017
Janissa and the Toliver Family,
I used to work under Jamissa's supervision at Gunning Bedford and I only met Mr Toliver one time. I still remember his smile and friendliness. I can only imagine how much positive impact he has had on so many lives. I send my deepest condolences.
The Neal Family
July 5, 2017
Mrs. Toliver, please know we send our love and prayers to you and your family during the loss of your wonderful husband. We pray that God's peace, mercy, and grace will surround you all. Remember, 2 Corr 5:8 We are confident......to be absent from the body, is to be present with the Lord!
Love you,
kris kowlewski
July 5, 2017
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Carolyn Levine
July 4, 2017
I'm so very sorry for your loss. He will be dearly missed by everyone. My condolences to Mrs Toliver, Jeff and Tammi, Janissa and Jeremy. I'm very glad I had the pleasure of meeting Mr Toliver.
Michael Levine
July 4, 2017
So sorry for your loss, may you have comfort in knowing that JT is in a better place and will suffer no more.
Rita Falcone
July 4, 2017
So sorry for your loss Jeff and Tammi. I am sure that he is resting peacefully in the arms of God.
Ronald, Linda and Caroline Graleski
July 4, 2017
Mrs. Toliiver, we are sending prayer of peace to you and your family. Caroline sends so many hugs for comfort.
Amy Janssen
July 3, 2017
Jackie, our hearts are broken for you. We are keeping you and your family in our prayers. Emma sends hugs until she sees you again.
July 3, 2017
We wish to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Please know that you all our in our prayers.
Sincerely,
,Ann and Frank Basler
Dana, Keira, Kiana and Kolin Nemecek
July 3, 2017
Rest In Paradise JT!
Our deepest heartfelt condolences to Jackie, Jeff, Janissa, Jeremy and the whole of the Toliver family. Prayers of comfort and peace being prayed.
With Love
Gloria Garner
July 3, 2017
Dear Big Sis Jackie Toliver,
Please know that we are thinking of you and your family as you prepare to celebrate the life of your husband,"Bro. JT."
May God's grace and peace comfort you all during this difficult time.
Our continued prayers and love ❤ are with you all.
Sr. Pastor Daryle & Lady Gloria Garner and
The Seigle Avenue First Church of God Family
Charlotte, N.C.
The Probst Family
July 3, 2017
Jackie, our deepest sympathies to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you!
Angela Williams
July 3, 2017
Love you JT. Will miss you. Jackie I am praying for you and my niece and nephews. Love you guys so much. Angie.
Elvina Knight
July 3, 2017
Jackie, Jeff, Janissa.and Jeremy . I am so sorry for your loss. Your husband / dad was one of a kind . His passion for family and children was always priority .May you always share so many wonderful memories . My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.
Jean Miclette
July 3, 2017
J.T. made such an impact on so many, and his love for family: Jackie, his children, and his grandchildren was always first and foremost! He was simply the best and will truly be missed! Our deepest sympathy to the entire Toliver Family.
July 3, 2017
To Jackie and your family: My deepest sympathy to you at this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts to you and your family. He was a great guy and such a good grandfather! Love and hugs to all. Love Ruthie O'Donnell
From the Staff of Bennie Smith Funeral Home
July 3, 2017
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