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Peter Moench Obituary

Peter Steed Moench "Master Musician" Peter Steed Moench was born the third of four children to joyful parents February 8, 1982. Twenty-three years later he came home from college for the Thanksgiving Holiday and went all the way home to his Father in Heaven, his too short life coming to a close November 24, 2005. Peter was reared in Salt Lake City, where he graduated from Skyline High School before pursuing his chosen career at the Indiana University School of Music. He earned a Bachelor of Music degree and was polishing his playing skills in the master's degree program in cello performance and as principal cellist in the University Orchestra. "Cel" in Latin means heaven, and the cello is the heavenly instrument that will forevermore bring us fond memories of Peter and a tear to our eyes. Peter had a love of classical music that connected him to past generations and a curiosity for the contemporary that made him equally at home spinning records on twin turntables. An avid reader and a deep thinker, he researched concepts of spirituality, history, politics, environment, and health, and conveyed firmly held convictions to all on his address list who opened their e-mail. He strongly valued the exchange of books and the give and take of ideas on how the world should be with his closest cousin, Marcus Egan. He expressed strong faith that good would ultimately triumph. Special times for Peter included his winning a blue ribbon at the Utah State Fair string competition, boogie boarding with cousins each summer at Oceanside, cheering on Team USA at the Atlanta and Athens Olympic Games, giving tiny nieces the delight of riding on his shoulders and teaching small students techniques of rich cello sound. A wonderfully wry sense of humor was his calling card. His passing leaves an empty chair in the Moench Family string quartet and a deep void in the hearts of his parents, Louis A. and Deborah Moench; his admired brother and sister-in-law, Matthew and Aubri; his much loved sisters, Rebecca and Sarah; his special Grammy Grace Steed; 10 aunts and uncles and their 10 spouses; and 33 cousins. A member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, he is sealed to an eternal family that includes grandparents, Louis G. and Maevonne Rees Moench and Harold C. Steed, who have predeceased him and welcomed him to his celestial home. All who knew and loved Peter and his family are invited to a viewing at the Wasatch Lawn Mortuary, 3401 So. Highland Dr., Monday, Nov. 28, 6-8 p.m. and at Mount Olympus 10th Ward chapel, 3610 E. 3510 So., Tuesday, Nov. 29, one hour before 12 noon funeral services. Interment will be in Wasatch Lawn Memorial Park. Peter's final life-affirming gift was organ and tissue donation. Your gift to Peter could be to better someone's life in whatever way you choose.

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Published by Deseret News from Nov. 27 to Nov. 29, 2005.

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Wandal Winn

December 11, 2005

Dear Lou and Family,

I was so saddened to hear of your loss. I know the support of family, friends and the Church will get you through but wanted you to know you are in my prayers.

Ron Feigin

December 6, 2005

Dear Lou and Family,

I was saddened to hear of your loss and hope you can begin to find solace in the love and caring of family and friends.

Lex von Hafften

December 5, 2005

Dear Lou and family,



My prayers and condolences are with you.

Peter Moench

December 5, 2005

vit patel

December 5, 2005

Dear Lou and famil:

Aloha. It is with profound sadness that I read of your son's death. Words fail us a time like this. The only solace is that his indestructible Atman (Soul)has moved on to be one with our Maker. You and all of your family, near and far, will be in our prayers. -With fondest aloha: veet and geeta.

Dan and Jan Christensen

December 5, 2005

For Deb and Lou,



Our memories of Peter are of those of an energetic young boy tussling with his cello while waiting to play with the violinists and harpists. He was so darling. We are so sad for your loss, and respect and honor you for being righeous parents.

Susie Means

December 4, 2005

Dear Moench Family:

We are deeply saddened by the loss of Peter. We wish you great strength and energy as you work through this loss. Peter is a wonderful man with fantastic talent. You are an awesome family, we truly love all of you.

Love, Susie Means, Brooke and Zac DeWaal.

Tallon and Martha Perkes-Fabrique

December 4, 2005

We would like to extend our deepest condolences and hope that the memory of Peter provides warmth and hope as all that were close to him begin to heal. We remember his beautiful cello playing and trust that it resonates on and comforts you.

Liza Simmons Hoke

December 2, 2005

Dear Debbie,

My sister Julie just told me about your terrible loss, and I wanted to add my note of sadness to the many other kind expressions. What a wonderful life Peter had already fulfilled-I could certainly see the Steed in his smile. The missing quartet chair is heart-wrenching. With deepest sympathy and fond memories of our trio many years past,

Kristy Smith

December 2, 2005

Dear Debbie,

I am so sorry to hear about your terrible loss! I never met Peter. He is so handsome, and sounds like a truly amazing person. I DO know Peter was very blessed to have such a kind, patient and loving mother. God bless you and your family at this time.



Your Friend,

Kristy Smith

November 30, 2005

Dear Debbie,

I am so sorry to hear about your terrible loss! I never met Peter. He is so handsome, and sounds like a truly amazing person. I DO know Peter was very blessed to have such a kind, patient and loving mother. God bless you and your family at this time.



Your Friend,

Linda Schille

November 30, 2005

To The Family and Friends of Peter,

May you have peace in remembering the times you had with Peter, and comfort in knowing that others care.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Julene Bassett

November 29, 2005

We were sorry to learn we had such a talented relative only after such heart-rending notification. But we are grateful to know that family ties really can hold loved ones together even through the veil of death. Hopefully the knowledge that we all have a Heavenly Father who loves us eternally and an Elder Brother who can offer us the grace of an atonement powerful enough to turn ALL experiences to our good, will be of comfort to you in your current pain and suffering.



Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this deeply difficult time.



Kedric Bassett

Julene Bassett

Bevan and Bobilyn Bassett

Morgan Bassett

Ryan and Britany Bassett Brinkerhoff

(children of Arthur R. and Janet Bassett; grandchildren of Thomas Myrthen and Henrietta Minson Bassett)

kristin angelos

November 29, 2005

Dear Moench Family-

We were so sad to hear of Peter's passing. Our love and prayers go out to your family.

Sincerely, Craig and Kristin Angelos

Michelle Ferry

November 29, 2005

Moench Family,

I wanted to wish you my deepest condolences. I have many fond memories of Peter, and will always consider him a great role model. I remember as a little girl Mr. Hoyt having me go to federation a couple hours early just to hear Peter perform. I appreciate all the lessons he gave me before State Fair and will never forget when he was more than generous and let me borrow his beautiful cello for my Salute to Youth audition. He was and will always be an inspiration to me. He will truly be missed.

Amanda Jeanne Benson

November 29, 2005

Dear Moench family,

I was shocked to hear of Peter's passing and I offer you my deepest condolences. I recognized him before we met (which was recently) by that familiar smile I remember from Sarah, Becca and Debbie. I will be sorry to not see his face around campus anymore. As a violinist, your family's musical expression has inspired me. And I have always loved your cheerfullness and optimistic attitudes. I am sorry for your loss and I hope you will be able to keep smiling at the wonderful memories of Peter.

Sincerely,

Amanda Jeanne Benson

Heather Schneck

November 29, 2005

To the Moench family:

It is with my heaviest heart that i extend my deepest condolences to your entire family at this time. I was very shocked and shaken by the news. Pete was a friend of mine from IU. He took great interest in my DJ organization and supported many of the clubs activities. He was an intelligent and light spirited man. I hope time heals your hearts and the Grace of God be with you always.

Heather Schneck

SuperStar AMP

former DJEMA president--Indiana University

Bonnie Charles

November 28, 2005

Dear Aunt Debbie and Uncle Lou,



I am so glad for the time I got to spend with Pete. I remember the last time I was with him, down in your basement. We watched The Incredibles with Alex's little girls, and he showed me his favorite new comic book. He was fun to hang out with, and was always nice to me.



His music was such a blessing to us, particularly his playing at Louie's wedding and at Grandma Moench's funeral. He will be missed.



Love,

Laurelle Erickson Gerber

November 28, 2005

Dear Louis and Debby,



I am so sorry about the death of your son, Peter. I heard him play at your mom's funeral, and I have never heard a cello played with so much expression and such a beautiful tone. It was truly amazing! I'm sure he will be playing for his grandparents and for my mom, delighting them with his beautiful music, until you meet him again hereafter.



With Love,

David Bower

November 28, 2005

Dear Moench Family,

May I express my condolences, and likewise for Sofia and Rachel in their absence. They are both in Cleveland just now preparing for Rachel's junior recital. Rachel was here on Thanksgiving day and recounted your visit (which included Peter) to Cleveland just the week before for Sarah's senior recital. Sofia asked Rachel particularly about Peter.

Your family has always been dear to us, so our hearts are full for you. May the promises of the Gospel comfort you now and forever.

Denise Davie

November 28, 2005

Dear Moench Family, I work as a clerical support person for Matthew at Stanford. He is such a fine person and I can see from Peter's accomplishments that he too was an extraordinary human being. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. May God Bless you all.

Denise Davie

Wayne Egan

November 28, 2005

Debbie and Louis,

I was shocked this morning to hear and read of Peter’s death. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. Peter was Marcus’s best and possibly closest friend and relative. He spoke often and highly of Peter. He cherished his friendship and esteemed Peter’s intellect and commitment to beauty and creative endeavor.

Stirb und werde!

Jeni Spencer

November 28, 2005

To Peter's family:

I didn't know him, but I've met your family a few times through Aubrey and Matt. Your family is amazing, and always so welcoming. I'm truly sorry for this difficult time. Aubry and Matt - I love you guys so much! My thoughts and prayers are with you! Let me know if there is anything I can do!

Love, Jeni Spencer

Scott and Angelle Anderson

November 28, 2005

Dear Louis, Debbie, and Family,

As representatives from your extended family, we would like you to know that we grieve with you and have wept deeply since we heard of Peter's passing. Every family gathering has included prayers for your family. We desire to be a support in any way we can and send our sincere love and concern.

Joseph (Jay) Tally

November 28, 2005

Peter was a close and dear friend of mine at IU, he was a wonderful musician and I will miss him very much. He was truly one of the most honest and trustworthy people I knew. May his spirit live on in those who loved him.

julie bagley

November 28, 2005

Dear Moench Family

My daughter Erin played in quartets with Peter, and was at Skyline with him. His music was indeed a gift.

Both Erin and Brinn felt lucky to have rubbed shoulders with Sarah at Skyline and in YACP and to have had Debbie's positive influence for many years at Suzuki Weeks. Our thoughts are with each of your family members. We recently lost a neice at a young age, and are keenly aware of the sting of such untimely loss.

Julie Bagley

Davis and Tanja Romney

November 28, 2005

Dear Moench Family,

We are deeply saddend by the death of Peter. Although we did not know him personally, Matthew and Aubri always spoke of their families with love. We pray that the hope of eternal families will sustain you until you can be with Peter again.

erin bagley

November 28, 2005

To the Dear Moench Family--

I had a few chances to play with Peter and have been so amazed by everyone in your family that I've come into contact with. You are all such excellent and dear people. Please know that you are in my thought and prayers.

Steve Horton

November 28, 2005

Our deepest condolences. Life is so fragile.

Josh Kelly

November 28, 2005

To the Family of Peter,

As a classmate and fellow musician I know that Peter will be missed by all those that knew him. My deepest condolences go out to his friends and family.

Se-Doo Park

November 28, 2005

Dear Moench Family,



It was a great honour to have played with Peter. I'll be thinking of him and praying for his soul.

Mike and Annalee Schille

November 28, 2005

Debbie, Lou, Becca, Sarah, and Matthew,

We are so sorry for your tragic loss. Peter was an amazingly smart and talented man, with so much to offer. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. We will keep your incredible family in our prayers.

Mike and Annalee Schille and Family

Kathy, Raed, Ryan & Madi Hajeb

November 28, 2005

We cannot begin to imagine the depth of your sadness and sorrow. Please know our thoughts and condolences are with you. You are a gracious and wonderful family and we are grateful to have you as our neightbor. We would like to help and support you in any way possible.

Curt & Becky Canning

November 28, 2005

Dear Lou, Debbie and family

We were stunned and saddened to learn of Peter's passing. Please accept our condolences and warmest wishes during this difficult time.

Susan Martin

November 28, 2005

I did not know your son, but he looks SO kind and his tribute is so AMAZING. Now he is filling a mission in the spirit world and I am sure filling the air with beautiful music. What an incredible person he is. I hope my son will follow Peter's example.

November 27, 2005

Dear Moench Family,

I took Violin Lessons from Ramona Stirling for years and so therefore was associated with your family. I had the opportunity to play with Becca in orchestras w/Jack Ashton-I am so very sorry for your loss. There are no words strong enough to give you comfort at this time-I know this for a fact-however, I will pray for comfort for each of you during this difficult time. May you find peace and comfort in your memories of your son and brother as well as in the gospel and in the Atonement of our Savior. I know that in time, this knowledge will bring you comfort and will help you continue on. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.



Adrian Thomas Gatherum

Jackie Hale

November 27, 2005

Dear Moench Family,

I am so sorry to hear about Peter. He was an amazing person with an amazing talent. My family is praying for your family and know that you will be comforted.

Ka-Wai Yu

November 27, 2005

Dear Moench Family,



My deepest condolences. I treasure the experience playing with Peter in the same orchestra this year. He has done a great job as the cello principal.

Heather Bryan

November 27, 2005

To the Family,

The Studio will not be the same without him. Best wishes in these hard times.

Teresa Lunsford

November 27, 2005

Dear Moench family,



I was a classmate of Peter's for 5 years at IU and a fellow cellist. We were in the same studio for 3 of those years. I will always remember his expressiveness on the cello, his friendly personality, and amusing sense of humor. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

JC & Celeste Hallman

November 27, 2005

To the Family Moench,



We never knew Peter, but we are friends with Matt and Aubri, and we extend our heartfelt compassion and grief to your family. May you look forward to being re-united as an Eternal Family.

Jerry Floor

November 27, 2005

Please accept our heartfelt condolences and sorrow in the loss of your great son. There is no greater loss than that of a child. Our hearts are with you at this difficult time. May his memory be eternal.



Sincerely,



Jerry, Connie, Emilee, Gregory & Cassey Floor

Yi-Pei Lee

November 27, 2005

Peter was a very honest, and noble musician, and he will be greatly missed by all of us.

Chad Nielson

November 27, 2005

Pete-o's death will leave an empty space in my life. You will be missed my friend.

Emilio Colon

November 27, 2005

To the Family of Peter,



My deepest condolences. Peter will be missed by all whom he touched.

Emily Nicolich

November 27, 2005

I am truly sorry for your loss. Peter was such an amazing person, so talented and thoughtful. I loved hearing him play. I loved hearing his mixes. I have akept a picture of the two of us in my violin case for years. I have and will continue to think fondly on him every time I open my case. Your family is in my prayers.

Love,

Emily Nicolich

David and Kathy Coppin

November 27, 2005

Our sincere condolences and prayers for comfort for you at this time.

Jason Gehlhausen

November 27, 2005

To the family and friends of Pete,



Pete was an amazing musician that I had the wonderful opportunity of meeting while at IU during my undergrad. His music and sense of humor linked him to everyone in our group of friends. His passing will leave a vacancy in all of our lives.



Much love and support to those who knew him,

Bonnie Warner

November 27, 2005

Dearest Moench Family,

Words can't express how sad I am for the loss of your son and brother, Peter. I wish I could offer some comfort but what I can say is that I love you all very much and my heart and prayers are with you.



Love,



Bonnie

Alan Andrus

November 27, 2005

Dr. Moench,

My deepest condolences. It seems Peter was pretty remarkable. Having two sons about the same age, my heart bleeds for you.

Alan Andrus

Sharie OwYoung

November 27, 2005

Becca- I am so sorry to hear the news of your brother's passing. I wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this rough time. My father, brother as well as your bother are watching over us now. I pray that you will find comfort in remembering the Savior's plan for us and to know that you will see your brother again. That thought has brought me much peace over the years. Hugs!



To the rest of Peter's Family- I never knew Peter but have had the pleasure of getting to know Becca through my cousin Christian. She is always a delight to be around. I was with her Thanksgiving Day and remember her anxious to get home to be with all of you. I am so sorry for all you have to endure. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless!

Lois Brewer

November 27, 2005

Dear Parents and family of your

precious son Peter....please know of our deep sorrow at his untimely passing and our love for all of you.

Lois Brewer and family.

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