Steve Anthony McKay

Steve Anthony McKay

Steve McKay Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 11, 2005.
Steve Anthony McKay, 24, of Mesa, entered into rest October 4, 2005. He was born July 8, 1981 in Port Hueneme, CA and was a behavioral health technician. Steve is survived by his loving wife, Shandell; two children, Lyllian and Trystian; mother, Esther McKay; and brother, Roger McKay. Funeral services were held Monday, October 10, 2005 at 11:00 a.m. at Mariposa Gardens Memorial Park and Funeral Care, 400 S. Power Rd., Mesa, AZ 85206. 480-830-4422. Sign the Guest Book at eastvalleytribune.com

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January 11, 2018

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November 1, 2005

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October 31, 2005

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Sally Duran

January 11, 2018

Esther, I just found u after loosing ur phone no and address ...... l love you call me, same phone no

helen miller

November 1, 2005

dear shandell, lyllie and trystian,

words cannot express how much we feel your pain, but we wanted to let you know that we love you and the kids and we will always be here for you. although we have known each other for a short time, the bonds that i feel we formed have made you a part of our family and knowing how much you loved steve and how much he loved you and the kids make this an especially difficult hurt to bear. may you be strong and continue to know that steve is now your guardian angel. all our love, mom and pops miller

alan ivers

October 31, 2005

Steve and I havn't talked since highschool. When we graduated we both went our seperate ways. He was my best friend in highschool and someone i could always depend on, always had my back. He will be deeply missed. I wish the best for his wife and two kids. To ms Mckay you were like family to me as well Steve was like a brother to me. I hope he is resting in peace and keeping an eye on all those who were in his life. i would like to hear from his wife or his mom if they happen to read this.

alan

Kris Pena

October 26, 2005

To Shandell, Ester and Roger



I am deeply saddend to hear about the loss of Steve. I really don't have the words right now to express how you all must be feeling. Steve was truly a wonderful guy who not matter what he was doing would always drop it to help someone out. He also loved his family and would do anything that he could for all of you. I know that I'm going to miss him, you always think that there is enough time to keep in touch with each other.

Glen Warner Jr.

October 14, 2005

I wish only the very best my niece Shaney (wife of Steve) & her family, may God help heal your pains and bring you closer to you loved one's as Steve will be charished in all our hearts.



I know Steve brought everyone happiness and though I only met him a couple of times, he always smiled and I know he cared for his family so much!



Take care and let me know if I can be of any help! Love always! Babe

Matt McKinney

October 12, 2005

To the family-



I am deeply saddened by the news. The world has definately lost a great son, friend, dad, husband and everything else he was to many people. He was a really close friend of mine back at Fremont JR. High. We had a lot of fun times back in the day. He was like a big bro to me after my brother moved to Florida. The guy was always there when you needed him (no matter what the favor). Ms. McKay I miss you and send my love and thoughts to you. I never got to meet his wife or kids and wish I could have. To you guys, stay strong and remember that he's in a safer place now watching over you guys. Take care and God Bless

DJ Besaw (Jensen)

October 12, 2005

Shandell, Ester, and Family;



I am deeply sorry for your loss. I know that Steve loved you all a and that he will be missed by friends and other members of the community. I know that in a time like this no words that can be said bring comfort, only time can. I just wanted to let you know that my sympathies are with you, as well as prayers for comfort to find it's way to you.

maranda lachance (yarbro)

October 12, 2005

to the family ,



Steve was so amazing, he was the most caring person . Know that he was fun and caring and that he would do anything for any one . I am sorry for your lose .



Maranda Lachance

barbra cason

October 11, 2005

i didnt know steve very well.but in the short time i knew him he was happy and always had a smile on his face. i still look for him to come thru the door.i still look for his car park on the street at work. he knew i was in a band. i asked him if he would pierce my eyebrow and he said yes he would. no maner what the problem or what day he or i was having he always kept his cool.steve was wonderful person and i will miss him. sincerly, barb

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