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Matthew Layden Obituary

Matthew David Layden Matthew David Layden, age 32, died Saturday April 23, 2005 at Hamot Medical Center. He was born September 29. 1972 in Ere and is the beloved son of Kathleen Koch and Joseph Hoover. Matthew graduated from Mercyhurst Prep with a Baccalaureate Degree in Art, studied at the School of Visual Arts in New York City and attended Amsterdam’s Hogeskoll Voor de Kuntszen on a scholarship. He was a talented artist who had exhibited work in New York City, Portugal and Amsterdam. Matthew had also had several art shows in the Erie area and most recently donated his time to a project at the Erie Art Museum. Matthew was preceded in death by his father Paul J. Layden III; his maternal grandmother Doris Koch, and his paternal grandparents Paul and Virginia Layden. Besides his parents he is survived by his grandfather Frank Koch of Erie; an aunt Cynthia Koch and her husband Eliot Werner of Hyde Park, N.Y. and four uncles; Richard Layden and his wife Sheila, Gary Layden and his wife Brenda, William Layden and his wife Lori and Alex Layden, all of Erie. Friends are invited to call at the John J. Quinn Funeral Home, West 9th and Liberty St. Monday from 7 to 9 p.m. and on Tuesday morning from 11:00 a.m. until 12 noon at which time Funeral Services will be held. Burial will be in Laurel Hill Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Erie Art Museum, 411 State St., Erie, PA 16501.

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Published by Erie Times-News from Apr. 25 to Apr. 26, 2005.

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Karen Schelinski

April 30, 2005

The world is not easy for those who are blessed with artistic talent for that also means they feel too deeply. Thank you, Matt, for sharing your gifts and for making my day by telling me I was beautiful. I wish you the peace of mind that was never yours on Earth



I am reminded of a poem by Emily Dickinson

Much madness is divinest sense to to a discerning eye;

Much sense the starkest madness.

'T is the majority

In this all prevails

Assent, and you are sane;

Demur, you're straightway dangerous and handled with a chain.

God Bless You Matt!

Melissa Hinman

April 28, 2005

I love you Matt and always will. Thank you for being my boyfriend and for letting me know that real love really existed for me. I'll always miss you.

James Loeslein

April 27, 2005

My prayers are with your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Becky Wagner

April 27, 2005

It is with great sympathy we offer our condolences. Matthew was such a gifted man with not only a talent for the arts but a talent for offering his fellow man comfort and compassion in their daily struggles. How fortunate we all were to meet him and know him in the short time we did. Thank you for sharing him with us. We are all better for the journey.

Sara Twargowski Cameron

April 27, 2005

I had the honor of growing up with Matt, attending Cathedral Center and Mercyhurst Prep with him.

As a kid, Matt had a wry sense of humor and a depth of soul beyond his young age. He loved to laugh almost as much as he loved making others laugh.

As he grew up, his love of art and his dedication to his work bloomed. He was a creative spirit with the heart of a philosopher.

I am grateful to have known Matt. Peace, old friend.

Anna and Tom Johnson (Nancy's daughter and son-in-law)

April 27, 2005

Dear Kathy and Joe,



We were very saddened to hear the news about Matthew and wanted let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers here on the other side of the world.

Melonie Katz

April 26, 2005

Dear Aunt Kathy and Uncle Joe - We were so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our hearts, prayers and thoughts. Love, Melonie, Barry and family.

Cara (Vallimont) Santos

April 26, 2005

Matt, you will be greatly missed. I am a better person from knowing you. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

John Rogers

April 26, 2005

Matt was a gifted and serious painter, a sharp wit, and a sensitive soul. I learned so much from him. He is no longer in pain.

Dannielle Zygai Hunt

April 26, 2005

Matt was so special, sweet and unforgettable. I am so sorry for his family, and many friends and I know we all feel so fortunate to have known him.

Lynda Schelinski

April 26, 2005

Kathy, I am so sorry for your loss. You are living every parents' nightmare and I pray that you will find the strength you need to get you through this very difficult time.

Angela Chiota

April 26, 2005

Kathy and Joe,

There are no words and it's so hard to write what I want to. Matthew was always very special to me and I will always remember a smile on his face and the laughter we shared. I pray that the Lord comforts you and holds you close during this time. God Bless.

lydia hooks

April 26, 2005

Kathy & Joe,

Deepest sympathy to you and your family, remember weeping may endurth for a night, but joy cometh in the morning..Always in our prayers..Michael & Lydia Hooks & Tim Vactor

Mr. Scott A. (Vincent) Palermo

April 26, 2005

My Prayers and support in your time of need is being sent to you, I will remember his talent, and the love of the Arts, to be enbraced by all he has touched, and for that I will be ever so greatful! May he rest in peace, and he is standing in front God, all the love and Praise for he was placed on this earth for.

Kate Wilson

April 26, 2005

Dear Joe and Kathy

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We all know its hard to lose someone so young and dear to all of us. Knowing that Matt is at peace with our Lord is a great comfort to all of us. Love Kate and Ken

Dan West

April 25, 2005

Matthew, I will always remember the moments we shared. Your friendship will live on. My condolences go out to your family. "Big Time" its your time to shine.



With Love,

Dan

Karen Flagella

April 25, 2005

Dear Kathy and Joe,



There are no words to express how sorry I am for you. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.



Karen

Hilary Meister

April 25, 2005

It is with great sadness that I express my sympathy. Matt will be deeply missed. He was a talented friend, and his life will be remembered always.

"While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil." ~John Taylor

MARY SEVERN

April 25, 2005

UNCLE JOE & AUNT KATHY,

I HAD SO MUCH FUN WITH MATTHEW WHEN I WAS OUT TO VISIT YOU A LONG TIME AGO.I'LL NEVER FORGET OUR FUN TIMES.

SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

LOVE MARY SEVERN

Marilynn Jewell

April 25, 2005

Matthew was a handsome and talented young man. I wish with all my heart that I had known him better.



My heart goes out to Kathy and Joe.



Aunt Marilynn and Uncle Ken

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