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JOSEPH RUFFOLO Obituary

JOSEPH D. RUFFOLO, 70, of Fort Wayne, passed away on Tuesday, Dec. 27, 2011, at The Town House Retirement Center. Born May 9,1941, in Kenosha, Wisc., he was a graduate of University of Wisconsin, Madison and of Harvard University's Advanced Management Program. Following graduation, he served as an intern in Washington, D.C. in the administration of President Lyndon B. Johnson. He held various management positions at Reynolds Metals and at the Squibb Corporation prior to coming to Fort Wayne in 1974 to accept a senior management position at NorthAmerican, Inc., then owned by PepsiCo, Inc. and later by Norfolk Southern Corporation. In 1987, he became NorthAmerican's Chief Executive Officer and served as CEO until his retirement in 1993. He co-founded RuffoloBenson, LLC, a merchant banking company, with a mission "to regain and retain local ownership of regional companies." Among other things, RuffoloBenson has been instrumental in working to develop the necessary infrastructure and financial support to encourage local entrepreneurism , including the formation of the Main Street Venture Fund, one of the first entrepreneurial venture capital funds in the region, to invest in and help guide start-up companies and other entrepreneurial enterprises. He was also a co-founder and investor in Tower Financial Corporation and Tower Bank and was also an investor in and advisor to numerous regional companies and start up biomedical firms. He served on the board of directors of numerous privately owned companies, such as AWS, LLC, Beltmann Transportation Group, Inc., Dekalb Molded Plastics Company, Jack Laurie Flooring, Inc., Pizza Hut of Fort Wayne, Inc., and SaniServe, Inc. He also served on the board of directors of a number of public companies, including Steel Dynamics, Inc., where he served as Co-Chair of its Audit Committee, a member of its Compensation Committee and as the Board's Lead Director, and Tower Financial Corporation, Inc., where he served as Chair of the Compensation Committee. He also served on the board of directors of a number of not-for-profit organizations, such as the Henry Foundation, Steel Dynamics Foundation, and the Schwab Foundation, following its reorganization by the Indiana Attorney General. He was also active in the American Symphony Orchestra League, the American Movers Conference, the Parkview Health System and the Fort Wayne Museum of Art. He chaired the Youth Violence Committee, a local effort to understand and deal with gang violence, served on many civic and governmental bodies, such as the Fort Wayne Allen County Transportation Committee, Allen County Tax Committee and the Safety Academy, and was appointed to the board of the Fort Wayne Parks and Recreation Department and served as its Chair. He was also a member of St. Charles Catholic Church, the Business Forum and the Quest Club, and was a former member of the Anthony Wayne Rotary Club. As a community leader, he advocated the importance of inviting young people to serve on local boards and to get involved in community leadership and he pressed for changes in secondary education to better support the education and employment needs of a rapidly changing global economy. Prior to the remodeling of the Memorial Coliseum, he was involved in the efforts to build a new sports and entertainment complex in downtown Fort Wayne. In 1993, because of his well known expertise in the transportation business, he was called upon to assist in the privatization of government trucking companies in Russia, focusing on the breakup of government operated units and the creation of new privately held companies. He is survived by his wife of 45 years, Linda L. Ruffolo; his daughter, Julie (Brian) Gilpin, of Whitefish Bay, Wisc., married to Brian Gilpin also from Fort Wayne; his two "pride and joy" grandsons, Jack and Luke Gilpin; and by his son, Joseph D. Ruffolo II of New York City. He is also survived and will be missed by many relatives, business colleagues and friends. He was preceded in death by both of his parents. By Joe's express wishes, there will be no public visitation or public funeral. His funeral service will be limited to a family only private Mass in Madison, Wisc. at the Campus Catholic Chapel of the University of Wisconsin. In lieu of flowers, preferred memorials can be made to The Parkview Foundation, the Towne House in Fort Wayne or to the Joseph D. Ruffolo Memorial Scholarship Fund for the benefit of deserving students pursuing business and entrepreneurial careers, c/o Tower Bank, Att: David Fee, 116 East Berry Street, Fort Wayne, IN 46802.

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Dec. 28, 2011.

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Ingo Bensch

January 5, 2012

My condolences to Linda Ruffalo and family. My connection with Joe was mostly second-hand, as my father (Wolfgang Bensch, who died of cancer in 2004) worked with Joe for several years at North American Van Lines. I wish you peace and comfort. Thinking of you in Madison, Wisconsin...

Dr.Rudy and Rhonda Kachmann

January 5, 2012

We send our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Joe was a wonderful man who gave so much to so many in so many ways.He will be missed by all whose lives he touched. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you as you continue your life's journey.

Jennifer and Tom Blevins

January 4, 2012

Linda and family, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything please remember that we are right next door and can help any way you need us to.

Frank & Cindy Byrne

January 4, 2012

We send our condolences and prayers to you, Linda, to Julie,to Joe II, and to your entire family. You and Joe have been great friends, mentors, and role models to us. We are most grateful for all we've learned from you and all you have done for us, both personally and professionally.

With sympathy and affection,

Norm Riffel

January 4, 2012

Linda & The Ruffalo Family:

I am extremely saddened by the passing of Joe. He truly was a "Role Model" to many of us. His burning desire to support young entrepreneur's and other meaningful organization's exemplifies the "very meaningful role that he played in his family", his Business Leadership roles, and the community
of Fort Wayne, Indiana. He will be "Dearly Missed" by all of us.

January 3, 2012

Linda and the Ruffalo Family,
Our thoughts and paryers are with you and your family. May you all be comforted by fond and beatuiful memories. Joe's leadership and love of community will be greatly missed.
Cheri and Mark Becker, Fort Wayne, Indiana

Rick Daniel

January 3, 2012

Joe Ruffolo was truly a great leader of the old north American era. Joe had a remarkable memory and had a personable and likeable way about him with others. I will remember Joe fondly and my experiences with him. My sincere condolences to Joe's family and all of his friends.

January 3, 2012

Linda and the Ruffalo Family,
Our prayers are with you and your family as you share this difficult time together. Joe will always be remembered and defined as class and compassion. We will all miss him, but are better people as a result of his impact on our lives.

Al and Cathy Moll, Fort Wayne, Indiana

Sue Boxell

January 2, 2012

Linda, Julie and Joe,
When past employees of NAVL get together, Joe's name often comes up. He is spoken of always with fondness, respect and admiration. He was without question the best leader for the company and the best boss anyone could ever have. He made working there a joy. All of us will remember him often and always with affection.

Bea and Bob Zoller

January 2, 2012

Linda and the Ruffolo Family,

Our prayers and best wishes are with Joe and all of you today. Joe's many accomplishments, personal friends and professional colleagues are all testament to the positive, meaningful and unique way that he touched the lives of so many people. While his individual triumphs were many, perhaps the greatest of them was that he was always willing to extend that large hand to anyone, at any time and say "hi, I'm Joe, how can I help"?

December 31, 2011

Dear Linda and Family,

My thoughts and prayers go with you and your lovely family as you remember and cherish the memories of life with your dear, Joe.

Dorothy Kittaka

December 30, 2011

Linda, we are deeply saddened and sorry to hear of Joe's passing. He was a great influence in both of our careers and couldn't have asked for a better mentor. We are thinking of you and your family during this time. With our sympathy, Kennis and Tony Jarvis

Pat McNeal

December 30, 2011

Dear Linda,
I am so sorry to hear about Joe's loss. He was a wonderful mentor to me and an outstanding leader. Joe's upbeat spirit and positive attitude will be missed. His guidance will always be in my thougts. Pat McNeal

Cathy Waggoner

December 30, 2011

Dear Linda,
I am so saddened to hear of Joe's death. I know the last few months had been so hard on you both. You are in my prayers for strength to cope with your loss. My deepest sympathy...

December 29, 2011

Joe WALKED THE TALK...all of us that had the privilege of working with Joe at North American Van Lines are all better for the experience. We never felt we worked FOR Joe, but with him. You always called him Joe...not Mr. Ruffolo. He was always on the operations floor, making sure he would listen to the people and their suggestions, he truly cared about North American and the people that worked there.
Joe would always send a letter at Christmas each year, personally signed with a personal message. Joe was truly the BEST CEO North American Van Lines every had, and I worked for many. Linda, I will always remember the Christmas parties at your home, that you had for Joe's staff. You always had a gift for each of us and what a wonderful hostess you were with the help from Julie and Joe, II.

Linda, Rick and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family

Lucy Collins-Briley and Rick Briley

Bill Eidson

December 29, 2011

My deepest sympathy Linda and family. Joe was a very personable and successful CEO at NAVL, and I count it as a great privilege to have worked there during his time of leadership!!

tim moore

December 29, 2011

Linda I met Joe over twenty five years ago as an owner of a Van line s francise in Canada.I will never forget Joe's enthusiasm, kind comments,and stong leadership qualities.I own and operate numerous businesses in Canada and Joe's memory will be with me the rest of my life. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family Warm rwegards Tim Moore Chester Nova Scotia Canada

December 29, 2011

Dear Linda

You have my deepest sympathy for your loss. I had the honor of working for Joe at North American Van lines. He was a great leader. He was the best CEO North American ever had. He has touched many lives and will be deeply missed.

Sincerely
Teresa M. Earhart

Mike Cahill

December 29, 2011

Dear Linda and family,

My family's thoughts and prayers are with you. While I had the privilege of working with Joe at Tower for the past 7 1/2 years, I have been amazed by the number of people who have shared how he has touched their lives in such a positive manner. He was a good man to many, many people. He has made a tremendous positive impact in our community. We are most grateful.

Greg Koehlinger

December 29, 2011

Linda,

You and your family have my heart-felt sympathy. Though many years have passed, I'll always be grateful for Joe's leadership at NAVL. Of continuous life lessons, I respected and valued Joe's passion to always envision what is possible. My prayers are with you.

Jim Boomer

December 29, 2011

Dear Linda and Family:

My condolences and prayers for you all in your loss.

Love and God Bless,

Ken Menefee

December 29, 2011

Linda, We are so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ken & Su Menefee

Kevin Devereux

December 29, 2011

I had the pleasure of meeting Joe in the 80's being an agent in Canada and he was a truly remarkable man and left a real impression on our network by his ability to communicate and encourage everyone that he met.

He will be missed but always remembered by so many people.

Our prayers are with the family at this time and forever.

Mike Carper

December 29, 2011

To the Ruffolo Family. The staff at Signature Mac Inc. and Mike and Shane Carper are very sorry for your loss. Mike and Shane have had the honer to know Joe and work with him over that last few years on a few projects. Joe will be greatly missed and we will cherish the wisdom and knowledge we learned from Joe. He was truly a great man and a good friend. Signature Mac and the Carper Family.

Peter Roberts

December 29, 2011

Mrs Ruffolo, I worked with Joe at North American and he will be missed but will be remembered as a great leader not only to the company but to the community in which he lived. My prayers to you and your family.

December 29, 2011

Caring for Joe in his last days was truly a blessing. He was an amazing man. Even his is last hours he had a great sense of humor and a wonderful heart. He will be missed by many.

December 29, 2011

To the Ruffolo Family,
We are so sorry to learn of Joe's passing and have great memories of our working together. He was a good man and a friend to us.
Hinchey Family
Matheson Transfer Company
Forty Fort, PA

Diana Sir Louis & Doug Rheinheimer

December 28, 2011

Linda, we are so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. I have never met another couple that brought so much encouragement and empowerment to my life. I am blessed to know you both. Our sympathies and prayers go out to you and your family.

December 28, 2011

Please accept our condolences and prayers. I first met Joe prior to Ken Maxfield retiring. He was the catalyst for employee morale and development at North American. He made it a point to greet and get to know employees throughout the building, encouraging us to whole-heartedly participate in company activities. He was such a great leader and an even greater joy to know. We (Angelina and I) were proud to be associated with Joe, and are saddened to learn of his passing. We will miss him; know that he will not be forgotten nor far from our hearts.
Bud and Angelina Amey, San Antonio, TX

December 28, 2011

Linda, accept our sympathy for your loss of Joe.What a guy he was all these years during the time I knew him, and I'm sure he was a great Husband and Father. Linda, our thoughts are with you and your family, and are sorry we can't offer them in person. Love to you all, Bill and Caroll Reitz

Ottie and Jack Messmann

December 28, 2011

Linda, we were so sorry to hear of Joe's death. He was a dear friend, and co-worker at NAVL. You,and your family, are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Ronnie Punch

December 28, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Brad Stiles

December 28, 2011

A dear friend. He will be missed by so many. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you.

Elise Benedict-Howard

December 28, 2011

My heartfelt sympathy. Joe was instrumental in the early days of my becoming an agent owner. He was the best. My prayers & thoughts are with you @ this most difficult time.

norma neuhouser

December 28, 2011

Linda - Words are not enough at this time! Joe always made everyone else feel at ease. The ENTIRE community is sad. I will truly will miss his great smile - words of encourgement and most of all his friendship! Our hearts are so VERY sad and - My Sweet Linda - feel my HUG!!! I may not be sitting next to you but I am there in prayer to ease your pain.
Deepest Symapthy
Norma and Kenny

December 28, 2011

Please accept our sincere condolences on Joe's passing. The thoughts of all of us from UAW Local 1389, Bowmar LLC are with you at this time of sorrow.

Vicki Wells

December 28, 2011

My deepest sympathies to Linda and Joe's family. I knew Linda from working for Ian Rolland. I knew Joe when Ruffolo Benson shared office space with Beckman Lawson. The contributions of Joe and Linda to the city over the years are too numerous to mention. He will be missed!!

December 28, 2011

Mrs. Ruffalo, I am so sorry for your lose. What a wonderful man Joe was. I knew Joe from NAVL and I believe he was the best CEO ever for that company. We missed him a great deal when he left. He gave so much to this community and will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Cindy Miller

December 28, 2011

To Linda and Joe's family, so sorry to learn of Joe's passing. Joe was truly a giant of a man and an inspiration to all of those who knew him. Elliott & Joyce Neubauer.

Mary Ellen Fitzsimonds

December 28, 2011

Julie,
Remembering a great man, father and grandfather, may you find comfort that he is no longer suffering. I'm praying for your family and hoping you know we are sending Theta love to support you during this sad time. I know you will share your special memories of your Dad with Jack and Luke and that will keep his memory alive for years to come.
Mary Ellen

Todd Steele

December 28, 2011

Terribly sad to learn of Joe's passing. On a personal level, Joe played an important role in my career at northAmerican for which I am tremendously grateful. His contributions to the Fort Wayne community cannot be over-stated. He will be greatly missed. My sincere sympathies to Linda and the family.

December 28, 2011

Oh Linda, so sorry to hear. Joe was a great person for this comunity and leaves a wonderful legacy. We know you will miss him greatly. Barb and Jim Richardson

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