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Susan Shatter Obituary

Susan Phyllis (Barman) Shatter

Susan Phyllis (Barman) Shatter, 60, of Dearborn passed away on May 16, 2020. Beloved high school sweetheart and wife of the late Brian Shatter. Loving mother of Ashley (Anthony) Scanlon and Jason Shatter. Dearest gigi of Mia, Albie and Rogan. Also survived by her siblings Anne (Ted) Marolla, Kevin Barman, and Jill (Jim) Cardona. She was preceded in death by her father Donald Barman, her mother Patricia Nichols, and her brother Marty Barman.

Susan was a caretaker through and through. She told stories of taking care of her future husband's grandparents at 19. She visited her mother, lovingly referred to as "LuLu" on a weekly basis until her last day. Above all, she cherished the bond she had with Mia Sophia. Susan will be deeply missed by family and friends.

No formal services. A memorial will be scheduled at a later date.

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Published by Detroit Free Press & The Detroit News from May 26 to May 27, 2020.

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Renee

May 20, 2024

You are so missed and loved by all. Jay and Ashley continue to make Brian and you so very-proud. RIP my friend. OXXO

Shelley Brown

October 12, 2020

Sue and i worked together a long time ago. My Ex husband and Brian remained friends until my x (Steve) passing. I am in shock. Sue was a kind loving woman. We shared many laughs, talks and just understanding. Im so very sorry, My Love and Prayers to Her Family and All who Miss and Love her, including her precious Grandchildren and Children xoxoxoxo Shelley

Shelley Brown

October 12, 2020

I just heard that You are in Heaven Sue, with Brian. I am in Shock. I am sending Love, Light, Reiki and Prayers to Your Family, and those who Love and Miss You. I know how hard Losses are for Families, and My Heart and Soul go out to Yours. Ive Wish i would have been able to be there with You Sue. God Bless , and Continue to watch over Your Beautiful Family. XO Shelley

Gloria Froman

June 16, 2020

I made out Sue's birthday card for June 19 and went online today to confirm her address and was astonished to learn she had passed away one month ago today! I worked with Sue for a short time in the chairman's office of the Cardiology Clinic at Henry Ford Hospital as her assistant, and she never failed to make me laugh. We could find the humor in almost anything, and we had fun working together. We kept in touch sporadically after we both left HFH and I always enjoyed her company. She will be missed! She loved her family so much, and my heart goes out to them in their loss. God bless Ashley, Jason and dear Mia, and all her beloved family.

Erika

June 8, 2020

I literally was just thinking about you yesterday. Only to find out about your passing (and Brians) today. My warmest and sincere condolences to their families, children and grandchildren.

Tim Mirabitur

June 1, 2020

All our prayers

Renee y

May 31, 2020

Dear Sue. The best hockey Mom and so fun to be around. Both You & Brian will,be missed. RIP

Belinda Carinci

May 30, 2020

Susie is how I remember her. She was very young the last time I saw her. I am her cousin and I moved to Florida right after college. Her dad was my dad's nephew. We only reconnected a few years ago on a Facebook family page where we shared memories. My heart goes out to her children and grandchildren. Gone too soon! Belinda Lambert Carinci

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