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Brenda Purdy Macri

1961 - 2018

Brenda Purdy Macri obituary, 1961-2018, Greenwich, CT

BORN

1961

DIED

2018

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Coxe & Graziano Funeral Home - Greenwich

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Greenwich, Connecticut

Brenda Macri Obituary

Brenda Purdy Macri
Feb 3, 1961-Dec 8, 2018Brenda Purdy Macri, a beloved Greenwich school teacher, passed away December 8, 2018 after a long battle with cancer. Her husband John Macri, Jr. and sons Christopher and James were by her side. Brenda was recognized as a remarkable educator, touching the lives of countless students, their families and the many colleagues and friends who were fortunate to know her. Brenda was born on February 3, 1961 in Denville, NJ to Deborah Sheldon Purdy and Theodore L. Purdy. She attended Denville schools and graduated from Morris Knolls Regional High School in 1979. Brenda received a Bachelor's of Science degree in Elementary and Special Education from Kean University in 1983. Following her graduation, Brenda began a career in the Greenwich Public Schools, spanning more than 35 years; continuing to teach her students until the weeks before her passing. After initially teaching Special Education at Eastern Junior High School, Brenda taught kindergarten and first grade at Hamilton Avenue School for seven years. There she established the foundation of many professional and personal relationships with fellow teachers, staff, students, and parents that would last the rest of her life. In 1987, Brenda received a Master's Degree in Reading Instruction from the College of New Rochelle and a 6th year diploma in Education from Laverne University. She began teaching first, second and third grade over the next twelve years at Cos Cob School. While at Cos Cob, Brenda was known for collaborating with her fellow teachers, producing some of the most innovative curriculum that challenged students to identify goals and their success in achieving them. Brenda developed new and unique lesson plans alongside many colleagues that elevated her own teaching and inspired her peers. She was especially proud of her work with Janet Stroble, Cynthia Sherwin, Gail Martin and Tascha Cardullo, among many, many others. Brenda was awarded the Connecticut State Celebration of Excellence in Education in 1997. In 1998 Brenda won a Fulbright scholarship allowing her to travel to Japan with fellow educators and students; immersing themselves in the Japanese culture. Brenda used the experience to develop notable curriculum that expanded her student's knowledge of Japanese culture. In 1999, Brenda was again awarded the Connecticut State Celebration of Excellence in Education for a second time. Greenwich Public Schools also selected Brenda as a Distinguished Teacher in recognition for her outstanding dedication and commitment to the education of Greenwich students. In the fall of that year, Brenda moved to the International School at Dundee, where she taught second grade and third grade until just a few weeks before her passing. Brenda did not teach for the accolades. She was, instead, dedicated to the importance of education and the relationships she developed with students, parents, and the Greenwich community. Students were known to often say how much they wanted to be in Mrs. Macri's class. In addition to her husband and sons, Brenda is survived by her mother Deborah Purdy, father Theodore and his wife Barbara, and her three sisters, Deborah Ann Troast and husband Jeff, Robin Purdy Murray, Dawn Kuipers and husband Bill; and her brother Ted and wife Susan. Brenda is loved and remembered by the Macri family, including John Sr. and mother-in-law Antoinette ("Petie") Macri, Paulette Macri Bodson, Dean and wife Marisa Macri, Meg Macri and husband James Doyle, Nick Macri and wife Sherri Hutchinson, and Amy Jo and husband Joe Grant. Brenda is remembered as a beloved aunt to 20 nieces and nephews from Alaska to California, Colorado, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, New York, Connecticut and Massachusetts. A Celebration of Life Memorial will be held Saturday, December 15 at 11:00 a.m. at St. Catherine of Sienna Church in Riverside. All are welcome. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Greenwich United Way's Reading Champions Program, or their Early Childhood Achievement Gap Solutions Program by contacting Jeremy Nappi, Greenwich United Way, 500 West Putnam Avenue, Suite 415, Greenwich, CT 06830. You may also make a donation in Brenda's name to one's charity of choice. For more information or to place an online condolence, www.coxeandgraziano.com.

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Published by Greenwich Time on Dec. 12, 2018.

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December 18, 2018

Im so incredibly sorry for your loss Mr. Macri. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Stacy

December 18, 2018

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

December 16, 2018

Dear John, James, and Chris,
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Brenda from my time at Western. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Bohan

Marisa Dalan

December 14, 2018

I'm saddened to hear of Mrs. Macri's passing. She was my children's teacher at Hamilton Ave. School. She and other teachers at Hamilton Ave. have been instrumental in shaping my children's education. My prayers go out to her family.

December 14, 2018

Dear John, James , & Christopher,
My heart goes out to you, how difficult it is to go through the transition of your dear wife and Mother, Brenda. What a wonderful sweet kind person she always was. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sent with Love,
Jack English

DORIS SAMBUCO

December 14, 2018

Sincerest condolences, May Brenda's Memory Be Always of A Blessing.
The Sambuco Family

Heaven Scent

a loved one

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Sharon Brosnahan -Rutledge

December 13, 2018

Dear John,
I was so sorry to read this sad news this evening. My heart is broken for you and your children. Please know my prayers are with you and the family.
Much Love

Joan Krall

December 13, 2018

I am so sorry for the Purdy Macri family's loss of such a wonderful lady. I had the pleasure of playing cards with the Purdy sisters in Vermont. What a memory. God Bless Brenda, RIP.

Rev. Heather Valosin

December 13, 2018

Denville Community Church is praying for all who mourn Brenda's passing.

Gracious Lavender

a loved one

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John Santoro

December 12, 2018

Dear John, Christopher, James, and family,

Brenda was and remains an inspiration to us all. She leaves behind an enduring legacy of kindness, strength, courage, and generosity.

December 12, 2018

We were so sad to hear this news. Brenda was a kind and warm person who brightened the neighborhood for all of us. We will be keeping the Macri Family in our hearts this holiday season.

Chris & Charity Hughes

December 12, 2018

So sorry for your loss. I had the opportunity to work alongside Brenda while at Cos cob School.
she was a wonderful teacher and colleague. Thoughts and prayers to all of you. Sarah Christie

December 12, 2018

So deeply sorry for your loss. May God's wonderful future promises console your hearts. (John 6:40)JWFlorida

Dan Williams

December 12, 2018

Dear John,
You and your family have my prayers and condolences. I fondly remember Brenda and my wife, Shirley, working together at Cos Cob School.
Dan Williams

December 12, 2018

John, Christopher and James,
Out thoughts and prayers are with you,
Fear not, for such a wonderful person now stands in the kingdom of GOD and has found peace after her struggle.
Bless all of you and you family.

Peace to all
The Dunsters

Lee Ann Vadala

December 12, 2018

My son had Brenda in the 2nd grade in Cos Cob School and I had the pleasure to work with her their also. She was a wonderful teacher and even better friend. Always there to listen.. Brenda will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

December 11, 2018

Dear Dawn,

We are so sorry to hear about your dear sister Brenda! She was a remarkable person, and we are sure you will miss her terribly.

Love, Alice and Ralph

Patrick Clarke

December 11, 2018

John,Christopher,James,entire Macri Family & Friends, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God blesssed your Family with such a beautiful Lady in countless ways. You have so many great memories to cherish for a lifetime. Brenda's numerous students will be forever grateful for the very positive influence she had in so many aspects of their lives. We share many great GHS Sports memories of Brenda cheering on her boys and her great sense of humor throughout the years. May God continue to Bless the Macri Family. With heartfelt sympathy, Sue & Pat Clarke & Family

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Celebration of Life

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