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2020

Samuel Trachtenberg Obituary

Samuel L. Trachtenberg
Samuel L. Trachtenberg, 86, of Greenwich, CT, passed away on April 20, 2020 due to complications from Covid-19. Sam was smart, kind, talented and wickedly funny.
Sam is survived by his wife, Alice McAtee of Greenwich, CT enjoying 32 very happy and devoted years; his daughters, Susan (Mario) Paula of Queens, NY, Mindy (Donald) Miles of Merritt Island, FL and Ilene (Timothy) Grimes of Marietta, GA; grandchildren, Katie Miles, Sarah (Charles) Grounds, Jack, Aidan and William Grimes and Hillary Paula; great-grandchildren Kalea Priester, Kayden and Charlie Grounds; nephew Alan (Shira) Honigstein.
Sam was born in Brooklyn, New York in 1934. At 6 years old, he both went to school and worked to help support his family after his father passed away. He learned to play the drums and was a prominent drummer in a band. Sam also ran errands for Bugsy Siegel, earning $.25 per errand, a lot of money back then.
Sam proudly served his country as a paratrooper in the 101st Airborne Division of the United States Army during the Korean War.
An entrepreneur, Sam purchased a taxi medallion and owned his own cab in the 1960's and 1970's in New York, an interesting time to be a taxi driver. Sam loved to strike up conversations with his riders, including many famous and influential people such as Rocky Graziano, Mohammad Ali, Walter Cronkite, Mike Wallace, Howard Cosell and Dennis Weaver, just to name a few.
In 1973, Sam relocated with his family to Old Greenwich, CT to become co-owner of beloved general merchandise store Cuff's, in the heart of the village. In addition to building a strong connection with the community as a small business owner, Sam was a father figure and role model to the many teenagers who worked for him at Cuff's, becoming known lovingly as Mr. T.
Never one to waste a minute of his time, Sam joined the Greenwich Police Department in the Special Officers Division, spending many hours on patrol when he wasn't at the store. He was the recipient of several police service commendations over many dedicated years of service, including the special police Exceptional Service Award.
Sam was very community oriented and enjoyed being of service, so after selling Cuff's in the late 1980's, Sam became a Vocational Counselor, helping people with mental illness acquire employment. In his later years, he volunteered for several organizations in Greenwich and Stamford, including Greenwich Hospital where he always brought a smile to the patients' faces.
Sam had many creative talents, though known mostly to his family. He never took an art class, yet he was a talented artist who could sketch, paint, and sculpt. He also had a beautiful singing voice and wrote a song or two.
Sam loved history and traveled all over the world, but his greatest past time was ship modeling. Sam was an avid model ship builder, well known in that community all across the country. He was always happy to donate his time, giving advice to other builders or fixing their ships that were in disrepair, requiring a special talent not known to many.
His greatest joy was spending time with his family. He was fiercely proud of his daughters and took great joy in teasing his sons-in-law, all in good humor. He especially loved taking his grandchildren to the local hobby shop to share his love of any and all creative interests.
His loss is deeply felt by his family and he will be sorely missed.
A memorial service will be held later this summer, date to be determined. On behalf of his family, they would like to extend a heartfelt "thank you" to the doctors and nurses at Greenwich Hospital for their kindness and for standing by him as his family was not able to physically be with him due to the virus.

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Published by Greenwich Time on Apr. 24, 2020.

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Rodger Stebbins

April 20, 2024

While co-owner of Cuff´s Stationery (Old Greenwich), Sam rode his modified used bicycle to and from the store during the warmer months. He had strapped to the raised handle bars a transistor radio tuned to his favorite country and western station. When I roused Sam about the banana seat mounted on his conventional bike, he replied, "I could race you with one leg tied behind my back."

So one Sunday afternoon after closing the store, I challenged Sam to a bike race as we pedaled side by side along Park Ave. "Get lost, you stiff," he quipped. Just as I chided Sam, he suddenly lunged ahead, pedaling with gusto. After we raced full speed to the intersection of Lockwood Rd., with a sublime grin Sam rounded the curb and switched on his radio. While turning toward Benjamin St., he exclaimed with a high-pitched, country twang, "YA, HA!"

Gail Calder

April 28, 2020

So saddened to learn of Sam's passing. He was a volunteer with the Thursday morning Escort Dept. Group at Greenwich Hospital. He was one of a kind whose quick wit had us laughing all the time. Rest in peace, Sam. Our condolences to your wife and family. Gail Calder and Valerie McAleer

Danielle Honigstein

April 27, 2020

I'm so sorry to hear about Sam's passing. Although I didn't know him well, after reading more about him, it is clear that he was a very special and loved person. I know he will live on in the hearts and minds of his family. I am sending my love to you all. <3

William Kristoph

April 26, 2020

I am saddened to her of Sam's passing.He rode with me on numerous occasions in Car #44 when I was an active Greenwich Police Officer and Sam was a Special Police Officer.He had many stories to tell which made the shift very entertaining. My condolences to his family. Rest in peace Sam.

Rodger Stebbins

April 25, 2020

The last three evening hours of work at Cuff's consisted of manning the register, stocking the front candy shelf, and listening to my stomach growl . . . with the exception of one delightfully entertaining night. As Sam rattled around the toy aisle of the store, momentary silence was followed by successive plastic dial winding that introduced a carnival of calliopes, Jack and Jill radio tunes, and music boxes. The animated cacophony of this toy orchestra tuning amused Sam and revealed a sentimental quality that surprised and pleased me. As the last clanky note ceased, I was acutely aware of having witnessed a splendid display of Sam's playfulness and unexpected magic.

Darlene Angotto

April 25, 2020

Dear Sue, Mindy, Ilene, and families,
I was so sad to hear of your Dad's passing. I have so many wonderful memories of him. Cuff's was a staple in Old Greenwich, and your Dad welcomed all who entered with his smile. Whenever I was at your house, he made me feel like family. Sending you all love and prayers during this terrible time. May your memories comfort you.
Love,
Darlene D'Arinzo Angotto

Robert (Fix-it) Williams

April 24, 2020

Dear Sam's family,
I am very sorry for your loss. Special Officer Sam rode with me in the patrol car on many occasions. He was a good partner on the road and we had a lot of laughs. He was very generous at Cuffs. He donated the toys to the Officer Children's Christmas party and refused to accept a dime for the toys. I will keep those good memories close of Sam

Michele Silagy

April 24, 2020

Ilene and family, we are very saddened to hear of your father's passing. Sending our thoughts and prayers. Love, The Silagys

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