Natalie (Pilling) DeMars passed away on Sunday, Oct. 14, 2012, at Merry Heart Health Care Center in Succasunna, N.J. She was 91 years old.
Born on July 13, 1921 in Meriden, Conn., to the late Everett and Edna Mae Pilling, Natalie resided in Coventry, Conn., and St. Augustine, Fla., prior to moving to the Succasunna section of Roxbury Township, N.J., in 2010.
Natalie was a homemaker and loved flowers. She was a Master Flower Show Judge with the National Garden Club where she was a lifetime member. Natalie raised geraniums on a wholesale and retail scale.
Devoted wife of the late Laurier, loving mother of Cynthia Flaherty of Landing, N.J., and Leanne Moran and husband, Barry of Coventry, Conn., adoring grandmother of Aimee Flaherty, Sean Flaherty and his wife, Jessica, Kelly Moran, Craig Moran and the late Kathleen Flaherty. Also surviving are two great-grandchildren.
Cremation services were conducted privately under the direction of Leber-Lakeside Funeral Home of Landing. A memorial graveside service will be conducted by the family in Coventry, Conn., at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please make donations in Natalie"s memory to a charity of your choice. For further information and to share a fond memory, please visit www.leberlakeside.com.
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6 Entries
October 15, 2013
Mom,
It has been a year since you left this life to a better place. I miss you, especially your laugh.
Love you,
Cindy
Judy Wyzik
October 20, 2012
Aunt Nat was a lovely, gracious lady who always welcomed everyone and made them feel at home. Uncle Larry would make one of his "powerful" drinks for all while Aunt Nat entertained us with the latest stories of her children and grandchildren, so proud of all. She enjoyed a good time (many good times!)and loved seeing family. To me her greatest accomplish and joy was her family. She will be missed.
October 19, 2012
Natalie was a wonderful flower designer and flower show judge. She shared her knowledge with others. She was missed when she moved from St. Augustine now she will always be remembered for her love of beauty, nature and jazz. Rosemary Comtois of St. Augustine Garden Club
October 19, 2012
Ms. DeMars,Thank you for teaching me the beauty of nature through your flowers, having me at your home so many days and nights. But most of all thank you for giving me my best friend, Lee. Have a wonderful journey!
October 17, 2012
My wonderful mother, I love you and will miss your, especially your wonderful smile. Thank you for all you did, and for loving Dad the way you did.
Cindy
Terry Nelson
October 16, 2012
Although I did not know her personally I have heard my Garden Club of St Augustine friends speak of her lovingly. I am sure she will be deeply missed.
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