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William A Petit Jr
July 23, 2025
Oh, the things you would be doing-helping others and raising your family. Miss you and love you always Dad
William A Petit Jr
July 21, 2024
Miss you and think of you every day
Love,
Dad
William A Petit Jr
July 21, 2023
Carrying on your work and love
You are with me every day
Dad
William A Petit Jr
July 21, 2022
Missing you and all you would be...trying to continue your kindness and good works
Love,
Dad
William Petit Jr
July 21, 2021
Hayley, I miss you so much every single day. You might be practicing with me as you could be done with a three year Fellowship this year. You were and will always be the best Love you always, Dad
Cindy Hawke-Renn
July 23, 2020
Haze, We miss you! Our world needs you as our Angel now! Please wrap your arms around us and keep us safe
Love you always, Auntie Cind’
William Petit
July 23, 2020
Love you ❤
patricia
July 22, 2020
he is an angel in heaven!! Rest in peace sweet Haley
William Petit Jr
July 21, 2020
Miss you every day....you we're a shining light.
Darryl Oswalt
April 30, 2020
You were the beauty in this otherwise ugly world.
RIP sweet Hayley.
Cindy Hawke-Renn
April 29, 2020
Hope you are looking over all of us in these uncertain (quarantining) times! I always looked at you admiring your hard work and determination realizing you knew those things would get you there! I'm not sure where exactly there means for most of us but maybe you can help guide us now to know and see exactly what and where that is more clearly ! Love you sweet Niece Hazie and always will! Auntie Cind'
❤
William Petit
April 29, 2020
Missing you every day...❤❤❤
Much love
Dad
Alexander Cirelli
April 28, 2020
So sorry for your loss. May these angel's Rest in Peace.
Darryl Oswalt
July 22, 2019
Dearest Hayley, I wish that there were more people in the world like you. You were taken away at a very young age. But there were people who knew of your potential that you could make this world a better place. RIP dearest Hayley.
Nancy Jones
July 22, 2019
Dear Hayley,
How can time go by so fast? Youre all grown up now in Heaven hours and we, by comparison, must seem so young and frail..and I suppose very much clueless(?) about real reality.
We need guidance, thats for sure and amazing grace, and keeping in touch with you..and knowing that love connects forever..youve done so much on this planet to make it a better place..your Dad has been your tireless advocate. Hes doing a great and worthy job and I know you shine inside extra big because of him.
Keep it up Hayley girl. Keep up the sunshine, were all better for it.
Much love,
Nancy
William A Petit Jr.
July 21, 2019
Hayley,
You would be 29 now...30 this fall. I miss you everyday. The world lost all of your potential. I hope the Fellowship in your name at CCMC is inspiring others to lead lives helping others. All my love. Dad
Patricia Groce
February 25, 2019
Rest in peace sweet angels! Moms is watching so is Dad!!
William A Petit Jr
February 22, 2019
Missing you every day. So much....you would have continued to create great love and great change in the world ♥♥♥
April 13, 2015
may god watch over you and your mother and sister in heaven rip
Senior year New England crew 2007
Dad
October 17, 2013
Hayley,
Missing you every day. Love you as much as ever. Thank you for all you have done. We all love you.
Dad
Nancy Jones
October 16, 2013
Happy Birthday Hayley. I think about you and your mom and little sis all the time. I know you still have important work to do here on earth. Angels can do that. Love to you beautiful girl. <3
Nancy Jones
October 15, 2012
Happy Birthday beautiful Hayley. You have touched my heart so deeply, my life is changed forever. Love to you beautiful girl, I think of you all the time.
October 10, 2012
Hayley girl,
I will always love you. You were the best daughter a dad could ever hope for. The world will never be able to experience all the good you could have done.
Love,
Dad
Linda Henman
October 9, 2012
Such a well writte obituary and tribute to this outstanding young lady. This story has left most of us speechless and badly shaken. I can't imagine how it is for the family. God help you all and Jennifer you fought the good fight the best you could. May you 3 girls be hugging each other in heaven now and touching the hem of the Lord's garment. Those left here are so sorry this happened to this wonderful family.
February 5, 2012
Very sad!!
October 30, 2011
What a beautiful girl and family, you were meant for greatness and now your with the great one. whatch over you father. You were taken way to young. God bless you and your beautiful family. J.Y Manhatten, NY
Darryl Oswalt
October 24, 2011
October 15th 2011 would have been your 22nd birthday. You were deemed for greatness. RIP.
Mona
October 15, 2011
Hayley, I wish I didn't know your or your family's names on this that would have been your 22nd birthday. I can't help but wish you a happy birthday in heaven. You are safe in God's arms now -- I pray that God will keep and forever comfort your Daddy and the rest of your earthly family and friends forever more. M
Nancy Jones
October 15, 2011
Happy Birthday beautiful Hayley! You are so missed for your caring leadership and beautiful spirit! Please keep sending us your blessings. I hear them and they are treasured.
Michala Kenney
October 11, 2011
I can feel nothing but sorrow and sadness for you. This was a horrible day that will always be remembered. I am only 13 but i read all the news article and listened to the news to see when these men were going to get their punishment. I wish the best for your father Dr. Petit and may you and your mother and sister rest in peace. God bless you.
September 22, 2011
Dear Dr. Petit, I can only echo Mr. Filakovsy's message. Know that you are not alone. You have many, many friends who are sitting in the courtroom by your side in spirit.
God bless you and your family.
Elizabeth Berkenkamp
Joseph Filakovsky
September 20, 2011
Dr Petit....As you endure another trial to ensure justice for your "girls," I want to commend you on your strength, love and devotion to your family and their memory. Although I can not even fathom what you went through and the depth of your loss, your strength is an inspiration to all who know the story of Jennifer, Hayley and Michaela.
Darryl Oswalt
July 23, 2011
Its been four years since evil made its presence felt and took you away from your family and those who cherished you. You are in a better place where no one will ever hurt you again. Rest in peace beautiful Hayley. You will never be forgotten.
June 18, 2011
I did not know you, I am so sorry. You are in a better place now and you will see your family again.
eddie keller
March 13, 2011
hey hale..sorry if no one calls you by that...its just..my best friend..an angel in her own way..well thats her name..and i always shorten it up to fit the way i feel most comfortable..so..i apologize if it feels strange being called by that nickname....Anyway..it's very strange..i mean..it's been awhile since I last visited you...whats up Hale...you don't know me..but In a way you do. See..I was once lost...completely and utterly broken...but it became angels of God..loke yourself..and michaela..and your mom..that keep the spirit and presence of God within me...sometimes I will pay Him no mind...and weeks could go by without as much as a thank you...but then...a slightly overcast sunday...intermittently interrupted by a beautiful cool sunshine on long island..well..its those days that I remember...(lol..and..i have a reminder on my email that let's me know when someone added a new entry...hence..the combination of the two occurences..well)...it makes me think...alot...about gratitude..we all love you...very very very much...until next time hun.....
Always
eddie
darryl oswalt
March 12, 2011
You were a great leader, a fantastic person, and a beautiful woman. You are sorely missed. Rest in peace.
Elizabeth Berkenkamp
January 28, 2011
For the Petit family.
Donna
January 27, 2011
Hayley…these quotes remind me of how you "lived" your life…
Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible.
(Saint Francis of Assisi)
Dignity and Respect has to do with what you are ready, willing, and able to accept within yourself and in accepting to be able to give others. It is your personal power to make a difference by being true to the best within you and letting that truth shine through your words and actions."
(Gail Pursell Elliott)
Thank you for having lived your life in a way that has benefitted the whole.
Darryl Osawlt
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas Beautiful Woman
Derek booth
December 13, 2010
I pray for all three of you!!!
Melanie Safir
December 11, 2010
Dr. Petit, Thank you for being brave and courageous in telling your story. You have impacted my life and for that I will always be grateful. I will never forget your beautiful family. I pray for peace and love to surround you and radiate through you. Your wife and children's spirits I feel them. Truth and pure love can never go away.
patricia ramos
December 10, 2010
So Sorry Dr. Petit On the loss of your Beautiful wife and your two beautiful daughters . My Heart Aches for you .....
Miche Prime
December 9, 2010
I watched the interview of Dr. Petit on Oprah today and my heart broke. What a horrific crime.
Dr. Petit, my heart goes out to you, you are a very courageus man and I will pray that God continues to give you the strenght to get up everyday and continue to live. I sincerely hope that some day you will find peace and happiness again. May your beloved and beautiful family rest in peace!
Amy Leiner
December 9, 2010
Dr. Petit,
You have changed my life for the better
and forever. The interview, you so eloquently gave to Oprah for all of us to hear, was the most beautiful expression of grief, hope and life, that I have ever experienced in my 50+ years. I was in the courthouse on the day before and the day of the jury handing over the verdict to support my friend who served on the jury. It was then that I felt such a strong connection to you and the Petit Foundation. I intend to be a full supporter of the Petit Foundation and would love to help anyway I can to help organize events or by donating what I do, to help raise money for MS.
Tomorrow, I plan on visiting the Memorial Garden. Peace is all around you now, Dr. Petit, just reach out and grab it, then pull it inside your soul so you can "live" in honor of the three woman who have changed so many lives.
You are my hero. Your interview was brilliant and hopefully smoothed some of those jagged edges in your heart.
With love and honor.
Steve Young
December 9, 2010
The Oprah interview has me in tears, God bless you Dr Petit. I hope you find peace.
elizabeth berkenkamp
November 23, 2010
Dr. Petit: God Bless you...,a beautiful family..treasured and remembered by so many.
Peace to you.
Darryl Oswalt
November 22, 2010
Dear Hayley Elizabeth, you're life was cut tragically short. I shed tears every time I think of what happened to you and your family. Ever since early on, everyone that you came into contact with knew that you were a very special woman because you were compassionate, caring, charitable, and civilized. You are sorely missed. God bless you.
cheryl B
November 9, 2010
I just heard of this story. I'm so sorry for your loss and all the pain your family endured. Sending you Peace and Love. God bless. Cheryl
Auntie Cind H~Renn
November 9, 2010
Little by little
getting Justice for You Hazie,
For your Mom and Little Sis,
It's all of you we miss. Continue to shine your lights into our lives!
Mike Ionescu
November 8, 2010
Dear Sir,
I am a grown man and I am sobbing watching you talk about your beautiful family.
God has given you amazing strength.
May they all rest in peace and watch over you and your family as the angels they should be.
Darryl Oswalt
October 22, 2010
May the love that you had for everyone that you came into contact with be the sunshine that everyone needs and that your leadership abilities be the inspiration that everyone needs. I wish that everyone is like you.
Joanna
October 15, 2010
I didn't know Hayley, but I realized that today would have been her 21st birthday. May God continue to give you the strength, Dr. Petit, to handle whatever you may have to face.
October 7, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are so very, very sorry for this tragedy and cry with you.
Mary, West Palm Beach, Florida
patricia groce
September 28, 2010
Dr Petit I agree,once the press in gone. Please relish in thier love. You have been so kind to bring to us your family in pictures. They are now in a differnt plane but still here. To guide you and heal you. Nothing anyone can say to feel your pain and anguish only you will know it is time to heal...could be 10 yrs 20 or more or less. this does not mean to let go.. your love could never let go. But in due time you will remember the good times with them and feel their love..Pat Groce Kew Gardens ny
Edward Keller
September 26, 2010
Dr. Petit:
I have been trying to find the appropriate manner and words in which to convey my most heartfelt sympathy to you, but. it has become glaringly evident that there isn't any. Nor will there ever be. What I can and will do each and every day hereforward, asking my parents and four brothers and sisters to do the same, and they most definitely will, is to pray for your strength, courage and will to carry on. My God! Im not sure how, but when your ready...please turn to Him for refuge from the pain. As I write this, chills run through my body when, in my own mind, my thoughts turn to yours. The unfathomable grief, pain, and your thoughts,and your feelings when all is said and done. When the cameras are turned off and the thousands have vanished, resuming the lives of their own. Please, please Mr. Petit...we are all here for you in each and every way! And We ALWAYS will be, just say the word, and I as well as thousands others will be there...waiting...praying..praying for your strength...for your peace of mind...and the precious precious souls of your Jennifer, your Hayley and your Michaela. Please..Please Lord God,...hear our cries of anguish and pain, and those of my most recent friend and brother, Dr. William Petit. Watch over him ALWAYS!
Eddie Keller
September 23, 2010
Dear Haley, you beautiful young Leader, your vision is so far reaching..we are listening, keep Leading..we are following, keep entrusting us..we will carry your dreams in our hearts, keep believing...and we will make them all come true.
~Nancy Jones, MD
Connie
September 22, 2010
Praying for you and your family from Wilton, Connecticut.
Wishing you peace, wishing you justice
patricia groce
September 22, 2010
Dr. Petit I have read your familys story since the onset. Truly Tragic. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. You Truly have the "ANGELS LOOKING AFTER YOU' May you find peace in your sorrow. And joy in your thoughts of the ones you so loved and now miss. It takes time my loss was not so violent but a loss.....In due time the pain will begone...All those terrific memories will supercede the negatives! You will soon relish in thier love! They will want you to move forward. Have a life but know they are always near.
September 21, 2010
May the peace of Christ give you total and complete peace Dr. Petit. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
September 19, 2010
Dear Dr. Petit,
I have only very recently learned of the heinous crimes committed against your beautiful wife and daughters, and yourself. Simple heartfelt words of a stranger cannot possibly take your pain away, but I deeply wish that this message and loving thoughts from across the world, could help to ease the horrific agony that you and your innocent, happy family suffered.
With sincere sympathy and deepest wishes for your recovery,
Susan A'hearn,
Germany.
My deepest sympathies.
September 18, 2010
Dear Dr. Petit - May God bless you and your entire family. God show His grace on the entire Petit and Hawke families. May God rest the souls of your precious Angels too. The dignity and courage you all have shown is both remarkable and honorable. No one will ever truly understand the enourmous pain you carry-no one. Stay strong and justice will prevail. God bless you.
Marie Chestnut
September 16, 2010
Dear Dr. Petit: I never knew about your family and this horrible tragedy until recently. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you have endured. I admire your courage and I pray you receive the justice your beloved family deserves. God bless.
Caroline Longacre
September 15, 2010
I'm so so so sorry...I could never imagine.
Love,
Caroline L.
j norman
September 15, 2010
i can't imagine your pain, god will help you through.
Barbara Kimbro
September 14, 2010
Never forgetting the tragedy in your life, Dr. Petit. My prayers are always for your future happiness.
Cheryl Gallagher
September 13, 2010
God Bless!
August 23, 2010
Mr. Petit,
Remembering your loved ones and praying for you daily.
Cindy Hawke-Renn
August 23, 2010
We light a candle to remember your presence in our world Hayley. We are still working on the Justice thing!
Myron Goldstein
August 16, 2010
To the Petit Family,
It's has been almost three years since this tragedy but the victimes are not forgotten. They are all in a far better place and in good hands with G_d.
Cheryl
January 31, 2009
Dr. Petit and Family:
My mind has been thinking about about the Petit family and I have sorrow in my heart for what happened to them. I can't even begin to say how horrible this all is - it has all already been said. But if I could do something to change what happened and make it not be so, I really would. At least there is some comfort in knowing that these three beautiful ladies had good lives while they were here. And I hope it helps a bit to know that there are people who do care about Dr. Petit and his family and do think about them often.
-CHERYL-
Lissette Asensio
October 6, 2008
Dr. Petit:
I do not know you personally, nor did I have the pleasure of knowing your beautiful wife and daughters. Yet, I think of all of you often and pray for you. I cannot think of words that will console you, but I wanted you to know that strangers, such as myself, are with you in spirit and thought.
Sincerely,
Cindy Renn
July 25, 2008
Hayzie, We love you, You 're forever be in our hearts and minds. We were so happy to share in your life here on earth. We're all trying to follow your example. Till heaven...Love Auntie Cind', Uncle Bill, Evan & Lydia
July 24, 2008
There are stars whose radiance is visible on earth though they have long been extinct. There are people whose brilliance continues to light the world even though they are no longer among the living. These lights are particularly bright when the night is dark. They light the way for humanity.
by Hannah Senesh
Hayley, your radiance has touched the hearts of so many. It can never be extinguished.
Susan Anderson
July 23, 2008
You live on in the hearts of all those you touched and continue to touch from your place in heaven. Good things continue to happen, because of you and in your name. God bless the family you left behind.
July 23, 2008
Still thinking of you one year later....as we all will continue to do.
Forever in our hearts.
Hayley and Michaela
William A Petit jr
July 2, 2008
Hayley girl, I miss you every day; it is a tragedy that the world will miss all that you had to offer. You were a shining light, a luminary of hope. Love, Dad
Barbara Templeton
August 16, 2007
Dear Dr. Petit,
Everyday I pray that you will be relieved of your suffering and that you will find peace.
Sincerely,
Barbara Templeton
(sister of Maria Andrews-a patient)
Maria Andrews
August 16, 2007
Bill:
I am still praying for you and thinking of you daily. My prayers are for the Lord to give you His special Grace and His Peace and to surround you with His Love; that he make His presence known to you in a special way whenever you need it most.
My thoughts and my heart are with you.
May you have peace............
Your friend and patient,
Maria Andrews
Picard
August 15, 2007
Mr. Petit,
It is August 15th and I want you to know that there still isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you, your wife and lovely girls. My prayers and thoughts will be forever with you and your family.
Louisa McLeish
August 14, 2007
Dr Petit, my heart goes out to you and, all that you have suffered. I have no great words of wisdom, only that nothing can seperate us from the Love of God. May His Grace be truely with you. We used to live in Cheshire but have returned to the uk. I was shocked and saddened at the awful news. Please take care. Love Louisa and Paul McLeish. England
Maddie Hobbs
August 13, 2007
Dear Dr. Petit,
I did not personally know your daughter, but one of my friends did. I know that this was a very tragic event that occured, but your daughter is in heaven and will be watching over you until you can meet her in heaven. You are in my prayers. God Bless you.
Kristi
August 10, 2007
Dear Dr. Petit,
Please know that there are countless, countless people who are thinking of and praying for you and your family every single day. Since learning of your loss, I have not looked at life the same.... instead cherishing every single moment, and honoring the good work of your beloved Jennifer, Hayley, and Michaela by trying even more to help others. Our prayers are with you always. God bless.
Linda Stroud
August 7, 2007
Dr. Petit, I spent the U.M. ARMY week of 2005 and 2006 with Hayley. What a beautiful young lady and spirit. My heart has been broken since the news of this tragedy reached me. I so admire your strength and faith in this time of adversity. God bless you always!
Anne Meredith
August 7, 2007
Dear Dr.Petit, I can't imagine your grief. I am so sorry for your loss and think of you and your beautiful wife and daughters everyday.
The Martinelli Family
August 6, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
theresa uzupes
August 3, 2007
our deepest sypmpathy's go out to the petit family
judith williams
August 2, 2007
DR Petit my mother and I send you our deepest sympathy through these tough times.Please know that you are in the hearts and prayers of many.
janet almeida
August 1, 2007
my dear dr.petit = please receive my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your beautiful family i cannot imagine how you are dealing with your loss. i am a visiting nurse in ct. my son in law works for aventis and his team sees you in your office and have reported what a wonderful md you are. god bless.
Rose Maglio
August 1, 2007
Bill,
Hayley is the angel you always knew she was. My heartfelt symapthy goes out to you. Find peace in knowing that Hayley, Michaela and Jennifer are with God and watching over you and helping you overcome this terrible tragedy. Your love for them will sustain and comfort you as the days pass. My prayers are with you and your family now and always.
August 1, 2007
I think about your family everyday. There are no words to soothe your hearts. I do not know your family but myself along with countless of others are thinking of you. god bless.
Terry Spencer
August 1, 2007
Prayers of comfort, healing and peace continue for Dr. Petit,his family and all who are grieving this loss.
Terry
August 1, 2007
Dear Dr. Petit:
I knew you in high school as Billy, I was in the class of 72. I can't tell you how deeply sad I am at your loss of your beautiful family. My heart and prayers go out to you. Your steadfast faith in God will help you through the hard days ahead. He will be there for you.
Sincerely, Terry
Marni
August 1, 2007
My deepest sympathies are with the Petit and Hawke families. All three women were obviously beautiful, caring, amazing people. The world grieves with you and prays for your ability to go on.
Judy & Mark Nielsen
July 31, 2007
Dear Petit Family:
Our sincere prayers are with you at this difficult time. May the Lord hold your family in his arms and embrace your hearts and tears.
God Bless you.
Mark & Judy Nielsen & Family
Bristol, CT
Randy
July 31, 2007
you are in my thoughts & prayers, May God hold you in his loving arms.
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