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Alan Carpenter Obituary

Alan Jeffrey Carpenter, 53, of Mansfield, died Sunday, June 16, 2019, after a long fight against lung cancer. He was born in Manchester, the son of Don and Maude (Wilson) Carpenter. Alan grew up in Bolton and attended Bolton Elementary, Center and High Schools, graduating in 1984. He lived in and around Manchester most of his life with a brief stint in San Francisco, CA. He worked a seemingly random series of jobs throughout his life, primarily focusing on the information technology field in the insurance industry. He was most proud of the work he did for the Chronicle, a Willimantic CT based local newspaper where he was known to do everything from delivery to managing the business office and managing the IT department. He felt he made a real difference there. Alan was an avid music fan and at times throughout the years he found occasional work as a singer and performer in various night clubs. He enjoyed playing harmonica, piano, organ and singing. When he found time, he enjoyed creating home-based recordings. Alan was proud of his longtime friendship and association with the band "Hardwood" and his many, many performances with them. In addition to his mother, he is survived by his longtime love of 23 years, Lisa Touloumjian, of Mansfield, formerly of Coventry, his brother Keith Carpenter of CA; sister Sharon Fish of Manchester, sister Rosemary Johnson and her husband Rod of Manchester, sister Carol Carpenter of Chester, sister Jean Carpenter of Ellington as well as his nieces and nephews Kristin Freund, Michael Carpenter, Duwayne Turner, Linnea Johnson, Brian Carpenter and Sou, great-nephew Khane, Kyle Johnson, Deonnedre Jones and Danisa Jones. He was predeceased by his father and brother David Carpenter. A time of visitation for family and friends will be held on Thursday, June 20, 2019 from 4-7 p.m. at Holmes-Watkins Funeral Home, 400 Main St., Manchester. Burial will take place at the convenience of his family in East Cemetery, Manchester. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude's Place, Memphis, TN 38105-1942 or to the Shriner's Children's Hospital, 516 Carew St., Springfield, MA 01104-2396. To leave an online message of condolence for his family, please visit www.holmeswatkins.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 18, 2019.

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Ray and Marianne Wilcox

June 23, 2019

Dear Maude and Family - our sincere sympathy on the loss of Alan. Due to late work schedule we were unable to see you on Thursday, but our thoughts were with you.

June 22, 2019

My prayers and heart felt thoughts go out to the Carpenter family! So very sorry! God bless. Love, Charlotte Ferguson

Sadie And Chey

June 22, 2019

We love you the man, Sadie and Cheyenne

Kim Allen

June 20, 2019

My deepest sympathies for your loss. I will always remember him playing his harmonica and singing with the guys (Hardwood). Alan was a caring friendly guy and so talented, who always had a kind word. There's not many people who can play a harmonica like he could. I wish I was able to been there tonight. My heart goes out to you all.
Sincerely,
Kim

Claudette Leveille

June 19, 2019

Lisa and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers.

Tracy Levy

June 18, 2019

My deepest sympathy to the loss of Alan.

I'm so very sorry. He's not in pain anymore and is at peace.

Lisa, I'll be thinking of you and prayers will be sent your way.

Love you
Tracy

Linda C

June 18, 2019

I'm very sorry to hear of Al's passing, with love

June 18, 2019

So sorry for your loss...Tom and Noreen Nichols Carpenter

June 18, 2019

To the family
May the God of all comfort give you the strength to endure at this time ...
Those who pass on. God keeps in his memory
and gives us the wonderful hope to look forward to in the near future...
Hosea 13:14.

June 18, 2019

To the family
May the God of all comfort give you the strength to endure at this time
Those who pass on. God keeps in his memory.
And gives us a wonderful hope to look forward to in the near future....Hosea 13:14.

June 17, 2019

Our heartfelt condolences to your family. May the God of all comfort strengthen you during this difficult time.
John 11:24, 25

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