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John Suisman Obituary

With deep sadness, the family of John Robert Suisman announces his passing on September 9, 2019. His passion for golf and professional sports was only surpassed by his love for his family. His marriage to Kathryn Lehman Suisman of 54 years was filled with laughter and admiration. John was a proud father to Lisa Parsons, Carolyn Shaughnessy, Stacey Keenan and Jennifer Suisman and their husbands, Ned Parsons, Sean Shaughnessy, Matt Keenan and Jack Holmes. John had a truly special relationship with each of his grandchildren: Will and Charlie Parsons; Thomas and Emily Shaugnessy; Sam, Ned and Ellie Keenan. John is also survived by his brother Richard and predeceased by his parents Edward and Etta Suisman and his brother Michael. Born and raised in West Hartford, Connecticut John graduated from Loomis and Yale University. An English major, John had a passion for literature, was an avid reader and there wasn't a day that he missed the New York Times crossword puzzle. A gifted amateur golfer, John was a two-year captain of the Yale golf team and counts among the highlights of his golfing career qualifying and competing in the US Amatuer in 1960 and winning numerous club championships. John's business career started as a partner of Suisman Blumenthal, followed by a metal brokerage business which he founded. Later on he and his brother Richard developed real estate together in the Greater Hartford area. John was active in the Hartford community where he and his family gave back to a wide range of organizations and causes including serving as President of Mt. Sinai Hospital, Campaign Chairman of the Hartford Jewish Federation and Renbrook School. He served on the Executive Committee of the United States Golf Association and served on the board of the Hartford Stage Company and The First Tee of Connecticut. In 1993, John's life changed dramatically when he lost his legs in a car accident. Despite the challenges that he met in his daily life, John never let his accident define him. He learned to channel his energies in different directions including working closely with an amputee support group helping others adjust to the changes in their lives at the Mount Sinai Rehab Hospital. A fiercely loyal New York sports fan, whether it was the Yankees or the Giants, John also loved nothing more than cheering on his teams in the company of his good friends. But nothing brought more joy to John's life than spending time with his family. He had a special relationship with each of his 7 grandchildren who deemed him all time quarterback from his wheelchair. John defined resilience and dignity and inspired his family and friends with his determination in the face of adversity. His dry wit, his warm smile and his generosity will be remembered by all who came in contact with him and we will love him and miss him forever. Services will be held Wednesday, September 11 at 1:30 pm at Beth Israel Temple, 701 Farmington Avenue, West Hartford, Connecticut. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to: Mount Sinai Rehabilitation Hospital, 114 Woodland Street, Hartford, CT. http://www.stfranciscare.org

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Published by Hartford Courant on Sep. 10, 2019.

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James Kelley

April 21, 2023

Sorry this is so late. John was a great friend of mine beginning with my senior year at Loomis. We spent a great deal of time together in the ensuing years, that time I think very enjoyable for both of us. John was a true gentleman with a generous heart. Jim kelley

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Rabbi Gerald Zelermyer

November 3, 2019

John was one of the most refined men I have ever had the pleasure to serve at the Emanuel. A conversation with him an opportunity to connect with intellectual give and take. He was a regular at my weekly Talmud group downtown and the drive to and from those gatherings was always punctuated with humor and thoughtful take-a-ways. His memory will no doubt glow for all who admired and had emotions for him. May his spirit generate a lasting reason to allow his gentle and genteel live on. Rabbi Gerald Zelermyer.

Donna & Dennis Hubbs

September 18, 2019

Kathryn - We just learned about John's death this evening and we are SO sorry to hear. Having just gotten to know the 2 of you, I appreciated his kindness and generosity of heart and spirit. May he rest in peace and may you know the solace that only God can give. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.

Fondly,

September 14, 2019

He will be missed at Mount Sinai Hospital !

Tom Gostyla

Kathy Rick

September 14, 2019

So sorry for the loss of your father.

Kathy and Rick Ryan

Jeff Max

September 13, 2019

My condolences to the Suisman family-John was a true gentlemen - had the pleasure of knowing him for 65 years--RIP - he will be miss3ed by all that new him.

Tim Hickey

September 13, 2019

Sorry for your loss. Go Yankees!!

Mark Moriarty

September 11, 2019

Our deepest sympathies to the family of Mr. Suisman. He was a true gentleman and a great friend to all in the golf world. We are so very thankful for his early involvement on the board of The First Tee in Connecticut and for his long standing support of our organization.

Mark Moriarty

September 11, 2019

My condolences to the family of Mr. Suisman. He was a true gentleman and a great friend to all in the golf world. We appreciate his early involvement on the board of The First Tee in Connecticut and his ongoing support of our mission.

Debbie Savitt First

September 11, 2019

Dear Suisman family,

Please know we are thinking of all of you.

Having grown up in West Hartford, we knew John mostly for his
stand-out athletics and courage.

John and the Suisman family are Hartford gems -- known for leadership, community and philanthropy.

Our dad would have said about John:
"There is a new star in heaven; John Robert Suisman

Bob and Debbie Savitt First / Tom and Spring Savitt Asher

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Courtney Silk

September 10, 2019

Dear Suisman Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. John was an incredibly accomplished man who led a very full life. His courage in the face of adversity has been an inspiration to so many.

Thoughts are with each of you.
-Courtney Silk

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Glenn Shafer

September 10, 2019

To the entire extended Suisman Family, I am very sorry for your loss. John was an iconic figure for many reasons and represents a meaningful chapter of life for many. You will always have the memories and the love.

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Sent Flowers

September 10, 2019

So sorry for your loss.
Brian, Marcey & Charlie Hickey

I will Miss my Uncle John but my heart is broken for my Aunt Kathy, John's daughters and wonderful family.

Joy Mclean

September 10, 2019

Howie Friday

September 9, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. John was an amazing man and friend. I will miss our lessons and our daily talks about the Yankees and Giants! He touched so many lives and will be missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!

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